Krystal_Ivy Posted November 30, 2007 Share Posted November 30, 2007 So...I'm a virgin getting married soon, and my fiance' is NOT. He was with a girl that was very experienced. I don't wanna suck at it what can I do to make it great?? what do you guys love for a woman to do in bed that maes her great? Link to comment
Censored Posted November 30, 2007 Share Posted November 30, 2007 Everyone has different likes and dislikes when it comes to this. I would imagine that as you are a virgin and you are getting married, it will be an incredibly intimate time for both of you. I would also think that he would be very gentle with you and not expect you to be a wanna be porn starlet with him!!! In the longer term, it is about communicating pysically what YOU like as well as him communicating what HE likes. But for this first encounter, i would expect an incredibly intimate, close and gentle experience. Although, showing that you enjoy him physically, through expressions is always good (assuming it isn't hurting) Link to comment
Crazyaboutdogs Posted November 30, 2007 Share Posted November 30, 2007 You are not competing with his ex...he chose to marry you, not his ex, so you don't have to go outdo yourself so that he will be more impressed with your bedroom skills. He knows you are a virgin. Let him teach you what he likes...maybe he would prefer it that way and over time you can experiment together. Be yourself...don't think that you have to act like a hooker in bed just to please him. Link to comment
sandyv Posted November 30, 2007 Share Posted November 30, 2007 Krystal, I imagine that will happen quite naturally, no better way, we should all be so innocent..... enjoy! xx Ssandy Link to comment
princess_summer_blue84 Posted November 30, 2007 Share Posted November 30, 2007 so true ! Your a virgin . Let him show you what he enjoys and let him teach you how to please him in bed . You are the women he wants no one else . Enjoy! I still wish I was a virgin. Sighs! Link to comment
theartofruin Posted November 30, 2007 Share Posted November 30, 2007 Most girls think they have to act like a porn star in bed to make the sex good. I don't think this is the case. Be passionate -- touch his body, make him feel attractive, kiss him. If you love each other, you should be comfortable enough with each other to do and say most anything. Communicate -- either before, during, or after. Make each other aware of what you like and don't like, and what - if any - boundaries you have. Enjoy it -- you don't need to flip him over into a 1000 different positions. Just 1 or 2 positions can be amazing if you're both enjoying it. Let him know in words or actions that you are loving it. That's one of the biggest turn ons. Link to comment
LostInMyThoughts Posted November 30, 2007 Share Posted November 30, 2007 So...I'm a virgin getting married soon, and my fiance' is NOT. He was with a girl that was very experienced. I don't wanna suck at it what can I do to make it great?? what do you guys love for a woman to do in bed that maes her great? Well are you talking wedding night sex, or just getting better in the future? I think great sex isn't something you can just pull off. You have to practice, and have an open mind. Being good at sex isn't so much what you can do physically, but more what you can do mentally. Every guy is different, so you'll have to learn what turns him on, and go from there. Link to comment
jimthzz Posted November 30, 2007 Share Posted November 30, 2007 Congrats on your new life together. Just enthusiastically express your joy with him. The details will work out all by themselves. Link to comment
Krystal_Ivy Posted November 30, 2007 Author Share Posted November 30, 2007 thanx that made me feel better. anyone else? Link to comment
theartofruin Posted December 1, 2007 Share Posted December 1, 2007 P.S. Whoever sent me a 'reputation' - yep, I'm a guy! Glad I said something to help you out Link to comment
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