laisla Posted April 10, 2009 Share Posted April 10, 2009 well sorry but you guys aren't that great at giving US hand jobs either...i mean using manual stimulation on the outside of our genitals...i think it's all about perspective. you're most used to getting yourselves off by your hands, through masturbation, so it's hard to "replicate" that. plus our hands are smaller. just make sure you have a girl who wants to learn and make sure you tell her exactly what you like. Link to comment
EQD Posted April 10, 2009 Share Posted April 10, 2009 heehee, i like to give one in the shower, i like to clean my SO but when i get down to his member i get carried away and end up playing with him. i have to use two hands, so i'll try two different motions, usually 'trumpet fingers' and alternating pressure while twisting towards the head. it helps to know what your guy likes by asking him to masturbate in front of you. different strokes... thats where the term came from i believe lol. Link to comment
lostandhurt Posted April 10, 2009 Share Posted April 10, 2009 My question is WHY? There are so many other things I would rather do with a woman other than have her jerk me off. Pleasing a woman is part of what makes me want to orgasm otherwise I guy could just do it himself. lost Link to comment
ghost69 Posted April 10, 2009 Share Posted April 10, 2009 My question is WHY? There are so many other things I would rather do with a woman other than have her jerk me off. Pleasing a woman is part of what makes me want to orgasm otherwise I guy could just do it himself. lost i think it's more of a bonding thing. i wouldn't just allow some random girl do this, i'd want more. some oral or the whole shabang. Link to comment
EQD Posted April 10, 2009 Share Posted April 10, 2009 handjobs can be a nice gateway into oral. Link to comment
Nixee Posted April 10, 2009 Share Posted April 10, 2009 i think it's more of a bonding thing. i wouldn't just allow some random girl do this, i'd want more. some oral or the whole shabang. This is pretty much how I feel. I'll do it, and I *think* I do well... I mean, I've been successful, etc. ... but I definitely always want to do more and that is what makes me restless. Handjobs always just seem kinda... foreplayish... and I'm a get-down-to-it girl I guess? Link to comment
jonny15 Posted April 10, 2009 Share Posted April 10, 2009 Tho i've never been givin one. I don't see how it would be complicated to give one. It's rather simple. Get a good grip on the shaft. Not super tight. But a good grip. Then going at it with a good rhythm. But don't do it violently. Some of us uncut guys can get sore easily if the jerking is really rough. Atleast I have fron masturbating hard. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted April 10, 2009 Share Posted April 10, 2009 This is pretty much how I feel. I'll do it, and I *think* I do well... I mean, I've been successful, etc. ... but I definitely always want to do more and that is what makes me restless. Handjobs always just seem kinda... foreplayish... and I'm a get-down-to-it girl I guess? i think it's situational too. like you just got one in the back of the movie theater or in a park or something. not at the dinner table with family like on wedding crashers. lol Link to comment
NowandZen Posted April 10, 2009 Share Posted April 10, 2009 ^ But that is different for everyone. Some guys will tell you to ease up on it. lol I think iLMBC is right. How can we be skilled at something we cannot really do for ourselves without practice? I think many women would agree they haven't been with a ton of men who were good at oral and whatnot. You just have to tell them what you want. Iph, you wanna hold it like a golf club, not too tight, not too loose. Link to comment
ScorpiGal83 Posted April 11, 2009 Share Posted April 11, 2009 Iph, you wanna hold it like a golf club, not too tight, not too loose. Never held a golf club before But yeah, definitely just tell the girl how you want it done.. I mean, when a guy plays with ME I tell him how to do it and it's fine, no issues there. Plus no guy has ever known how to do it properly for me right off the bat, so if a girl doesn't automatically know how to give you a good handjob doesn;t mean she;s not capable of it... with a little coaching, you know... Link to comment
JenniferM Posted April 11, 2009 Share Posted April 11, 2009 Well I remember my first hand job I gave my love and it sucked. I was so new to sex and he wasnt. i didnt know what to do or how to do it and on top of that I was so shy at first. If you r in a relationship....its good for the guy to show the girl how to do it. How fast to stoke or gab you. Give them an example...its like money see monkey do. It shows a connection and that shes willing to do wat it takes to please you. and who knows you might even get some head too. Link to comment
diabolik Posted April 11, 2009 Share Posted April 11, 2009 Some girls really know what they're doing and others just need a little direction, but this is an easily obtained skill (far easier than BJ). Girls I date are put on a grip training regimen. Link to comment
Nixee Posted April 11, 2009 Share Posted April 11, 2009 Some girls really know what they're doing and others just need a little direction, but this is an easily obtained skill (far easier than BJ). Girls I date are put on a grip training regimen. I disagree with that bit. BJ isn't that hard either, or really shouldn't be. Well at least for me. I obtained them both equally... then once obtained, BJ is preferential because it seems to FEEL better for the guy, and I actually enjoy it more as well. But yes, it isn't that difficult... just takes communication. Link to comment
Nixee Posted April 11, 2009 Share Posted April 11, 2009 i think it's situational too. like you just got one in the back of the movie theater or in a park or something. not at the dinner table with family like on wedding crashers. lol haha... see... in both of those situations, I'd still be wishing to go for bj I think. Maybe less covert... but also more fun, less messy, and possibly quicker. Link to comment
MD Geist Posted April 12, 2009 Share Posted April 12, 2009 I think Handjobs are most effective if the guy is a virgin or extremely inexperienced otherwise I would view it as about as excieting as the first time he discovers masturbation. Its fun for awhile and evenually it you get used to it and you need to try something else diffrent. Link to comment
waveseer Posted April 12, 2009 Share Posted April 12, 2009 There's a huge difference between lovingly-delivered handjobs (both ways) and all the other kinds. If your partner is into to you and your body then you should be able to suggest how they might please you the best with excellent results! Link to comment
girl68 Posted April 12, 2009 Share Posted April 12, 2009 I'm going to toot my horn and say I'm pretty damn good at it. But no, I'll never be better than himself giving himself a handjob and the explanation is simple it is his penis and he knows it best. Just like no man will ever be better at giving myself a fingering job. Link to comment
GoneCrazy Posted April 12, 2009 Share Posted April 12, 2009 don't see how hard it could be stroke it up and down and play with the balls...well that would do it for me lol Link to comment
Perfect Dark Posted April 12, 2009 Share Posted April 12, 2009 I don't think that's true and even if it was true you can teach the girl to be better at giving them. I think I am good at giving them, every time I gave my ex one; he came. I took that as a good sign lol. Link to comment
shanne Posted January 24, 2013 Share Posted January 24, 2013 Be aware of the upwards and downward strokes with both circumcised and uncircumcised because this could pull the skin and hurt instead of induce enjoyment. Link to comment
agent1607307371 Posted January 24, 2013 Share Posted January 24, 2013 Thread is 4 years old. Closed Link to comment
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