For the Women: What Do You Consider Well-Endowed for a Man?

[Cannon]

I know the statistical numbers and all...but all women have their likes and dislikes regardless of that. What do the women in this forum consider to be well-endowed for a male? I've heard and read some women say/write 9-10 inches...and others have said 8 inches.

[Jeen]

I like 8inches and consider it well-endowed.

[Portage]

If i'm attracted to my partner and he is a sharing and compassionate lover, who cares?? Honestly.

[BeStrongBeHappy]

there are too many porn films out there driving this standard!

 

the AVERAGE male is 5.5", measured at the top. the norm is plus or minus an inch of that.

 

and there are very very few with 9-10"... and most are starring in porn films!

 

men spend a LOT of time worrying about/wishing they were 'well endowed', and women spend VERY LITTLE time thinking about this...

 

there are so many other components to sexual chemistry and good sex than just penis size, men should spend their time thinking about creative ways to have good sex rather than their organ size... women are far, far more interested in a guy's lovemaking skills in total (i.e., the whole experience, not the guy's penis size).

[cristal]

there are so many other components to sexual chemistry and good sex than just penis size, men should spend their time thinking about creative ways to have good sex rather than their organ size... women are far, far more interested in a guy's lovemaking skills in total (i.e., the whole experience, not the guy's penis size).

 

 

100 percent the truth. I've had big and I've had little. I still miss the little guy and it is all a result of his lovemaking skills.

 

In my opinion, that trumped the "bigger is better" theory.

[toshiba]

Not important.

[Honey Pumpkin]

I'm with BSBH - the average is MUCH smaller, and frankly, if people answer this thread, there will be a suspicious number of claims for huge members which I just don't believe. That's why people get fretful, all the boasting on the internet, lol.

[annie24]

If i'm attracted to my partner and he is a sharing and compassionate lover, who cares?? Honestly.

 

i agree!!!! plus, i'd be afraid of a penis that looks like it can damage my internal organs.

[Jeen]

I know the statistical numbers and all...but all women have their likes and dislikes regardless of that. What do the women in this forum consider to be well-endowed for a male? I've heard and read some women say/write 9-10 inches...and others have said 8 inches.

 

 

 

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[LBP]

Eight inches is pretty darn big!

[Jeen]

Eight inches is pretty darn big!

 

 

 

That is the size of my vibrator.

[cristal]

I don't think 9 or 10 inches (not centimeters) is natural. It sounds freakishly large to me. Unless the guy is like 7 feet tall or something, which is possible.

 

 

9-10 inches is fairly large but workable. 5-7 inches is more the "everyday" size penis.

[toshiba]

9-10 inches is fairly large but workable. 5-7 inches is more the "everyday" size penis.

 

 

Suitable for everyday use.....

[cristal]

Suitable for everyday use.....

 

 

Yes, it is suitable for everyday use. And it is the size that you pretty much see on a daily basis.

[greensleeves]

I agree, men obsess about this waaaay too much. I think it's media driven and causes way to much angst for men, just the way superthin models create angst in women. And it's really what's going on around the entrance of the vajaajaa that creates stimulation, not 10 inches in and actually, I think girth can be more important than length. At any rate, if a guy is what is typically considered well-endowed, but doesn't have a clue what he's doing, what good is it? Men have to learn how to use what they have to please the woman they're with. We're not "one size fits all" (no pun intended) and have different likes and dislikes. Ask her what she likes and what feels good and pay close attention to her signals and where she's guiding you.

 

Listen to the Maria Muldaur song "It's Not the Meat its the Motion"

[toshiba]

The amount of pleasure to a woman actually works in reverse because usually the guys with the big ones think that all they have to do is stick it in.

[Portage]

^ I most definitely agree, and this is from personal experience.

 

Question for men, do you guys actually lose sleep over this?

[FortunateOne]

^

Question for men, do you guys actually lose sleep over this?

 

Ah....... Nope!

[musicguy]

Two days ago a female friend (who likes me) asked me how well endowed I am, I told her how big I was and she said. ""It's THAT small?" I haven't talked to her since

[Atticus90]

I don't see the problem.

 

I'm sure the girls can feel something.

It's not like you can get inside her unnoticed lol.

 

If she can feel something which is 100%, then you accomplished your mission.

[musicguy]

Genital size doesn't compare to sexual performance. One can have a summer sausage and still suck in bed, where as one can have a little smokie and make you scream so loud you wake the neighbors up

[cristal]

Genital size doesn't compare to sexual performance. One can have a summer sausage and still suck in bed, where as one can have a little smokie and make you scream so loud you wake the neighbors up

 

 

I agree. Ain't it the truth?

[cc2006]

OMG I'm so glad someone on the interwebs finally got around to making this topic!

 

 

 

 

 

 

Anyway .. we do obsess over it way to much guys ... seriously. .. although, there are some women that this matters waaaay too much for.

 

Avoid those ones .. and you'll do fine.

[KG]

^ I most definitely agree, and this is from personal experience.

 

Question for men, do you guys actually lose sleep over this?

 

Nope! "You get what you get and you don't throw a fit!"

[Zorba]

Genital size doesn't compare to sexual performance. One can have a summer sausage and still suck in bed, where as one can have a little smokie and make you scream so loud you wake the neighbors up

True but if you have a summer sausage and don't suck in bed you're better off than little smokie as little smokie has to rely on technique alone and can't improve in the physical area.

 

The fact is there is doubtless a size where it matters, big and small. I would suspect nature being what it is the average 5-7 is the sweet spot(average girth as well). Any less and you have to up your game in other ways, any more and there could be issues too(though less as you don't have to use all of it). It's the same with vaginas. There is a range of tightness that is good. Outside of that range and it's too loose for pleasure or too tight for the same reason. Although like the bigger penis, all things being equal, tighter is obviously better.

 

The other fact is that there's sweet fanny adams you can do about it so if you are underendowed then you have to up your game in other ways and from what I gather from women you won't have that much competition. Moaning about it is very unattractive and weak frankly. There are worse things in life than having a small pecker, so get over it.

 

The other thing to note is that a woman wont stay with you if you have a big one, so she's not very likely to leave you if you're smaller, all things being equal.