joe45 Posted March 13, 2009 Share Posted March 13, 2009 some of my co workers whne they are not busy go to craiglist and erotic service and you see korean /jap girls selling their services for an amount of money i wonder why the jap and korean girls come here and do it. i mean isn;t japan for sure and korea a first rate world country, i mean arenl;t they rich if they come here and why do they do it. for money or they just into fast easy quick money. all of the girls on the site are hot too. do you guys ever ask why they do what they do. i don;t think the jap/korean girls who come here from overseas are on drugs or are they. are they doing it b/c they are hungry and have to live or is it jsut to pay for schooling. i mean tehy are that desperate just to go to school they will sell their bods i mean how do they get into those kind of businesses anyways. is it like the get recruited by guys that hang oout at malls, schools....etc o r do they just join since they are too lazy to work the 8 hr job at food court or retail since they have no other skill do you guys bnow of any girls who do this kind of thing and w hy do they do it. i heard some of t hem do it jsut so they can pay for school , since studying aboard is so $$. i mean would you really do t hat just to pay for school scary too is if the girl you dating or you want to date is doing this kind of massage/escort type of work and you don't even now it or she tells you later on in the relationship. i mean you kiss her and hug and touch and maybe even sex if it comes to it , but you never knew she was also doing that to 100 other guys as a job. woah that be scary. uh imagine Link to comment
postscript Posted March 13, 2009 Share Posted March 13, 2009 I know two girls that are ladies of the night. The reason they both started was because they were in a pickle, money-wise, and said it would be a temporary thing, to help them get back on their feet... They both still do it, the money is just too good I guess. Link to comment
agent1607307371 Posted March 13, 2009 Share Posted March 13, 2009 Why do American girls in that first rate world country sell services? Why do British women in that first rate country sell serives? Why does anyone choose to do what they do? Link to comment
avman Posted March 13, 2009 Share Posted March 13, 2009 I think you should be more concerned about why you are stereotyping Japanese and Korean girls. Link to comment
purpleduckie Posted March 14, 2009 Share Posted March 14, 2009 lolllll, things cost a lot in japan? prices are like double what they are here. no seriously um. they do it just like any other girl... i would think. i don't think they came to the states specifically for that. korea and japan are richer countries, idk about korea... but japan is hard to live. the cost living is very high. maybe they just moved for the sake of a better economy? and then happen to choose this career? Link to comment
Crazyaboutdogs Posted March 14, 2009 Share Posted March 14, 2009 Sex workers are from all cultures and backgrounds and do it for a variety of reasons. Some are even sold into it by family members in their home country. Link to comment
jcrisph Posted March 14, 2009 Share Posted March 14, 2009 there was a big raid of massage places....it happened in connecticut and it was some international thing.Most of the girls said that they buy there way into the US..The men come get them,they do service for the people for like 5-10 years..then they are free to do as they please. Link to comment
BeStrongBeHappy Posted March 14, 2009 Share Posted March 14, 2009 Prostitution is the oldest profession, done by women accross all cultures for money. There are no more Asian women doing it than women of other cultures, but some men are attracted to 'exotic' women not of their same race for reasons of craving variety and something different than what their wife looks like. So really seeing ads for Asian women is nothing more than a marketing tactic. It is like advertising from a foreign car dealership vs. an American car dealership. They're just selling a particular type of sex based on the girls being Asian and 'exotic' by local standards. Never forget that prostitution is about commerce and selling a service. These girls do it for money, plan and simple. Girls of all nationalities and races become prostitutes for money. and many because they are addicted to drugs and need lots of money, and many more who are lost souls pimped out by bad boyfriends and/or husbands for money. Link to comment
Dragunov-21 Posted March 15, 2009 Share Posted March 15, 2009 Um, sorry to echo what's already been said, but dude, that's coming off as a little stereotypical, I mean, you're acting like there's an increased risk of your gf being a sex-worker if she's asian, and... there's just really not. If you ant a justification, you could say that the exoticness makes asian sexworkers more attractive to some of the market than similarly attractive caucasian workers , so they are worth more. Therefore they are more likely to be run out of an advertised brothel/agency/whatever rather than workeing off a street corner, meaning that marketting exposure is increased. Link to comment
greywolf Posted March 15, 2009 Share Posted March 15, 2009 hmmmm... why don't you worry about yourself instead of judging other people? Link to comment
BellaDonna Posted March 16, 2009 Share Posted March 16, 2009 Escorts and prostitutes come in all races. "Why" do they do it? I think it has more to do with self-esteem and the need for money, and a perceived lack of options/opporunities. I believe that it has much less to do with culture or race. I suppose that you could try to attribute some of it to the culture of geisha in Japan, but even that would be a huge leap . scary too is if the girl you dating or you want to date is doing this kind of massage/escort type of work and you don't even now it or she tells you later on in the relationship. i mean you kiss her and hug and touch and maybe even sex if it comes to it , but you never knew she was also doing that to 100 other guys as a job. woah that be scary. uh imagine I think you are needlessly worrying about something that is very rare. Link to comment
joe45 Posted March 17, 2009 Author Share Posted March 17, 2009 my friend did it like many times before and he said he hasn;t gotten stds yet. we went there yesterday to this persons apartment which it was held. he has been there befiore. funny thing is my first time going the the place and i thought it wouuld look like a dump-its actually a nice apt inside and out. the girls all look nice looking and nothing you would suspect to be a escort /hooker. i really wondered why they do what they do. scary thing is i sometime meet girls randomly at mall, library,bookstore and you never now the girl you trying to get her # and go out-coould be doing this kind of escort work unless she tells you-scary hey he told me he got oral sex with the escort girl without a condom. i thought that was crazy Link to comment
BeStrongBeHappy Posted March 18, 2009 Share Posted March 18, 2009 i can guarantee that the majority of the female population are NOT hookers so i doubt most women you meet are hookers or have ever been hookers. and if you disdain them so much, why are you using their services? if you don't respect them or what they do, then don't use their services, but don't think that average/most women do that for a living because they don't. Link to comment
blue69 Posted March 18, 2009 Share Posted March 18, 2009 The stereotypes and generalizations just fly at will in this post. Link to comment
littleladyluck Posted March 18, 2009 Share Posted March 18, 2009 Wow. You sound really ignorant and your completely making racial stereotypes. I would honestly try to explain things but I don't think you will ever get it. Link to comment
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