Leona700 Posted April 8, 2011 Share Posted April 8, 2011 I suspected for a while that my bf might be bi or gay. Twice when we got intimate he came home drunk and started messing around and going "oh man, oh man, oh man". Then last night as we started getting intimate after his sentences he would add man to it. LIke "come here, get closer man"or whatever the sentence would be he would add man to at the end of it. Sometimes i feel like when we are intimate he is fantasizing about a man. I have asked him in the past if he was bi or gay. Link to comment
hexaemeron Posted April 8, 2011 Share Posted April 8, 2011 It sounds like he's just talking like a "bro" -- I don't think this means he's gay. However, there's a huge likelyhood he's a douchebag. Link to comment
guynextdoor Posted April 8, 2011 Share Posted April 8, 2011 I'm sure its a bad habit he's making by adding man to the end of each sentence, know what I'm sayin man? Link to comment
Fizz123 Posted April 8, 2011 Share Posted April 8, 2011 I'm sure its a bad habit he's making by adding man to the end of each sentence, know what I'm sayin man? I totally get what you're saying man. Yeah, I doubt it means he's gay. Link to comment
Leona700 Posted April 8, 2011 Author Share Posted April 8, 2011 Hes only doing this when hes horny though which makes me question if in fact that turns him on. Another thing is he kisses my qin in a way almost as if giving my qin head. THe next day he accidently said you have some food on your d*... I was like what. He was like in your qin you have something. Im like thats not what you said. I dont think im paranoid honestly on daily basis he says something that i feel is off. Link to comment
hexaemeron Posted April 8, 2011 Share Posted April 8, 2011 Uh, then leave? I don't know. It really doesn't seem like he's gay from what you're saying, I'm sorry. Trust me, I'm gay! Link to comment
PaintWithLight Posted April 8, 2011 Share Posted April 8, 2011 Okay. We have "man" and qin kissing... what else is making the red lights go on? Link to comment
Leona700 Posted April 8, 2011 Author Share Posted April 8, 2011 I guess my concern is what man calls his gf man repeaditly when they are having sex. I dont know its almost a sense of feeling that i get. I hope hes not gay or bi because i dont know how to handle that because i do love him. Link to comment
Ariel85 Posted April 8, 2011 Share Posted April 8, 2011 Does he only like sex doggy style? Link to comment
FathomFear Posted April 8, 2011 Share Posted April 8, 2011 Does he only like sex doggy style? Uh...how would that be relevant at all? And in regards to the original issue, many guys just put "man" on the end of sentences randomly. It doesn't mean "man" as in "male". It's just an affirmation. It's like how western Canadians put "Eh" on the end of every sentence. It doens't really mean anything. Link to comment
Ariel85 Posted April 8, 2011 Share Posted April 8, 2011 Uh...how would that be relevant at all? And in regards to the original issue, many guys just put "man" on the end of sentences randomly. It doesn't mean "man" as in "male". It's just an affirmation. It's like how western Canadians put "Eh" on the end of every sentence. It doens't really mean anything. I was being sardonic. I don't think he's gay. To me, it sounds like when he's drunk, he gets a little more primal and lax. If he's eating the peach, he's not gay. Link to comment
RedDress Posted April 9, 2011 Share Posted April 9, 2011 It sounds like he's just talking like a "bro" -- I don't think this means he's gay. However, there's a huge likelyhood he's a douchebag. LOL! Love it! Yup. I think that he's just really convinced that he's cool. Link to comment
catfeeder Posted April 9, 2011 Share Posted April 9, 2011 Could be worse, at least he's not calling you, "Y'all". Link to comment
annie24 Posted April 9, 2011 Share Posted April 9, 2011 if you have sex and he says 'oh god' it doesn't mean he is calling you god either!! Link to comment
BellaDonna Posted April 9, 2011 Share Posted April 9, 2011 I'm sure it is just an over-used figure of speech with him. I wouldn't worry. Link to comment
Nerdyjock Posted April 9, 2011 Share Posted April 9, 2011 I suspected for a while that my bf might be bi or gay. Twice when we got intimate he came home drunk and started messing around and going "oh man, oh man, oh man". Then last night as we started getting intimate after his sentences he would add man to it. LIke "come here, get closer man"or whatever the sentence would be he would add man to at the end of it. Sometimes i feel like when we are intimate he is fantasizing about a man. I have asked him in the past if he was bi or gay. If i maya ask... when y'all are being intimate is he visually looking at you, or is he not looking at you in some way? (e.g., his eyes are closed, he is looking away, he seems as if he is "daydreaming" or picturing something else?). Is he very visually focused on very specific things about you like your body etc.? Link to comment
dramallama Posted April 9, 2011 Share Posted April 9, 2011 How can he call you "man" when you are right there in front of him? Come at me bro! Link to comment
casanova23 Posted April 9, 2011 Share Posted April 9, 2011 I know what you mean... the fact that he only really does it wen he is drunk or turned on seems like a red flag to me... I'm a guy and i have a friend who is deeep in the closet and gets physical with me when he's drunk.... and honestly, listen to ur instincts... you know him better than any of us do, and it's not like you want him to be gay, it's just a feeling right? a six sense? Link to comment
greywolf Posted April 9, 2011 Share Posted April 9, 2011 I say things during sex that I normally would never say otherwise. When you're feeling really good and in the moment, you tend not to think about what you're saying. Link to comment
catfeeder Posted April 9, 2011 Share Posted April 9, 2011 if you have sex and he says 'oh god' it doesn't mean he is calling you god either!! Oh. ...I was just starting to feel really good about myself. ; ) Link to comment
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