Don't do this when breaking up...no need to reply.

[Aday5578]

Oh i would be lying my butt off if i said when i log onto my email i hope to see something from him..and when my text message goes off a part of me bites my lip until i see who it is from...the disappointment has gotten less and less but it is still there. I think the 'all of a sudden" way it ended, him just walking out on me one night, no indication while i am griebeing the loss of a family member still shocks me. I sit ther and wonder "Does he even feel bad? Does he even think about me and my son?" Probably not..and as much as I wish it would of worked..like i said a million times before it ended for a reason, he wasnt the best and it wasnt the healthiest relationship, but at one time it was greater than you could imagine, i try to not think about those times. because those times didnt last long..his true side came out quickly but in the end he did me a favor by walking out...I just wish i would of figured this out 2 years earlier...do i even make sense..sometimes i ramble on and on....

[i_love_chocolate]

Or anything by ColdPlay

 

Especially "What If". Yeah and Don't listen to Jon Crosby "Winter in My Heart".

 

What I found to be helpful was listening to Lil John "Get Low". You'll feel a lot better.

[EmotionalCreature]

Why don't we come up with songs to listen to while healing in another thread?

 

There are songs that might be sad but have good meanings relating to letting go. Songs that provoke anger is also no good.

[Zorba]

James blunt makes me cry for all the wrong reasons. Madly whiny, badly written drivel. I can't believe the sales he has. Worries me greatly about the very concept of democracy..... End rant.

[Andy_2007]

If i find myself inadvertently listening to a sad song and having misty, water-coloured memories (to coin a lyric) of my ex and the time i spent with her, i make sure at the nearest possible opportunity to listen to something LOUD, OBNOXIOUS AND VERY FAST.

 

Slayer's Raining Blood fer instance.