ashley001 Posted August 14, 2008 Share Posted August 14, 2008 My boyfriend and I have been getting more intimate with each other in the past month and i've only been giving him handjobs because i don't really know what feels better for him. Personally, I'm kind of getting bored of the handjob ordeal and would like to go down on him, the idea of it just turns me on so much, but just from guy's or girl's with experience, do guys prefer getting blowjobs or handjobs? what's the difference in how it feels? the only thing i'm afraid of is him ejaculating in my mouth/face because he never tells me when he's going to when i give him a handjob, i mean i can KINDA tell because he pulls me in close and gets tense, breathes harder all that...so just need opinion on handjob vs. blowjob thanks! Link to comment
morgane Posted August 14, 2008 Share Posted August 14, 2008 i love giving men blow jobs, it feels better for them and i enjoy swallowing Link to comment
shikashika Posted August 14, 2008 Share Posted August 14, 2008 I've never had a guy NOt like a blowjob! try and and see if he complains! I don't think he'll push you away! Link to comment
ghost69 Posted August 14, 2008 Share Posted August 14, 2008 go down on him. act like it's just gonna be another hand job. surprise him. he won't complain. Link to comment
kaoticbaby Posted August 14, 2008 Share Posted August 14, 2008 i think most guys would agree that blowjobs feel better, if you want to give him one, i'm sure he'd be more than happy Link to comment
adommin Posted August 14, 2008 Share Posted August 14, 2008 Blowjobs feel much better than handjobs. For me the main thing that makes blowjobs so much better is the warmth. Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted August 14, 2008 Share Posted August 14, 2008 can he not tell when he is cumming? Link to comment
lostandhurt Posted August 14, 2008 Share Posted August 14, 2008 There is no rule about one or the other. You can use your hands and mouth and he will NOT push you away. As far as him not telling you when he is about to cum, just ask him to let you know so you can be ready for it. lost Link to comment
Aviatormy Posted August 14, 2008 Share Posted August 14, 2008 i love giving men blow jobs, it feels better for them and i enjoy swallowing you are my hero! Great Job! lol. There needs to be more women like you in this world! lol. I am a very lucky guy in that area myself so I would agree... Blowjobs are far more of a turn on! Woot Woot! Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted August 14, 2008 Share Posted August 14, 2008 Also, you don't want him to cum in your mouth? Why not? I agree with morgane. I like it. Link to comment
KG Posted August 14, 2008 Share Posted August 14, 2008 BJ's are better, feel better, more intense connection, and a stronger O because of the warmth. And it's just polite to tell when he is ready to finish.... Link to comment
DaBladeRoden Posted August 14, 2008 Share Posted August 14, 2008 Men can do their own hand jobs, give him a blow. Link to comment
redhearts Posted August 14, 2008 Share Posted August 14, 2008 Hand jobs are only good while giving a blow job. At 16 if you start sex with him use bc and a condom, limit the threads on teen pregnancies.=] Link to comment
britt92084 Posted August 14, 2008 Share Posted August 14, 2008 If you are scared of him cumming and you not knowing its very simple. I have never let a guy cum in my mouth, I dont know why I cant either I'm just scared. I think its the whole surprise thing, I hate surprises like that! but me and my bf have a rule, and its become such a routine I say it without thinking haha but I always say before we start, your gonna let me know right? and he always smiles and says yeahhhhh and then he just tells me when he's bout to cum, and I finish him off and we are done. you're bf would prob love for you to just start goin down on him without even a hint. guys LOVE that kind of stuff. Link to comment
mandyc Posted August 14, 2008 Share Posted August 14, 2008 blow jobs probably feel better... but I can never get him off from them. but then again i FINALLY got him off after a month and half of dating for the first time last night! yay! grrr such a frustrating wait though, but i feel better now that he has. i started with a bj then ended with a hand job. Link to comment
WilliamC Posted August 14, 2008 Share Posted August 14, 2008 Blow jobs most definatly. If you ask ahead of time Im sure hell tell you. Past girlfriends have liked giving them but my most recent ex didnt like the taste. Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted August 14, 2008 Share Posted August 14, 2008 Do you know his sexual past? STD's (like HIV) can be transmitted via oral sex on a man. Use a condom, and then you won't have to worry about him cumming in your mouth. Link to comment
GamerX1202 Posted August 14, 2008 Share Posted August 14, 2008 I've only read about this, but I would guess a BJ is much better. Do they make condoms that taste good for the blower? Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted August 14, 2008 Share Posted August 14, 2008 Do they make condoms that taste good for the blower? Probably. They make them in all kinds of colors now, I would imagine they make them flavored..... Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted August 14, 2008 Share Posted August 14, 2008 I've only read about this, but I would guess a BJ is much better. Do they make condoms that taste good for the blower? They make everything from chocolate to fruity. Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted August 14, 2008 Share Posted August 14, 2008 They make everything from chocolate to fruity. See - so there is NO REASON NOT TO PRACTIVE SAFE SEX! Link to comment
JadedStar Posted August 14, 2008 Share Posted August 14, 2008 You can tell when he is about to cum just before it happens once you have done it a few times. Link to comment
Amore Posted August 15, 2008 Share Posted August 15, 2008 I love giving blow jobs... it's just so intimate, I love looking up at his face while doing it, and I love swallowing. My ex hated blow jobs and only wanted hand jobs, but thankfully my current partner loves them Link to comment
GoldenHillGuy Posted August 15, 2008 Share Posted August 15, 2008 In my experience, straight blow jobs are hard to make me cum. I need a combination of the two. Best tip: Keep it WET, and use your hand. Link to comment
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