Day_Walker Posted March 11, 2009 Share Posted March 11, 2009 I have always been a quality over quantity kind of person and this is my same thought on breast size. You need to learn to be okay with what you have regardless of what your current boyfriend says Link to comment
KG Posted March 11, 2009 Share Posted March 11, 2009 I want her laugh, her smile, her face. If I get big boobs along with it, fine. If not, fine also. And I'm a butt man! LOL! Link to comment
CrazyKing Posted March 11, 2009 Share Posted March 11, 2009 Is he dating your boobs??? Link to comment
dragon lady Posted March 11, 2009 Share Posted March 11, 2009 You need to look at your options here. You can: 1. Gain weight and hope they get a bit bigger 2. Get expensive (and likely ugly) implants 3. Get a new boyfriend who likes your body It's easy to sit around and complain about what guys do and don't want, but in reality it's not going to help you at all. You need to accept your body and offer a take it or leave it deal to the guys you date. You can't please everyone with what you've got because everyone likes something different. Link to comment
Perfect Dark Posted March 11, 2009 Share Posted March 11, 2009 I'm sorry but your statement couldn't be anymore wrong! Unless you have those size breasts how can you judge? I am a 38 C and they 'don't get in the way'. And I've never had any complaints. Link to comment
SayWhen Posted March 11, 2009 Share Posted March 11, 2009 I would be very put off by a comment such as the one that your boyfriend made. For me it might even be a dealbreaker simply because I would never feel confident with him again...which is not healthy. Big boobs are overrated. I have a friend who is a 34DD and she has constant back pain/problems. It's because she has a teeny frame with huge knockers. Some ladies just don't look right with such a big rack. I myself am a small C-cup and I would just look silly with anything bigger. It is all about proportions in my book. As long as you are confident with what you have...well, there is nothing sexier than that! Whatever you do, don't get implants for this guy. If anything, find someone who appreciates you in all aspects. Implants are risky, expensive and require maintenance. It's very unnatural and they look TERRIBLE as you get older. Have you seen Donatella Versace lately? Gross, gross, gross! Eventually you might even have to get them removed in old age...and then what? You would just have empty sacks. No, definitely not a good thing...I cannot fathom why any woman would want to get implants, with the exception of those who have had mastectomies for health reasons. Link to comment
amtjrtcet Posted March 11, 2009 Share Posted March 11, 2009 Some men like big boobs....some like big butts (that's where I fit in lol)........I've got a small chest...32 b and I mean barely a b. I want larger breasts for myself, I want to feel more proportioned with my 39inch hips...but I wouldn't change anything for a man. If he didn't like my size of whatever then I'd tell him to kick rocks. Link to comment
Robert013 Posted March 11, 2009 Share Posted March 11, 2009 Nope doesn't matter sounds very rude of your guy. Sounds like a "Jerk".Tell him you would have more sex if he had a larger package. joking..that would probably crush him..But it is the same thing right? I have no real preference in breast size. I have had many partners with all different size breasts. I liked them all. I have been in 2 long term relationships. One had larger breasts the other smaller. Sex was great with them because I/we made it that way had nothing to do with the size of there breasts. Link to comment
maritalbliss Posted March 11, 2009 Share Posted March 11, 2009 Out of curiosity, how would you know that? I myself am not bigger than a 36 C, thus I would have no clue if that would impact a woman with larger breasts ability to have a great sex life. I can't say i have ever heard a woman with a larger chest say she can't have great sex because of them. Might give her back pain, but i have never heard it impacts her sex life in a negative manner. LOL that is funny and I've NEVER heard that. I'm a 34D... LOL and it NEVER impacts our sex life.... but its hilarious to think that it would. Link to comment
maritalbliss Posted March 11, 2009 Share Posted March 11, 2009 I would never consider getting breast implants for a man.... for one thing, I've heard they harden over time and you have to get them replaced (not sure if that's true with all types but its definitely pretty well know). You'd regret it I think, if you got the implants while with this boyfriend. Its like saying to him "I really wish your * * * * was bigger... we'd have more sex, in fact, if it was bigger" and then give him a complex about his size and such........ wrong. If you can tell he really didn't mean it in a horrible way and you can forgive him and forget it, then I'd stay with him maybe. sometimes men stick their foot in their mouth with what they're trying to say.... I feel a little sorry for him... but it was inconsiderate and I would make sure he knew how I felt (which you've done) and be sure that he was truly apologetic. He might not have been trying to hurt you. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted March 11, 2009 Share Posted March 11, 2009 boobs are okay. i'm a butt man. gotta have something to grab onto and push up against. it's the best. Link to comment
maritalbliss Posted March 11, 2009 Share Posted March 11, 2009 Nope doesn't matter sounds very rude of your guy. Sounds like a "Jerk".Tell him you would have more sex if he had a larger package. joking..that would probably crush him..But it is the same thing right? exactly what I was trying to say... and YES it IS the same thing... which is why it hurt her so much when he let that comment slip. Link to comment
RoxyGril Posted March 11, 2009 Share Posted March 11, 2009 My fiancee is actually a "butt man." He said that he likes my butt mostly and my boobs are just an added bonus. But he has also mentioned that if my boobs were smaller he wouldn't care. So to answer your question...NO, ALL men don't like HUGE boobs. I don't think many men like HUGE boobs actually. I would have to agree on this. My bf is the same way! lol! My boobs aren't big or small so I right in the middle. But, I think guys have their preferance and don't thinks it's all about huge boobs... Link to comment
Sparkly Eyes Posted March 11, 2009 Share Posted March 11, 2009 Seriously if a boy tells me that, I leave him, no question in that. Link to comment
jstaman Posted March 11, 2009 Share Posted March 11, 2009 Not much to say here. Gonna be blunt. Your BF is an ass if he doesn't want sex with you because he thinks your breasts are too small. In closing. I like Boobs. Period the end. Link to comment
Unknown1607307972 Posted March 11, 2009 Share Posted March 11, 2009 I despise my small breasts (I'm a 34 B), I keep comparing myself to a twelve year old girl and saying I wish I had a smaller backside and bigger breasts (I'm slim, I just have a curvy behind weird). It's so bad because I feel that clothes don't look as good as me with them and I feel they make me look less womanly When I'm next to my Italian friend who has huge ones I feel so small! Besides the media keeps making me feel unattractive looking at women with bigger breasts being idealised. I thought about getting implants when I had the money but I just don't think I'd like the feeling of having something foreign implanted under my skin and I worry they may not feel realistic enough. Still, I wish they'd somehow grow even just one size more...being told about back ache from big boobs still doesn't help me, I feel like the top half of my body is childlike I'm so tall and I developed early so I don't think I'll change now. Funny enough, my boyfriend says that mine are perfectly fine and goes by the theory of "More than a handful is a waste", he also says he dislikes fake breasts. I think the obsession has more to do with myself rather than his perception of them but it is hard to see big breasts glorified when you're stuck with small ones. Link to comment
girl68 Posted March 11, 2009 Share Posted March 11, 2009 I thnk anything bigger then like a 36-C is too big, because then it just gets in the way of sex. Really? Unless you've rented out a pair od 36C's and tried them on for a week I don't think you can tell me what size makes sex better or worse due to tittie size. I've been "blessed" (term used loosely as I believe I've been "blessed" with this curse) with 32DD. Do you know how next to impossible it is to find that bra size in cute/ sexy styles? Sure it comes in 32D and with that, I have double boob. Oh, that bra is cute! What size? 34DD, great so it doesn't even stay tight around my frame. Or how about when I try on a shirt or dress and the little triangle doesn't even cover half of one bobbie? Or when there's a bust line, and when I put the bust line under my bust my nipples are bursting out the top? What a blessing! My boobs do not get in the way during sex at all! In fact, they're big enough to pull them closer to give them a little suck when small boobies would never reach that far. That is just about the only blessing I can think of. Another curse is when guys talk to me as a rack. "Hi there, how are you/ your boobs?" Yes, I know they're huge but excuse me; can you please talk to my face not my titties. Thanks very much. To conclude: you want what you don't have. (Yes, I do genuinely wish my boobs were smaller). Don't assume big titties are are a blessing. I can't find bras, clothes don't fit, my back hurts, and I'm known as big boobs first girl68 second- and that sucks. Link to comment
maritalbliss Posted March 11, 2009 Share Posted March 11, 2009 Don't assume big titties are are a blessing. I can't find bras, clothes don't fit, my back hurts, and I'm known as big boobs first girl68 second- and that sucks. this is sadly so true. It stinks to try to find a dress and you need size XS b/c you have a tiny body but then you find that it won't zip up in the back where your huge breasts are... and the next size up looks too big in the body to fit "right." Really really stinks.... I'm even beginning to have a hard time finding button down shirts that actually fit in the waist (fitted) and don't stretch the top buttons to breaking point!!!!!!!!! and I will NOT custom order my clothes lol too poor for that. Link to comment
BeStrongBeHappy Posted March 11, 2009 Share Posted March 11, 2009 Most of the time when i see a thread that says something like 'why do all men want big breasts' it is because a young girl is dating an insenstive jerk who wants his girlfriend to look like a playboy or porn fantasy. You don't need bigger breasts, you need a new boyfriend! And trust me, if you're with a guy who would destroy your confidence like that by criticizing you, if you went and bought a pair of double Ds from a surgeon, he'd next tell you your butt was too big, or you needed a nose job, or your need to lose 20 lbs or whatever. You don't want some guy who is chasing some porn fantasy, you want someone who loves you and thinks you're hot no matter what. Link to comment
girl68 Posted March 11, 2009 Share Posted March 11, 2009 this is sadly so true. It stinks to try to find a dress and you need size XS b/c you have a tiny body but then you find that it won't zip up in the back where your huge breasts are... and the next size up looks too big in the body to fit "right." Really really stinks.... I'm even beginning to have a hard time finding button down shirts that actually fit in the waist (fitted) and don't stretch the top buttons to breaking point!!!!!!!! According to "what not to wear" we're supposed to buy bigger and alter. However, that's pretty expensive... So I do it myself (if it's just a basic side seam kinda idea.) I love that my boyfriend loves them but sometimes I really just wish I had normal, perkey, little-medium boobies. Link to comment
regular joe Posted March 11, 2009 Share Posted March 11, 2009 I have dated women with small and large, natural to surgically enhanced breast. I have enjoyed pretty much all of them. The only exception was one girl, whose boob job was done by a hack. She had what I would call Picasso breasts, it looked like they were from one of his paintings, that felt almost as bad as they looked. Even at that we dated for almost a year. It was her heavy drinking and not her boobs that ended that relationship. I guess what I'm trying to say is, it is the person you date, not the body parts that matter. Link to comment
PixelPusher Posted March 11, 2009 Share Posted March 11, 2009 I haven't read all the responses, but frankly I think your boyfriend is a jerk. Personally, I would never base my sexual attraction and quantity on the size of a girl's breasts. You should turn it around and say you'd have sex with HIM more often if his penis was 3" bigger. See how he feels then! Jerk. I actually prefer smaller breasts on a woman. Not that any size is a turn-off. But for me... I like them smaller. My g/f is a B-cup and she's perfect. And fake ones? No way...I don't care how "natural" they feel. I prefer REAL natural than fake "natural." Link to comment
Moz Posted March 11, 2009 Share Posted March 11, 2009 Unknown your breats sound perfect to me, but each to his own. Personally breasts, although wonderful, are not as important as personality. Who cares how big or small yours are as long as you're a warm, kind and loving person? Link to comment
littleladyluck Posted March 12, 2009 Share Posted March 12, 2009 Dear lord. It's not your problem, its the men! Did you tell him that if his * * * * was bigger you too would want more sex? Don't let it bug ya honey, if a guy ever says *anything* negative about your boobs dump his ass! There are better men out there. I would try to make light of it and joke around, hell make fun of yourself first. Breasts aren't everything. Sometimes I find flat chested girls to be really sexy. link removed so hot! link removed * * * * -when-you-have-an-ass-like-this/ Link to comment
midnightrambler Posted March 12, 2009 Share Posted March 12, 2009 No. I've been attracted to girls with all different sizes of breasts. Bigger is usually a plus, but not always. pretty much how i feel Link to comment
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