alex21 Posted April 26, 2010 Share Posted April 26, 2010 I'm going out with the guy girls dream of meeting. We're both 23. In our supposed prime. He's totally unaware he's gorgeous, drops everything when I'm sick, is one of the funniest people you'll meet, is an absolute genius with the brightest future ahead of him, yet is still totally cool (absolute opposite of a nerd). Plus more, but I won't bore you. He's my best friend. Only problem is, he's absolutely passionately in love with me, and loves sex, but I feel completely cheated by life because I just don't like sex at all. We've been going out for 2 and a half years. We both keep hoping that I'll change. Like one morning I'll wake up and decide I like it or something. Still hasn't happened. We're like a 60 year old couple, who are best friends, and have everything that it takes to make the relationship last but we never have sex (even though he tries all the time, and I feel guilty 100% of the time). I feel like I'm a prison sentence. He doesn't want to break up with me, because he loves me, but gets incredibly frustrated that I can't be intimate with him. I don't want to be with anyone else, but I can't see how this relationship can last with this massive gap in it. I kept hoping that he would find another girl (even though it would hurt like no tomorrow) so that at least he'd be getting some, but he doesn't have eyes for anyone else. The guy must be made of patience! I don't understand why he's still with me. So basically, I know I'm going to feel absolutely horrible, but how do I (for lack of a better phrase) set him free? without breaking his heart? I almost don't mind being a casualty in this because I just feel so bad, every day he's with me. I guess I'm also worried that if we did break up, who would I end up with? Some other poor man who gets ensnared by my rad personality and then gets too deep before realising my distaste for sex? I am aware I sound like a total sook. my apologies! But I need the help. How does one break up with Prince Charming? the man who is obviously going to grow up to be the successful and perfect husband and father? who I'll feel so hopelessly jealous of what I could have had. Oh dear! Link to comment
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