knightingale Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 Should I explain to my ex why I did it? We had a good talk this last weekend, but it doesn't change the fact that he is openly seeing someone else right now. So, for the sake of my health (mentally, emotionally, physically) I decided I needed to block him to help me heal. I didn't want to be tempted to monitor their relationship and even if I resisted it, that damn mini-feed announces everything so it was inescapable. I don't want it being looked at like I'm being immature or weak or anything. He's already starting to view me as a weak person and I can't stand it. I want him to understand why I am doing it; that I'm just taking care of myself. But should it matter what he thinks at this point? I mean, is this something I should clear up or should I just let it be? I was just going to write him a letter and drop it at his place, no real contact, no expectations for a reply. I just don't want to be looked at like I'm weak, I can't handle it. Anyway. Let me know how you all handled this and how you think I should best deal with it. Bleh. Link to comment
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