judyness Posted March 8, 2008 Share Posted March 8, 2008 My brother never liked him. He told me he got a bad vibe from him. I never saw it though. wooo hooo perfecT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! have your brother beat him up and send the message!!!! Link to comment
judyness Posted March 8, 2008 Share Posted March 8, 2008 Yeh, for reals, just make sure you keep him out of your life. You deserve better and you will find better. As for now, your a free woman who doesn't need him!! Don't give him a second chance, or I gurantee you'll be back here saying, "i think hes cheating again, with the same girl.. or another?" Link to comment
pink1607307777 Posted March 8, 2008 Author Share Posted March 8, 2008 I wonder if this girl even knows about me? How could she not? Why do people cheat??? Well, what goes around comes around...he'll pay for this eventually! I'm mad at him and the girl! They can have each other!!! Link to comment
FuzzyKitten Posted March 8, 2008 Share Posted March 8, 2008 How long were you guys together? just curious... Link to comment
judyness Posted March 8, 2008 Share Posted March 8, 2008 years...but he started to act distant last month we never had a lot of time together, because of our schedules, but he keep begging me to be patient and wait for him to have more time for me... * * * * * * * !!! we never lived together...thank goodness!!! right now, I hate his guts so much!!! hate isnt going to get you anywhere just poison your heart. relax, just be happy and thankful that you found out about this right now but really you should of gone up to him and that girl. acted like hey sweetie whos this? LOL Link to comment
pink1607307777 Posted March 8, 2008 Author Share Posted March 8, 2008 I don't even want my stuff back! Whatever he has of mine he can keep! It's all tainted now. How can people with a conscience do something like this? Link to comment
pink1607307777 Posted March 8, 2008 Author Share Posted March 8, 2008 but really you should of gone up to him and that girl. acted like hey sweetie whos this? I couldn't breathe when I saw them. I thought I was going to pass out...literally. I had to get out of there, and I came home. I was crying and shaking all the way home. Link to comment
FuzzyKitten Posted March 8, 2008 Share Posted March 8, 2008 I'm sorry That really sucks. You'll find better. you seem like a strong person who will not put up with this crap! Link to comment
judyness Posted March 8, 2008 Share Posted March 8, 2008 I couldn't breathe when I saw them. I thought I was going to pass out...literally. I had to get out of there, and I came home. I was crying and shaking all the way home. aww you poor girl!! that sucks.. its hard.. but you need to at least get the guts to call and say, i saw you with her-- definitely its over. Link to comment
artofdrowning Posted March 8, 2008 Share Posted March 8, 2008 because he's a selfish bastard I doubt he has a soul and he'll do the same to the new girl Link to comment
pink1607307777 Posted March 8, 2008 Author Share Posted March 8, 2008 he doesn't deserve a phone call from me he didn't call me tonight, he usually would have...so maybe someone saw that I saw...and told him...I don't know I don't want to hear his voice right now Link to comment
annie24 Posted March 8, 2008 Share Posted March 8, 2008 oh, ewwww! i am so sorry hun. you must be super sad and disappointed. well, you saw it with your own eyes, so you know what's going on. i would just end things and move on. i am so sorry. ((((HUGS)))) Link to comment
SpeedingCars Posted March 8, 2008 Share Posted March 8, 2008 I am incredibly sorry to hear that... I can relate the emotional distress you are feeling right now. It feels like your heart is melting right there in your chest and you feel numb... The best thing you can do is ignore him for awhile... that's all I can say. You honestly DO deserve better, and although it was a horrible horrible way to find out, now you no longer have to deal with him! Link to comment
pink1607307777 Posted March 8, 2008 Author Share Posted March 8, 2008 I am driving myself crazy right now trying to figure out how long it had been going on. I am planning on ignoring him. I still don't know how I am going to tell my friends...I feel so humiliated. Link to comment
pink1607307777 Posted March 8, 2008 Author Share Posted March 8, 2008 now you no longer have to deal with him! yeah...it's strange how so much can change in an instant of truth Link to comment
pink1607307777 Posted March 8, 2008 Author Share Posted March 8, 2008 I would never be able to trust him again. He ruined everything. He has lost me, and it is all his fault! He has to live with that! Link to comment
judyness Posted March 8, 2008 Share Posted March 8, 2008 Good for you!! Good job on ignoring him!! Press forward with that, don't even answer a call if he does call!! Your a strong woman and you'll get through this. Don't worry what your friends think!! Link to comment
thejigsup Posted March 8, 2008 Share Posted March 8, 2008 Do you live near L.A.? I have recently found my now ex-boyfriend of 8 years was seeing someone on the side only once in awhile. He told me her favorite color was pink and she used that as a nickname. They had been friends for a long time, so he told me. He insisted nothing but friendship was going on, but he called her often. If this could be you, get tested. This guy was doing everybody! Link to comment
Miss Firecracker Posted March 8, 2008 Share Posted March 8, 2008 In February he told me that he was really overwhelmed with work, family, stress...he said that he needed to slow things down, breathe a bit, but assured me he still wanted to be with me. Now I'm wondering if that was a lie. I think you know it was a lie. I'm sorry, but practically everyone who is tired of someone and being drawn to another person says this same line. It's so cliche it's embarrassing. This has to hurt like hell, and I am so sorry for you. That is a long time to be with one person and have then do you this way. Link to comment
judyness Posted March 8, 2008 Share Posted March 8, 2008 Especially if work isn't that hard, its not a demanding job, not close to family or has any kids and stress.. well thats reasonable. But slowing things down so they can squeeze in the new girl. Link to comment
Bunney Posted March 8, 2008 Share Posted March 8, 2008 What a jerk. But I would at least tell him that you know, so he won't think he can get away with his cheating without you knowing about it. Tell him you know what's going on and that it's over. I'm sorry you're going through this.. it will get better with time though. You deserve so much more. Link to comment
pink1607307777 Posted March 8, 2008 Author Share Posted March 8, 2008 Do you live near L.A.? No. That's a weird coincidence though...kinda creepy! Link to comment
thejigsup Posted March 8, 2008 Share Posted March 8, 2008 It's also scary that there is more man than one who plays this sort of game. Be strong! He definitely does not deserve you. Link to comment
metrogirl Posted March 9, 2008 Share Posted March 9, 2008 I wonder if this girl even knows about me? How could she not? Why do people cheat??? Well, what goes around comes around...he'll pay for this eventually! I'm mad at him and the girl! They can have each other!!! No need to be mad at her unless she knew about you. Most cases the other girl doesn't know that the guy has a girlfriend. Be mad at him. He knows what he is doing, what a pig. Link to comment
lady00 Posted March 9, 2008 Share Posted March 9, 2008 It's good that you've decided to just drop him and not even bother formally telling him to buzz off. He doesn't deserve the courtesy. Link to comment
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