need2bme Posted November 17, 2007 Share Posted November 17, 2007 ](*,) When you are supposedly healing and find yourself driving in your car and playing your iPod, don't EVER and I mean EVER, play "One Last Cry" by Brian McKnight. It will make you have more than just ONE cry..... Link to comment
keenan Posted November 17, 2007 Share Posted November 17, 2007 Don't ever play "Goodbye my lover" by James Blunt. Ye gods, you might as well just drive over a cliff. Link to comment
leo_s84 Posted November 17, 2007 Share Posted November 17, 2007 Or anything by ColdPlay Link to comment
browneyedgirl36 Posted November 17, 2007 Share Posted November 17, 2007 Or "One" by U2....gahhhhhhhhhhh. Link to comment
Day_Walker Posted November 17, 2007 Share Posted November 17, 2007 Why not play that song, it is a beautiful song. The problem isnt the song its that you find pain in its meaning. As humans we feel, that is what we do but your feeling of loss does not mean there is an end. You dont want to hear this but break ups happen and it wont be the last time you break up with a person, it is the way life is. Link to comment
lostinlove24 Posted November 17, 2007 Share Posted November 17, 2007 Don't ever play "Goodbye my lover" by James Blunt. Ye gods, you might as well just drive over a cliff. Yeah, No kidding...That one gets me everytime.. Link to comment
saltandvinegar Posted November 17, 2007 Share Posted November 17, 2007 Coldplay makes me cry even when I thought I was happy. Its seriously dangerous stuff, that Coldplay. definitely never play it in the car when you are driving on your own, you will need windscreen wipers for your eyes. Link to comment
cabman Posted November 17, 2007 Share Posted November 17, 2007 ](*,) When you are supposedly healing and find yourself driving in your car and playing your iPod, don't EVER and I mean EVER, play "One Last Cry" by Brian McKnight. It will make you have more than just ONE cry..... "If your gonna leave" by Emerson Hart Link to comment
cabman Posted November 17, 2007 Share Posted November 17, 2007 Don't ever play "Goodbye my lover" by James Blunt. Ye gods, you might as well just drive over a cliff. Wow!!...I just listened to this. What a tear jerker. Link to comment
JeckyllNHyde Posted November 17, 2007 Share Posted November 17, 2007 Damn James Blunt... Him and his lyrics and voice in that song... Gahhh... It can make me miss guys I normally haven't even thought about in ages sometimes... Link to comment
thinkstoohard Posted November 17, 2007 Share Posted November 17, 2007 What the heck is wrong with me??? I must be a weirdo b/c instead of not listening to it I went and downloaded so I new what you were talking about. I'm a freak like that I guess!!! Actually, it does make me cry but I find it to be soothing b/c it's about LETTING GO. Link to comment
cabman Posted November 17, 2007 Share Posted November 17, 2007 What the heck is wrong with me??? I must be a weirdo b/c instead of not listening to it I went and downloaded so I new what you were talking about. I'm a freak like that I guess!!! Actually, it does make me cry but I find it to be soothing b/c it's about LETTING GO. Thats what I thought too.....great point!! Link to comment
Phoenix_girl Posted November 17, 2007 Share Posted November 17, 2007 My Everything by 98 Degrees. *cries* Link to comment
thinkstoohard Posted November 17, 2007 Share Posted November 17, 2007 So it's Friday night. I'm sitting on my couch downloading sappy songs and hanging out on eNA. WOW! Shouldn't I be going out or something? Link to comment
thinkstoohard Posted November 17, 2007 Share Posted November 17, 2007 Roy Orbison - Crying Link to comment
need2bme Posted November 17, 2007 Author Share Posted November 17, 2007 Sorry guys. You guys are killing me with some of the comments though, both funny and sad. Bildit00: I do find it cathartic to listen to sad songs and let it all out, after a breakup. I find though that sometimes I have a propensity for sadness, in that I HATE the way people treat other people poorly, hence the reason I beat MYSELF up so much after a breakup. So, I get a sad feeling that this is all there is, BUT, I know that is not the case. It is like a little mini pity party and you are all invited. Sometimes we have to be careful with the sad songs. After a breakup, they can start being like crack. ;-) Link to comment
keenan Posted November 17, 2007 Share Posted November 17, 2007 Sometimes we have to be careful with the sad songs. After a breakup, they can start being like crack. ;-) just don't combine them with chocolate ice cream and red wine, or you've got yourself a sadness speedball! Link to comment
alwyzdreamin2004 Posted November 17, 2007 Share Posted November 17, 2007 today at work was horrible. our music is sent to us by a satellite and we have no control over what plays...and the worst song possible came on....i will always love you by whitney houston. it was hard for me to keep it together at work.. and what made it worse was that i was on top of a ladder RIGHT NEXT to the speaker...it was literally 3 feet to my right. Whitney houston - i will always love you. worst one yet in my opinion. Link to comment
need2bme Posted November 17, 2007 Author Share Posted November 17, 2007 just don't combine them with chocolate ice cream and red wine, or you've got yourself a sadness speedball! ROTFL!!! Alwyz: Wow! I woulda just knocked the damn speaker off. Link to comment
need2bme Posted November 17, 2007 Author Share Posted November 17, 2007 Oh yeah, and how 'bout listening to the songs of artists whose concerts you went to when you were really in love and you were holding each other and dancing, ya know all the words and now every song by that artist kills. Damnit, I still have a rough time listening to Tim McGraw, and I love his stuff. Oh, and Bildit00, I hate to do this to ya, but if ya wanna listen to something and you are ok with some country, downlowd "I Need You" by Tim and Faith and "Please Remember Me" by Tim McGraw. ARRGGHH! On a lighter side note; I like to attempt Karaoke, so I went down and sung "Love You" by Jack Ingram. Killer, part of the lyrics: Love you, love this town; Love this mother-lovin' truck that keeps breakin' lovin' down There's only one four-letter word that'll do: Love you Love your cat; love this house Well, I can't believe myself that I'm lovin' gettin' out Love talkin'; love fightin'; Thought of never seein' your lovin' face There's some words that some words just have to replace LOL! If that song doesn't make ya feel better, then nothing will. Link to comment
JadedStar Posted November 17, 2007 Share Posted November 17, 2007 Don't ever play "sugar on me" by Def Lepard. It won't make you cry, it will only want to make you slither down a pole like a stripper. LOL Link to comment
Aday5578 Posted November 17, 2007 Share Posted November 17, 2007 need2be me......are you sure you are not me....LOL After my marriage broke up and i was at the point where i KNEW i had to move on..i played "one Last Cry" as cheesy as it sounds, i knew once i put it on this owuld be it, i wouldnt obsess over the dmise of my marriage anymore. And yesterday when i said at the 2 month point i would play that song and cry one more time, but I COULDNT CRY..I just sat there and remembered the good, and the bad...but when that song was over I turned over a new leaf..I am moving on. i finally told my family everything, I told them why we were over only if they asked. That way even if i wanted to go back i couldnt...if it were just me maybe if the time ever came i might give it a go...but since i have my son i know my family would make it known that wasnt a good choice of guy in my sons life..... But yes "One Last Cry" is my "IT IS OVER" song Link to comment
need2bme Posted November 17, 2007 Author Share Posted November 17, 2007 Aday: Hmm, I don't know...hold on...I'll check...nope, not you.... I am not there yet with the "IT IS OVER". I wish I was. I know it is, but I am not. I know for her, it was over when it was over, but, I still have my heart out there. I laugh about us, I have sentimental trips, I get angry and I certainly cry, BUT... I know that somewhere out there, is a woman who will do the good things she did and want to do them and want to be with me and not be so afraid and when we are afraid, it will be ok and we will help each other.... I know that time is my friend and that gives me hope. Until then, I am going to have, one last cry and one last cry and one last cry, until it becomes my very last. Link to comment
Aday5578 Posted November 17, 2007 Share Posted November 17, 2007 I know what you mean...i have bad times believe me. I have been listening to Gary Allan a lot latley....I like his new song "Watching Airplanes" fo rme it is fitting. My ex is a pilot...so when i hear this song i think of him because it rings true.....Time Time Time....thats all we need. At times i wish it would fly by but then I am glad in a way I am hurting because I am learning about what i can take and how i can out and be a better person to love. Link to comment
need2bme Posted November 17, 2007 Author Share Posted November 17, 2007 At times i wish it would fly by but then I am glad in a way I am hurting because I am learning about what i can take and how i can out and be a better person to love. I guess that is really all we can do. If I were honest, I would tell you that when I check my email, I sometimes hope there is a little something in there. When I hear the sound of the "crack bell" that is the text ringer on my phone, I secretly hope it is her and get a little let down, when it isn't and I still have her stuff up at home and the office. So, I haven't fully let go, but I am getting there and time is my best friend, right now. Everyone says that I will look back on this like the others, but I don't know. This one was pretty good, up until it went haywire. ;-) Link to comment
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