I hate this, he thinks im acting like im in highschool

[heartovermind]

Ok so my bf of 6 months has this chick he hangs out with, he met her a week or 2 before me, i was fine at 1st cause i just thought uno the live near eachother whatever. But now when he isnt with me hes with her. Hes 28 shes 19,i do trust him, i dont know if i should or not but i do. Its just the fact i cant keep putting up with the phone calls everytime we are spending time together (middle of the night) txting constantly. The fact that i havent met his parents or been to his house yet an she has done all of that, The fact that we dont go out to eat anymore an he takes her, he takes her to the gym with him , the beach, everything i should be an want to be doing with him. Everytime she is with him she writes it on facebook an then deletes it before he sees it, just to piss me off. She is trying to cause trouble for us an he just to blind to see it. Am i overeacting ? Would anyone else put up with this ?

[SapphireNoir10]

Im not being funny but it sounds like hes in a relationship with her and not with you from what you wrote. I would not put up with it.

[natalya]

Yea, he's definetely in a relationship with this girl, it's pretty obvious. Especially him ot wanting you to meet his parents. And no you should not put up with this.

[metrogirl]

If she has met the family and you haven't, there is cause for concern.

 

I'm assuming she knows when he is with you and for her to blow up his phone and for him to actually take the time to respond while he is with you is disrespectful on both their parts.

[HeartGoesOn]

He's the ring leader in this, and your anger should be directed not so much towards her, but towards him. In fact, the only thing I would direct him to would be the door.

[dancingcolors]

Agree with everyone else.

[heartovermind]

thanks everyone for your replys, i thought i might have been overreacting but now i know im not an like i said to him no other woman on the planet would put up with this. Thanks again

[Jd1983]

I hope you let him know that you won't tolerate this behavior.

 

Clearly, if he doesn't do things with you and he does things with her, this is definitely a cause for concern. You have to ask yourself whether or not you'll be willing to put up with being second priority.

 

If my bf ever did this, I'd tell him he could have her.

[metrogirl]

I went back and read your previous threads on this guy. He bought the girl a car and he gets annoyed when you text him but he texts her freely.

 

Honey please do yourself a favor and walk away from him now.

[catfeeder]

It makes no sense to fight with him about this because it makes no sense to stay with him.

[Sophie1986]

If I were you i'd be going insane. It's totally disrespectful to you. I agree with everyone else!

[Starrgrl]

yeah * * * he's like two timing and playing both of you, though he obviously likes the other gir more. Dump him -_-