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ScorpiGal83

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  1. Day 60 Wow. I made it I'm kinda happy being single, actually. It's a refreshing change for now. I don't think I'll be counting the days anymore, and won't come back here unless I break NC. For those of you going through it now, best of luck, keep your chins up and remember: you're doing this for YOU. Good job Cat! Glad to see you so positive and inspiring on this thread!
  2. I forgot to post in this thread yesterday it's day 55 now. Wow... I think I am so OVER this. I don't even feel like contacting the ex anymore. FigureItOut and Cat76, great job! Keep on rollin', you know you can do it!
  3. Oh yeah... Day 53 only a week til Day 60. And i don't feel the urge to contact him and be 'friends' there really must be something magical about the 60-day period.
  4. Good job for getting rid of his stuff. Yeah it really DOES feel like there's a weight off your shoulders doesn't it? I met up with an old friend I hadn't seen in a couple months recently, and she told me that I looked different... and I said different how? and she said "well, you look lighter, light before this when you were still with ****, you used to always seem to have a huge weight on your shoulders, and like you were always thinking too much." I guess the relationship and my ex were really a burden to me towards the end!! It's a good thing to get rid of them exes and start afresh with a blank slate! tabula rasa baby.
  5. don't meet up with her. what happened to NC? Just leave her in the past. she's possibly with another man. why do you want to keep torturing yourself and setting yourself so far back... you only have to start it all over again.
  6. Day 48 Just got a new personal trainer at the gym. he's kinda cute.
  7. Day 46 Woweee... time sure flew... Thought abt the ex a little bit over the weekend. Wondered how he was doing. But it was okay. I mean, I'm not going to lie and say I never ever think abt him. I do. But it's not so obsessive anymore and it doesn't hurt as much anymore. Onwards... towards day 60... Welcome back brazilgirl21!
  8. Aww, so nice to see everyone so postive. Yes, after Day 30 it just sails by. Phil, congrats on stopping smoking I'm on Day 43 now and it's like he never existed. I don't feel sad anymore. A little wistful, kind of how you'd feel if you wanted to do something and never ended up doing it, like bungy jumping or sky diving. But not broken-hearted. GO US!!!
  9. Hey there jellybaby It took me more than 30 days to feel that way... you're only on Day 9, don't worry it takes time but you will get there if you want to. By the way, why don't you block him on Facebook? It made my life so much easier because I didn't have to deal with his news updates or seeing him commenting on stuff through mutual friend's pages and stuff... it's a really, really good way to get through this faster and stronger. Good luck and keep up the good work!! Day 42.. ho hum.
  10. Hi ToodlePip, you sound like you're doing well. Like you, I feel like I miss his friendship and can't face unblocking him from Facebook even though I know I'd feel ok if he was with someone else... A mutual friend added some photos taken waaay back in Oct 08, and there was one with me in it so he tagged me... the next photo had my ex in it. I felt weird. I remember not feeling attracted to him anymore towards the end, but in that photo I had to admit he looked good. It made me miss his warm hugs, how he was so much taller than me (I'm 5'8"-5'9" so it's not easy finding taller guys you know), and his hugs used to just envelope me.. but i didn't think about kissing him or sexing him. so is that a good thing or does it just not mean anything?? sighhh... Day 41..
  11. Day 40 Where do you guys look up dreams? which website? I've had my fair share of crazy dreams since the breakup, though not all were abt the ex.. heck, I've always had crazy dreams, that's why I love sleeping so much!
  12. Wow - congrats pace, lemon cheesecake, hesnotworthit and Cat! You guys have come a looong way and not forgetting phil and others too.. I haven't been here in a few days because things at work got real busy and over the weekend I was also working to finish some articles (damn you, procrastination) and didn't have the time to log on to ENA. It is now Day 39. Last night I was trying to remember his phone number (deleted it from my phone arnd a week after the breakup) and guess what... I can't remember it! Granted it was a new number he got when he went back to Australia in Dec 08. But usually I would commit these things to memory and there's no way to ever get rid of them! This time, however, I really CAN'T remember! On the other hand I do miss talking to him. We did have some pretty great, intelligent conversations, and the silly fun ones, too. I really would like to be his friend. But I want to wait til Day 60 to make a decision on that... Congrats everyone and good luck!!!
  13. Me too. Thumb wrestling!! omg Day 34. It's going alright. Don't reaaallllyyyy think abt him much.
  14. I know what you mean! I bought a pair of jeans a month ago which were really clingy and tight-fitting but the button was broken (on sale really cheap) and I had it fixed FINALLY and I put them on this morning and they're baggy all over. WOO HOO I am really happy with the progress I've made in terms of stamina and muscle tone. It's amazing what the human body can do in such a short time. Working out is the way to go! Day 33 of NC. I bought "the road less travelled" today, and plan to read it asap. it looks like some really good, wise stuff, which i need badly right now.
  15. pace, Cat76 and FigureItOut, thanks for the words of encouragement It's now Day 31 and I intend to stretch NC to Day 60. However, I received a piece of news about my ex that made me feel a bit down. He has been struggling financially apparently and has had to get a second job, making pizzas. At the same place/chain I used to work part-time as a student!! He is 28 this year with a degree in multimedia and is really talented at 3D animation. I feel so bad because he has always been there for me in times of crisis, work-related or otherwise. Now he has to deal with this alone. It's saddening.
  16. Weed kills synapses in your brain but I still think alcohol is far worse... Drunk people do way worse things that people high on weed.. and what about vomiting blood, I think I've only seen people who consume copious amounts of alcohol do that. Weed on the other had, you just want to eat and eat and eat so it contributes to weight gain I guess, lol. Because you eatttt and then you fall asleep.
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