wannalove25 Posted November 16, 2011 Share Posted November 16, 2011 Ok so i am a 25 year old .me and my baby father was in a complicated relationship but he is now in jail. After he went to jail he finds out a girl says she is pregnant for him...i heard from people that he use to use her and kinda mess with her.he have 5 little girls and i had his only son which is the baby out of his children. The whole time she was pregnant he always told me he did not believe the child was his..he want a dna test when he get out of jail.i was kinda believing that part but i was still pissed that there was that possibility.i kinda let it go but still act funny with him and throw it in his face every now and then.now the girl had the baby and it is a boy!!!! The baby middle name is also the name he wanted me to name our son.and that right there sent flags up because i know she aint think of that name herself.so hhe must be keeping in touch with her while he in jail.tellin me one thing and her another.i wrote him in rage.he received the letter and called me actually today. I asked him about the name and is that his baby..he said yes!!!! Im sooo hurt for a few reasons..1 is that now my baby isnt the baby anymore .2 i felt a little special since i was the only one out of all the baby mothers he have had his 1st and only son.and 2 im afraid that now im in competition with the other girl.i dont know what to do. I wanna just take my son away from him and his side of the family . I dont want my baby around this new baby..maybe im just highly pissed and being mean.but i am sooo sad and hurt. He lied to me!! He said it was not his child . He wanted a dna test..now he claiming the child.he always told me ill always be special because i gave him his first and only son.(tears) now i just dont feel special at all! (tears)) could somebody cheer me up? Help me see the bright side of this?? How to deal with this?? Im soooo sad!! Im actually crying now..im afraid he will be closer to that child then mine. Maybe im speaking crazy i dont kno...please reply thanks in advance Link to comment
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