calxan Posted August 31, 2008 Share Posted August 31, 2008 please someone give me some advice.... My husband of 7 years told me about a month ago that he doesn't know if he loves me any more.... he feels like he always has to think of me before he does anything because hes afraid of how I will react... I also depend on him too much. We met when I was a senior in high school, he was my first boyfriend, I have self esteem issues, he showered me with compliments and told me how great of a person I was... I was attracted to that since nobody had ever told me these things and I leaned on him was too much through the years. Its just I didn't know that my issues with esteem/depression and anxiety were taking such a toll on him and now I'm afraid it might be too late. He says he wants to work it out, but doesn't know exactly what the problem is, that he still cares for me alot but doesn't know if he wants to still be with me and that we may have grown apart. I am currently seeking help for my depression but I'm afraid it might be too late, I'm so afraid of losing him because I love him so much... I feel like I have ruined everything... I find it hard just to get through the day and find myself thinking of ending my life...while I would never act on it because I have 2 beautiful boys and would never hurt them like that, the thoughts still pop into my head. Please I need some advice. I don't know what to do and don't think he knows what I can do either. We still get along, we never fight, we laugh and joke and smile.... I can't trust that its real though, I feel a deep connection when we are together, but I don't know if he feels anything or is just trying to make me happy (still) Link to comment
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