Bolegged04 Posted September 8, 2011 Share Posted September 8, 2011 Hello all, My ex boyfriend and I broke up a month ago. He didnt communicate well, had anger and verbal abuse issues. He got really upset that I went out with my friends one night (something I rarely do) and didnt talk to me for 3 days. He would hang up on me, curse me out, and say really mean things. Well, I would always make an excuse (big mistake) for his actions especially if we were in front of others. I fell asleep one night while we were watching a movie and he blew up saying i was being disrespectful and rude. I apologized, but he continued to rant and then got up and left. I had never dealt with someone like that before so I tried to stay and hope that it change for the better (big mistake #2). After about 4 months, I told him I couldnt take it and I was going to walk away if he didnt change. He told me F*** me, and cut off all communications with me. I wasnt surprised, but i was hurt. Im further along in my healing process that I dont even want to know why he treated me that way. Now he is trying to come back saying he is sorry and he dont want to miss out on a good woman. I havent responded back to him, and i know if i do, it will be something harsh. What would you do? Link to comment
Imthatguy Posted September 8, 2011 Share Posted September 8, 2011 Ignore it. You've acknowledged that there were several mistake and he will not change, certainly not that quick. You'll be much better off just letting it go. Link to comment
w3536 Posted September 8, 2011 Share Posted September 8, 2011 dont do it! dont text him back at all! please im telling you from very recent experience not to. people like that dont change. i know that in the end you'll do what ever you want but if you could learn from my experience is dont respond to a text from your ex. their feelings are not your responsibility anymore... Link to comment
oldenoughtoknow Posted September 8, 2011 Share Posted September 8, 2011 This is the classic cycle of abuse. They are master manipulators when they want you back. Don't put yourself back into harm's way. You're free. Do NOT respond. Link to comment
RoyalPaul Posted September 8, 2011 Share Posted September 8, 2011 I agree with the other responses, do not even reply. Carry on going out with your friends and have fun, you sound like a nice person and you deserve to be with somebody that treats you with respect and values you, your ex from the sounds of it does not. Link to comment
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