liquer Posted December 11, 2008 Author Share Posted December 11, 2008 i don't understand what the point of the question is, though. are you arguing that girls shouldn't use vibrators while in a relationship, or that guys should be able to incorporate their own sex toys while having sex? I'm not arguing anything, just asking a question as to why the toys seems to be only of a kind that can be used on women. Link to comment
greywolf Posted December 11, 2008 Share Posted December 11, 2008 OP what is the point of this thread? We have stated our opinion and yet you seem to be upset by it. Like I said, if a guy wanted to use a blow up doll then that's fine. But I'm not gonna sit and watch him. Sex is supposed to be 2 people doing it together. Link to comment
greywolf Posted December 11, 2008 Share Posted December 11, 2008 I'm not arguing anything, just asking a question as to why the toys seems to be only of a kind that can be used on women. ummm... what about c0ck rings? and fleshlights? I'd even use a dildo on a guy if he wanted. Link to comment
kaoticbaby Posted December 11, 2008 Share Posted December 11, 2008 I'm not arguing anything, just asking a question as to why the toys seems to be only of a kind that can be used on women. we've all given alternate "toys for boys" besides blowup dolls that we would have no problem with in bed. blowup dolls are fine if a guy wants to use them on his own time, it's just not really a "group activity" so to speak. Link to comment
liquer Posted December 11, 2008 Author Share Posted December 11, 2008 ummm... what about c0ck rings? and fleshlights? I'd even use a dildo on a guy if he wanted. Wow! Like something out of Myra Breckenridge. Link to comment
kaoticbaby Posted December 11, 2008 Share Posted December 11, 2008 ummm... what about c0ck rings? and fleshlights? I'd even use a dildo on a guy if he wanted. cckrings are fun for the whole family (ew that sounded gross haha. well you know what i mean.) Link to comment
liquer Posted December 11, 2008 Author Share Posted December 11, 2008 OP what is the point of this thread? We have stated our opinion and yet you seem to be upset by it. Like I said, if a guy wanted to use a blow up doll then that's fine. But I'm not gonna sit and watch him. Sex is supposed to be 2 people doing it together. I'm not upset by it, far from it, I'm glad you've given me your opinions. Been a real eye-openor for me. Thanks. Link to comment
liquer Posted December 11, 2008 Author Share Posted December 11, 2008 * * * * rings are fun for the whole family (ew that sounded gross haha. well you know what i mean.) I do know what you mean! LOL Link to comment
Pressfit Posted December 11, 2008 Share Posted December 11, 2008 Did you hear about the Terrorist blow-up doll? When you get it home it blows itself up. Link to comment
greywolf Posted December 11, 2008 Share Posted December 11, 2008 Wow! Like something out of Myra Breckenridge. I've never seen the movie, but doesn't she rape the guy in it or something? so uhh... i don't really see how it's similar Link to comment
liquer Posted December 11, 2008 Author Share Posted December 11, 2008 I've never seen the movie, but doesn't she rape the guy in it or something? so uhh... i don't really see how it's similar Yeah, was joking. Link to comment
greywolf Posted December 11, 2008 Share Posted December 11, 2008 Yeah, was joking. oh. hehehe. ok Link to comment
Crazyaboutdogs Posted December 11, 2008 Share Posted December 11, 2008 Yes, but it would be hypocritical to say no to say a blow-up doll but think it fine to use a vibrator. I mean at the end of the day a sex toy is a sex toy, let's not get snobby about them. A blow up doll would take up too much room on the bed! Link to comment
liquer Posted December 11, 2008 Author Share Posted December 11, 2008 oh. hehehe. ok And that's not my best gag, that was me on an 8 out of 10. Link to comment
Catdancer Posted December 11, 2008 Share Posted December 11, 2008 I think sex toys enhance the experience. My bf and I use alot of toys and props, but we dont do it all the time. Actually most of the time we just use what we have, fingers, mouths and those other parts that are so fun to play with...lol. We talk each other through fantasies while having sex, we imagine other people with us, sometimes we'll use a vibrating dildo for double penetration as if it were another man. Sometimes I'll use a small dildo to stroke his prostate. We love poking around porn shops and playing with the vibrating vaginas and other things that they come up with. I am particularly fond of flesh lights (very real feeling vaginas), as I LOVE how they feel when I slide my fingers in and out..lol. I guess for a couple who is very open and expressive about their sexual appetites, toys are a bonus. For those who are just starting to get to know each other sexually, it may be a little intimidating. Everyone is different. But for us....we love variety and seeing what we can think of next! Link to comment
Luke Skywalker Posted December 12, 2008 Share Posted December 12, 2008 I would get rid of my fleshlight if I were in a relationship because I think it's not necessary if you have the real thing anyway and it defeats it's purpose and loses it's symoblic value with me. To someone else, they may just be using this sort of toy for fun and they just have to find a type of freaky girl that this would be an additional turn-on rather than a liability to a relationship. I don't see myself in a relationship with a type of woman who would accept a fleshlight toy as co-existing in a relationship and being comfortable with that. I've read threads on here about how sex toys have destroyed relationships because a guy rather do the sex toy rather than a real vagina, and just like how porn also contributes to destroying relationships. While I have seen relationships blow apart for very stupid reasons having experienced that myself, I don't want this sex toy to be one of them. However, with my rotten luck with women, I may as well keep it around since it would likely blow up on some other stupid reason anyway with or without that sex toy. I don't know, I guess it's one of those things. for example, you got this guy that has a bunch of Real-dolls and introduces them to his girlfriend, and sits the dolls down in a table, and she left him the following week. I don't want to end up like these guys. Maybe I would prefer a relationship blowing apart for any stupid reason EXCEPT a sex toy or porn hang-up. Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted December 12, 2008 Share Posted December 12, 2008 There are more to sex toys then just dildos. ****rings, fuzzy handcuffs, clitoral stimulator, and anal beads are all toys that are not substitutes. Link to comment
laisla Posted December 12, 2008 Share Posted December 12, 2008 why sex toys? because penises don't vibrate. Link to comment
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