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  1. GottaLetItBurn
    I made a thread a few months back about this same thing. I got invited to her Friday night birthday party. I declined, and it was a good decision. I hadn't seen her face to face in over a year, almost 2 now...Best decision I made...I couldn't have handled it, you should think about whether you can.
  2. GottaLetItBurn
    It's the classic abusive situation where you hold onto the one holding you back. It's strange how a good guy can treat a woman like a queen and she doesn't want him, and the abusive guy beats her down mentally and she wants him. Time to think about whats best...not the most exciting emotional roller coaster you can get on. Move on move on.
  3. GottaLetItBurn
    You will be, it will take a lot of time though. Like not seeing her for a long time. Realizing she is not as great as you think, and hanging out with friends. Why would you think you should have interest in hot women when your heart is aching? It's time for a break..Heal and move on.
  4. GottaLetItBurn
    I have seen a therapist too. It helps if you can talk about it. You'll be okay. It's good your mom noticed that the break up was effecting you so much. I would recommend therapy to anyone grieving over the loss of a love one, break up or otherwise.
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    Interesting. I had a dream either yesterday or the day before, sorry I have trouble remembering, that I died. I had been thinking about what happens after a person dies, blah blah. Then I had a dream about it. So think about it. If your sad about something, maybe rejection. Getting rejected for messing up. Think about it. Dreams, for me, usually follow my mind. What I have on my mind. When I got my heartbroken, and even recently talking to the girl, all my dreams are about her. So your normal, don't worry about it. Your okay, and your mind is only trying to relieve you of the stress you can't deal with. It's hard getting over someone, your mind gets it out through dreams. Your okay.
  6. GottaLetItBurn
    You said your tired of the friendship bs, I hate that too. I had experienced not after cheating, but when she decided to go back to her ex while having me wait on an answer. Like nothing happened at all. I know that feeling your going through, it's unbelievable. It makes you really mad too, which is on top of all the other mix of feelings going through your head, and that's bad. You just have to remind yourself of the things that you know are true. He didn't cherish you. No normal person would ever do anything to risk losing you, unless they are very stupid. In time he will see how stupid he was, and probably end up all alone. If by chance, he ends up getting married to some other girl, chances are by his bad decision making, that it won't last. He messed up his chance to be with you, and picked the person who in the long run isn't what he wanted. Call it Karma. He will be miserable either way, because he didn't know a good girl when he had one. Just remind yourself that you didn't do anything wrong. You loved someone, and they took you for granted. Try to ignore his calls, you can give plenty of better guys a chance. He is the one that girls are going to be wasting there time on. Take care of yourself.
  7. GottaLetItBurn
    That would be the scariest thing I've ever done in my life, god just that suggestion makes me feel weak. You guys have solid advice, but is that really the only way I can find out?
  8. GottaLetItBurn
    Well if she said it was me, I wouldn't know what to say. If she said it wasn't then I look stupid. So thats a conflict there.
  9. GottaLetItBurn
    Thanks for the insight. I go from not caring, to caring. I just wish she would have said who it was to. That could be to any guy she has ever spent a week hanging out with. I thought his comment was sort of corny too, he is a line stealer. I notice when I went to his page a lot of what he writes is stolen from movies. It just seems to fit me, because she wrote "never gave that chance" or whatever. Then I think, maybe she is talking about another person she did the same thing to me. So it could be someone else. I just keeping snooping more and more until I am all hurt over again. It's hard not to check up, and when I read something like that it send a chill down my spine.
  10. GottaLetItBurn
    Her ex responded with this... "I Think I Know Who That Person Is...But If Its That Dude Then I'm Telling Him To Read This Cause I KNOW He Still Loves You Too And If He Could Change Anything About The Present Right Now And Forever It Would Be To Keep You By His Side And Never Let You Take A Part Of Him That NO Woman Ever Can Have.....So I'm Letting Yuu Know As A Friend That He Loves You Still And He Will Never Give Up On You ." I don't know what to think. He doesn't know who I am, so if he is seriously saying he knows "that dude" he doesn't know me unless he remembers seeing me with her. Is he being sarcastic and talking about himself, or is he really talking about someone else? If so, I don't see how she could have fallen in love with someone else besides him seeing as he was the only serious relationship she was in recently to my knowledge. anyone care to put in input now, I would really appreciate a friends point of view, I could use one right now.
  11. GottaLetItBurn
    I don't think I could ever be drunk enough to call anyone just to talk. Like an girl I don't see anymore. I think I called a girl one time, and it was during a blackout. I don't even remember the call, that's how scary drunk I was. He obviously wants to talk to you but is too much of a wuss to do it sober.
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    Pretty is in the eye of the beholder. Beauty is in the soul, you can't see it but you know it when you feel it. Oh, and Lol at you avatar.
  14. GottaLetItBurn
    It just really gets to me, because the more I read what she wrote over and over. I think, damn she either wrote this on purpose to be confusing or by complete accident. If it was to me, then it isn't completely clear. If it was to her ex, than, why wouldn't she just write that to him, plus she gave him chances. I really hope someone makes a comment on here myspace blog, then she responds. Or she makes another one so I can atleast know if it's about me or someone else. If it was me, it would give me hope. Not for now, but for some day if we ever run into each other. Like maybe we will both grow up and then maybe a little faith makes us meet at the right time. Then maybe keeping in touch wasn't such a waste. I like to think maybe there is a reason we never got together, it was bad timing. There is a reason I looked at her page today and she wrote that. The little things, I just hate the fact this will be on my mind for a while..it sucks.
  15. GottaLetItBurn
    I did a lot of thinking, and I have thought that maybe we just weren't meant to be you know. I convinced myself that was it because she didn't like sports, then slapped myself when I realized how many married woman don't like sports. I don't know though about forgiving? How can it ever be the same again, and after all this pain. I just have a hard time believing that a girl can leave than man she truly loves, than change her mind after a year. I once heard that once a girl makes her mind up it's final. That's why I gave up hope, do girls change their minds like that? To answer your question better, I don't want to get hurt ever again like that. No person is worth getting hurt by twice.
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