defygravity

Well that's basically how things happened with the guy i've been dating for a year now...We worked together for a year and after awhile, I kind of had feelings for him...when I told him he was a little surprised because he hadn't thought of me that way (after a previous relationship with a coworker that just didn't work out, he vowed to never have a relationship with a coworker again- although he changed his mind when he met me) but we decided to go out a few times and here we are a year later.....

I know....I just think that's one concern a girl may have....I guess I wa thinking more along the lines of an evening date.....but meeting for coffee or whatever is cool....... so you're right, i'm wrong

Well for me personally I think it's just a safety thing...I don't know if I'd want to go out with some random guy that I don't know at all....at least on my own....so obviously it's different for guys because I don't think they'd have that same concern...do you know what I mean?

The only way I would ask a guy out is if I know him and I like him.....I'm very open and straight up with that kind of stuff....however with strangers, I'd approach them and start a conversation with them but I don't think I would ask them out right away....although I might hint and them asking ME out....of course you have to be careful and the converstaion has to go well before I'd agree to anything....

I'd say C....only because only two guys have tried it and neither knew what they were doing....

I guess I'm feeling a little lonely these days too...my boyfriend moved away about a month ago and my friends have all kind of gone their separate ways...I've been so busy with school I haven't had time to make much of an effort to make new friends... Even though I'm still with my boyfriend, I still feel extremely alone...He'll be coming back to visit though But then he'll go back home again and these feelings will start up again......oh well..... I find the best way to deal with those feelings are to just keep busy...instead of just sitting around, try to get out even for coffee with a friend or something....

Ever since I was little, I've had this fear of having someone break into my house while I'm at home and kill me...I know it's stupid but it's something that has worried me for years. When my parents started leaving me home alone however many years ago, I started having this recurring dream that I was home alone, someone broke in, and stabbed me to death I'm 18 and I STILL hate being home alone. When my parents go away for a night or a weekend, I usually try to get someone to come stay with me but when I can't find someone, I get really paranoid and have trouble actaully going to sleep... I just need to find a way to DEAL with this fear...when I think about it rationally I KNOW that it's not THAT likely to happen but it did happen to a couple girls I know when they were alone....and they only live up the street from me.... I don't like having the TV up very loud or having any music on at all because I tell myself that it's better if I can hear them actaully coming in...and we do have an alarm which I can put on when I'm home but it still doesn't make me feel any better... Is there any way I can deal with this fear? I'm sick of it!! Oh and I have no siblings so it's not like I can ask them to stay home with me or anything.... Thanks

I think it's fine....although I may be biased as I'm 18 and my boyfriend is almost 24.....in high school a couple years can make a difference but as you get older, it's really not a big deal...it all just depends on maturity levels I guess...

Exercise and watch what you eat...that's all I can suggest... of course do something active that you ENJOY...forcing yourself to go to the gym when you really don't want to sucks...if you like running, try going a few times a week, if you enjoy playing soccer or something, do that...it's good to mix it up a little too so you don't get bored... you don't even have to go on a diet to lose weight either....just choosing carrot sticks over potoato chips when you need a snack makes a difference...

I actually had that conversation with my boyfriend that moved away a few weeks ago....He thinks it's better to wait longer to see each other and I would rather see him in the next month or so...I know it will be really hard saying goodbye to him but because I think because we're new to this LDR thing, I need to see him in the next little while just to know that things are okay....so I dont know....we shall wait for the experienced LDR people to reply!

If its still in the forming stage and hasn't come to a head yet, try tea tree oil...you can get it at The Body Shop for sure and it worked really well for me....you just put it on with a Q-tip before you go to bed....

Well I'm only 5-1"ish and to be honest, I tend to be more attracted to guys that are between 5'4" and 5'9"...I don't know why but I like shorter guys! So don't worry! It's too awkward kissing guys that are over 6' anyways...they TOWER over me!

If you're a good friend with her brother and you want to maintain that friendship, be honest with him...There's a good chance that if you go behind his back and do stuff with his sister that he'll be VERY angry.... Can you wait until you see her again and talk to her about keeping in touch? If the two of you start getting close, I think it would be best to be honest with your friend...

I am also female but I will also comment... I have heard many guys say that intelligence is important....my friends had a conversation about this a few weeks ago....the five males involved in the conversation agreed that in the long run, intelligence is much more important than looks....The females involved (including myself) also agreed on the importance of intelligence... So from what I've heard and from what I personally think, both males and females look for an intelligent bf/gf...

Well how long did it take you to change positions? If it was a minute or longer, then it's not THAT weird for it to go down.....I know if I had to stop in the middle of pleasuring my boyfriend for a minute or so, he'd start to go down... If if was a very short period of time, I don't know...