liquer Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 I've heard people on both sides of the fence sound off, but I've never really understood the rational for wanting to be single. I mean, there are disadvantages to being in a relationship, but surely it’s better to be in a, good(!), one, rather than be single? Link to comment
xyko Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 Relationship has so many meaning and definition to so many deferent people, so it depends on individual understanding. Link to comment
Mutley Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 I mean it's true that it's much better being single than in a bad relationship.....but, yea, I guess being in a good relationship is preferable to being single. So I guess I just repeated what you said. Link to comment
livinginsbi Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 Well I know I don't want to be alone for the rest of my life.... Link to comment
jengh Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 Depends on the day..... Exactly... I was seriously debating how I wanted to answer... sometimes, I am SO freaking lonely... other times, man... I do NOT want anyone. Link to comment
McLovin oo7 Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 It depends on the day. At times you just wanna be free and sometimes you are glad that you are with someone who cares about you. Link to comment
amtjrtcet Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 I've heard people on both sides of the fence sound off, but I've never really understood the rational for wanting to be single. I mean, there are disadvantages to being in a relationship, but surely it’s better to be in a, good(!), one, rather than be single? When I'm in a relationship I'd rather be single....When I'm single I sometimes wish I was in a relationship....Sometimes. Link to comment
tinydancer81 Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 Hmmm i'd rather be single than in a bad relationship but I do enjoy being in a good relationship, I wont just be with someone for the sake of it. I would say i enjoy being in a relationship Link to comment
Scorpion Fury Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 In a relationship with I'm with someone that enhances my happiness. Single when not Link to comment
alli Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 When I broke up with my ex, that first day of being single felt awesome. I could go about my life without someone trying to make me feel guilty for being a normal person. Being with my bf now (different guy) I would much rather be with him than be single! Link to comment
Mutley Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 Yea....it's magical when it's good...but hellish when it's bad. I do vote on the side of being in a good relationship than being single. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 if the relationship is good and i'm having fun, then yeah. single is fun too. there are benefits for both, but ultimately a great relationship i could not pass up. Link to comment
Loki71 Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 I like being with some one more than being single. After being with someone for so long it's hard to wake up alone and go to bed alone every night. KNowing that no one will be there when you get home. Link to comment
midnightrambler Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 i want to be single but have a lady that cleans my home once a month Link to comment
Mutley Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 i want to be single but have a lady that cleans my home once a month and provides other services? Link to comment
midnightrambler Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 and provides other services? that is Seinfeld's maid......then she stopped cleaning and took the money. I won't pay for sex or marry for it, anything else is up for negotiation Link to comment
Mutley Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 that is Seinfeld's maid......then she stopped cleaning and took the money. I won't pay for sex or marry for it, anything else is up for negotiation yea, but pay for the cleaning of the house....fair is fair. Link to comment
doyathink Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 Most of the time I would rather be in a good relationship. Other times, I'm selfish, and like my alone time. Just give me a cute cabana boy to fluff my pillows, and feed me grapes, and life would be bliss..... Link to comment
hmdreamer7 Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 Right now? I love being single. I love living alone, I love being financially independent, I love all the independence that comes along with being single... ... however, I also love those feelings that you get on a really good first date Hopefully more will come my way! Link to comment
jengh Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 Most of the time I would rather be in a good relationship. Other times, I'm selfish, and like my alone time. Just give me a cute cabana boy to fluff my pillows, and feed me grapes, and life would be bliss..... hmm, as long as he does my dishes and laundry. Link to comment
Portage Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 i want to be single but have a lady that cleans my home once a month Don't you have that already? Link to comment
midnightrambler Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 Don't you have that already? i do......she completes me Link to comment
Crazyaboutdogs Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 I've heard people on both sides of the fence sound off, but I've never really understood the rational for wanting to be single. I mean, there are disadvantages to being in a relationship, but surely it’s better to be in a, good(!), one, rather than be single? I would rather be in a relationship than be single...BUT....I would rather be single than be in a bad relationship. Link to comment
enola Posted January 8, 2009 Share Posted January 8, 2009 Being single is fun, but being in a truly good relationship is superior in all sorts of ways. Link to comment
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