ghost69 Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 I like your honesty. People who are good-looking or work hard to look good think there are no leagues because their rejection ratio is a lot lower than the average or below average people. a little bit of irony in this post and your screen name? ?que no? Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 Wow, gry. I'm glad you realize that. Kudos. Link to comment
Scorpion Fury Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 Nope, I think I've done the absolute best I can! He IS the best I can get... and he's still "average joe". I would hope someone that thought I was "average joe" would just not date me. I wouldn't be with someone i thought was average joe. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 thank you... ahem... by the way... what's your number? ;-) just kiddin you aren't in SF's league grym. jk bud Link to comment
waveseer Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 It maybe sow but it is how society intimidates us everyday! Everything in life has a rating if we want to except it or not it is out there we may say it don't exist but what about your partner bf? I choose not to let society intimidate me, care to join me? Link to comment
ghost69 Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 It maybe sow but it is how society intimidates us everyday! Everything in life has a rating if we want to except it or not it is out there we may say it don't exist but what about your partner bf? you just said some key words. how society intimidates us. you are brainwashed to believe the people in the magazines are the hottest things on earth and if you don't look that way you will never be hot. to someone somewhere, everyone is ' HOT'. Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 I would hope someone that thought I was "average joe" would just not date me. I wouldn't be with someone i thought was average joe. Yeah, me too. My boyfriend better think the world of me. I would probably break up with a guy who said "well, you're the best I can get". My boyfriend is by far the best out there for me. Not saying I am somehow "unable" to get someone better because of leagues. But, because I believe a person better than him truly doesn't exist. Link to comment
Lowconfidence Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 a little bit of irony in this post and your screen name? ?que no? dude, if a woman that is not universally attractive to most approaches you and asks you out, you would say no, she's not my preference. It's just a nice way to say sorry, she's not in my League. Link to comment
waveseer Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 you just said some key words. how society intimidates us. you are brainwashed to believe the people in the magazines are the hottest things on earth and if you don't look that way you will never be hot. to someone somewhere, everyone is ' HOT'. Especially when they are confident and looking their personal best. Link to comment
Jeen Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 I choose not to let society intimidate me, care to join me? Then I should stop coming to this forum!lol Link to comment
laisla Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 there's no such thing as leagues, only compatibility. it's just society that pushes this. Link to comment
waveseer Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 Then I should stop coming to this forum!lol Then I would be all ALONE! lol Link to comment
ghost69 Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 dude, if a woman that is not universally attractive to most approaches you and asks you out, you would say no, she's not my preference. It's just a nice way to say sorry, she's not in my League. where did you get this from? i don't believe in leagues man. she's just that, not my type. why would i sell myself short? 'she'll do i guess since i'm average.' pffft, i would never believe or think that. Link to comment
bmwm3 Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 So have we estblished that there are no leagues.. or wait there is.. Link to comment
Scorpion Fury Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 I always wondered who determined these "leagues". There is no way attractiveness is not 100% subjective. So, even if I believed in leagues, my top league of "these guys are as a close to perfect as anyone can be", they might be in a lower league by someone else's standards. Link to comment
Lowconfidence Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 where did you get this from? i don't believe in leagues man. she's just that, not my type. why would i sell myself short? 'she'll do i guess since i'm average.' pffft, i would never believe or think that. selling yourself short? isn't that sort of saying she's not in your league? Link to comment
Jeen Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 Then I would be all ALONE! lol That is the catch 22 in life, we are social creatures and need to belong some where and it is part of the reason we judge ourselves and where we fit in in life! Link to comment
bmwm3 Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 I always wondered who determined these "leagues". There is no way attractiveness is not 100% subjective. So, even if I believed in leagues, my top league of "these guys are as a close to perfect as anyone can be", they might be in a lower league by someone else's standards. well theres a yearly draft, and some get recruited.. were talking about sports right... Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 selling yourself short? isn't that sort of saying she's not in your league? No, because someone just as good looking as ghost could date that girl because he liked blondes and ghost preferred brunettes...or he was more into european beauty, while ghost liked classical american beauties...or the girl was more of a quiet, sex driven pre madonna kind of girl, while ghost likes sporty girls who can spit flirty insults. Link to comment
waveseer Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 That is the catch 22 in life, we are social creatures and and need to belong some where and it is part of the reason we judge ourselves and where we fit in in life! Very true, however I see the two glasses which are full enough as equal. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 selling yourself short? isn't that sort of saying she's not in your league? absolutely not No, because someone just as good looking as ghost could date that girl because he liked blondes and ghost preferred brunettes...or he was more into european beauty, while ghost liked classical american beauties...or the girl was more of a quiet, sex driven pre madonna kind of girl, while ghost likes sporty girls who can spit flirty insults. nice description DW. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 I always wondered who determined these "leagues". There is no way attractiveness is not 100% subjective. So, even if I believed in leagues, my top league of "these guys are as a close to perfect as anyone can be", they might be in a lower league by someone else's standards. there is a website with a meter and you press your finger to your monitor. lol, i have no clue. Link to comment
jonny15 Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 He could shape up and attract anybody he likes. Not everyone can have anybody they want. Link to comment
waveseer Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 Not everyone can have anybody they want. They can get quite close though, over time and with effort. Link to comment
Miss Firecracker Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 The best way to find out what league you are in is to take a photo of yourself with ten groups of people. Then decide which one you fit in with. That is your "league". Link to comment
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