Rose21 Posted March 22, 2009 Share Posted March 22, 2009 Today I got a myspace message from someone "didn't share her name" and she said that she was trying to warn me about my boyfriend. She said he was totaly hitting on her at a Greek function asking her to hang out more. although nothing happened. First off, this is VERY uncharacteristic for my boyfriend. He is very loyal and he would never even give his numeber out to a girl or want to hang out with them one on one. Also, even if he was single that's not something he would say because he's lacking in the flirt department. I would know, I'm his first for everything. Well this girl said she knew what fraternity he was in and told me hers and said it was at a greek function. My boyfriend choose his fraternity because they don't drink or party and are very upstanding guys. There has been no greek function envolving multiple frats/sororities. Only his own with meetings that only his can attend. Plus, school has been on Spring Break for over a week and we start back tomorrow and I'm JUSt now being told this? seems kind of fishy to me. Her mypace has just one picture (looks fake) and she has nothing on her myspace, just 1 friend, and for the URL it's just random numbers. My friends think it's just something very bored and jelouse. I know my boyfriend, and so do my friends and family, he would never go againt me. But what I'm trying to figure out is WHO would do that. If a guy was hitting on a girl, do you think he would volunteer information about it or her name? Yet somehow she knew I was his girlfriend and my name. I'm kind of freaked out. What do you guys think? Link to comment
JeckyllNHyde Posted March 22, 2009 Share Posted March 22, 2009 Yea. Go with your gut. And logic. I'm 99% sure it's fake. Link to comment
Rose21 Posted March 22, 2009 Author Share Posted March 22, 2009 So am I. It doesn't make since. I'm more concerned about WHO This person is and how they got this information about me and him. His fraternity information is on Facebook, not on Myspace. So either some girl in his class has a crush on him, or it's someone I know persosnally who is jelouse because I'm always posting pictures of us happy together and saying how much I love him. Someone who I may of trusted with information such as that, but now wants to try to get us to separate. Link to comment
Perfect Dark Posted March 22, 2009 Share Posted March 22, 2009 I don't want to sound negative but why would some one go to the trouble of trying to break you guys up? You can't trust some one 100%, he might have done it, you never know. I hope that's not the case. Link to comment
_Asti_ Posted March 22, 2009 Share Posted March 22, 2009 If you truly believe its crap, let it go and ignore it. She probably wants you to get worked up about it and get you bothered. Link to comment
purpleduckie Posted March 22, 2009 Share Posted March 22, 2009 Is it possible that he was just trying to be friendly and the girl misunderstood him? I don't want to be rude but.. spell check? Link to comment
laisla Posted March 22, 2009 Share Posted March 22, 2009 There has been no greek function envolving multiple frats/sororities. Only his own with meetings that only his can attend. Her mypace has just one picture (looks fake) and she has nothing on her myspace, just 1 friend, and for the URL it's just random numbers. sounds fake, so it probably is fake. But what I'm trying to figure out is WHO would do that. Yet somehow she knew I was his girlfriend and my name. you even shared your myspace pics with people on ENA, i think it's not very hard for someone to get into your myspace and find out you and your bf's name. maybe she does go to school with him, who knows. it's probably just someone random. don't think much about it. it happens to lots of people and it means nothing. just ignore it. Link to comment
JeckyllNHyde Posted March 22, 2009 Share Posted March 22, 2009 There are lots of crazy girls who do go thru all this trouble. Pretty silly but it happens. Link to comment
Rose21 Posted March 22, 2009 Author Share Posted March 22, 2009 I know for a fact he didn't do it. I've always had trust issues, but my gut says this is totaly bogus and so do my friends and family. Why would someone go to the trouble? Because people get jelouse, people get bored. I'm a Crimonology major, you have no idea what lengths people would go to in pursuing a crush or to get what they want. I had this one friend, who was jelouse of EVERYTHING I had. She went to the trouble of personally breaking up me and my ex best friend, who happened to be a guy. And sabotoging every relationship/friendship I had. Made me an outcast. Why? She's a sociopath. And I know pleanty of others like this. I even know guys like that. I'm very weary of society, I don't really trust ANYONE. But the facts arn't adding up. I found the picture online, it's a fake. Everything on that myspace is FAKE. Why would someone go to the trouble of making a FAKE myspace to break us up? People are crazy. I know he would never do it, but if it was an actual girl, with an actual myspace with actual friends, then I may be more likely to believe it. But I am not naieve. My major has not made me as such. Link to comment
addictedblue Posted March 22, 2009 Share Posted March 22, 2009 She probably just wants him. It doesn't really SEEM real. She probably thought, hmm let's have some fun and create a fake myspace and scare his girlfriend. Link to comment
Honey Pumpkin Posted March 22, 2009 Share Posted March 22, 2009 Well, I think it's a wind-up; you've got your facebook address here even, you're very very open with the information you share online, so I guess you wouldn't be hard to track down and information about your boyfriend. What does your boyfriend say about it? Link to comment
addictedblue Posted March 22, 2009 Share Posted March 22, 2009 Why would someone go to the trouble? Because people get jelouse, people get bored. Exactly. And no offense whatsoever but it's people get jealous not jelouse. Link to comment
purpleduckie Posted March 22, 2009 Share Posted March 22, 2009 I had this one friend, who was jelouse of EVERYTHING I had. She went to the trouble of personally breaking up me and my ex best friend, who happened to be a guy. And sabotoging every relationship/friendship I had. Made me an outcast. Why? She's a sociopath. And I know pleanty of others like this. I even know guys like that. I'm very weary of society, I don't really trust ANYONE. I had a friend like that too! in highschool. hah. the fake myspace profile isn't exactly evidence since if i were that someone, i wouldn't be on my REAL myspace profile... but why didn't she just email you? Link to comment
JeckyllNHyde Posted March 22, 2009 Share Posted March 22, 2009 I know for a fact he didn't do it. why all the hoopla and questioning? Link to comment
Rose21 Posted March 22, 2009 Author Share Posted March 22, 2009 I know it happens. My boyfriend is a friendly guy, but he would never say anything like "we should hang out more, I'd like to get to know you better" um forsure no. Even if he was single I dont think he would have the capacity to do that. That would be something I would do if I was single and interested in someone. I am VERY flirtasious. Butn ot him. I mean, sex isn't even a big deal to him. He is the most caring guy in the world, he cries when Im crying over cramps. He would never do something that would purposely hurt me. I asked him about it, and there was GENUINE surprise in his voice. When I was training, we had to listen to tones of people's voices to figure out emotions. I know it was real. Link to comment
Rose21 Posted March 22, 2009 Author Share Posted March 22, 2009 Because it's irritating the hell out of me! I want to know who did it! And if I should be more cautious in giving out information. Link to comment
_Asti_ Posted March 22, 2009 Share Posted March 22, 2009 why all the hoopla and questioning? Thats what I'm wondering. If he didn't do it, then its no cause for worry. Let it go. Link to comment
laisla Posted March 22, 2009 Share Posted March 22, 2009 Because it's irritating the hell out of me! I want to know who did it! And if I should be more cautious in giving out information. block your myspace and facebook profiles. if you try so hard in finding out who it is, it will drive you crazy. ignore it. it happens to a lot of people. Link to comment
Honey Pumpkin Posted March 22, 2009 Share Posted March 22, 2009 I still think you might consider sharing less details of your life online you know - just through reading your threads here I know just about everything about your boyfriend, his sexual experience, what he looks like etc etc. It's up to you, of course, but you are incredibly open with detail about other people. Anyway, I'm glad it's not serious, but someone winding you up. Although I guess that's serious too, seems very petty. Link to comment
Rose21 Posted March 22, 2009 Author Share Posted March 22, 2009 I'm just a detective at heart I want to figure out who did it. I have my myspace links on here, but I just recently made it private. Link to comment
Rose21 Posted March 22, 2009 Author Share Posted March 22, 2009 My stepdad is VERY cynical when it comes to relationships and just got out of a Divorce. He has no trust in it, and he was telling me things before how all guys are guys and my boyfriend wasn't any different. I told him this, and he thinks its a very bored person with no life and it sounds like total BS> Link to comment
laisla Posted March 22, 2009 Share Posted March 22, 2009 I still think you might consider sharing less details of your life online you know - just through reading your threads here I know just about everything about your boyfriend, his sexual experience, what he looks like etc etc. It's up to you, of course, but you are incredibly open with detail about other people. Anyway, I'm glad it's not serious, but someone winding you up. Although I guess that's serious too, seems very petty. true. when you are very open about your life you run the risk of people trying to get into it and mess things up. i'm very reserved on sites like facebook and have never had problems. Link to comment
Rose21 Posted March 22, 2009 Author Share Posted March 22, 2009 Come to think of it, there was a a friend of mine that got her myspace hacked and she sent a message to my boyfriend saying I was pregnant and wasnt going to tell him. Hmmmm....Coincidence? Link to comment
Rose21 Posted March 22, 2009 Author Share Posted March 22, 2009 Yeah I'm very open. And post survey's about my life etc on myspace DAILY. Link to comment
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