giggle3474 Posted August 23, 2008 Share Posted August 23, 2008 My ex and I have been broken up for about 2 months almost. Recently we have spent a lot of time together and have been talking about working things out. Last night he took me to one of his friends birthday party. We had a great time and it was a truly wonderful night. I have been so happy that he has been more open to his feelings and has indicated an interest in working things out. I love him so much... This morning I was going through his pants getting out my id and credit card and I grabbed his phone. I dont know what posessed me but I went through it. I guess I was just wondering what he had been up to. Anyhow I saw a few texts in there that bothered me. 1 said: I really enjoy spending time with you even if we are just going to be cool.. another said: thanks for coming by tonight babygirl and the 3rd one said: I am thinking about the way you taste. Im so upset by that. It really sounds like he has slept with someone else and all this time he has been sleeping with me. Whats worse is that he figured out that I went through his phone and now he is upset with me. I totally understand but still - the thought of him sleeping with someone else just kills me. I don't know what to do. Do I even have a right to be upset? And how do I handle it if he has been sleeping with someone else. Technically speaking we aren't together but at the same time, we aren't really broken up either. I am so sad right now. The intimacy that he and I share is very special to me. We have a wonderful sex life and it's made all the better because we really care about each other. To think of him sharing that with some stranger just kills me. I know he had to have just met this girl... I don't know the date of the text but it had to be in the last 2 weeks. And the last 3 weekends have been spent entirely with me. Please help!! Link to comment
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