tiredofvampires Posted June 23, 2007 Share Posted June 23, 2007 Just like guys...I'm sure some women like the guy to be well groomed if not shaven and also clean. So again, IMO, I think it works both ways. I have posted about this before, but I guess I'm just an ol' hippie, lol. I am no fanatic about the way just in the last 20 years, there is this perception that hair is a turn-off, unhygeinic, etc. So long as you are CLEAN, I feel like we've really gone off the deep end with shaving, manicuring, ripping out. And as a woman, not only to I tend to mine minimally (shave around the bikini line and once in a while trim sparingly -- anything else actually irritates my skin), but I do NOT like a man's to be groomed AT ALL. Why? Because shaven looks weird to me, it is not masculine-looking and only makes me think "porn star." And in two days, it feels awful, with the stubble. I hate stubble, mine OR theirs!! And when it is trimmed down, same goes...it just feels pokey and coarse. The only way to go is natural for a man, the hair is much softer at the ends that way, and they look like a MAN, for goodness sakes. Link to comment
tiredofvampires Posted June 23, 2007 Share Posted June 23, 2007 And what I'm getting from reading all these posts by guys is that if, as a woman, you have skin that's too sensitive that even trimming it makes it scratchy and itchy (the hair being stubby pokes my crack and it hurts!), so I don't manicure it much, then it seems getting oral will be a "chore" and unenjoyable to you dudes? Link to comment
abstar Posted June 24, 2007 Share Posted June 24, 2007 my man loves giving me oral sex sometimes it is better than sex itself and i love it too..i love the fact that he likes my taste and scent means i dont have to forever be worried or paranoid about it cos i kno he likes Link to comment
Wounded Posted June 25, 2007 Share Posted June 25, 2007 I absolutely love giving oral to a woman. There is nothing more attractive than watching her movements, emotions and facial expressions while doing it. In fact I prefer to give oral than to receive it. Link to comment
88cookie Posted June 26, 2007 Share Posted June 26, 2007 Okay I have done it with one girl a few times... it was amazing!! I would do it all day if i could. Giving a girl an orgasm from using just my tongue, knowing how wet im making her, getting to taste all her juices.. yummy!!! then going for kisses inbetween and seeing how much she enjoys her own fluids. Its hott as hell!! actually when we were fulling around, i told her to stop touching me and then i started digging in. id much rather give her pleasure then have her give me pleasure... but thats just what my whole life is based upon Link to comment
Dev007 Posted June 26, 2007 Share Posted June 26, 2007 The reason I like to go down is because I know the person I am with likes it. I don't get anything pleasurable out of it except knowing that she liked it and appreciated it. Link to comment
Al.Domi Posted June 26, 2007 Share Posted June 26, 2007 Just tried it this weekend with my gf... I loved it. Tired my tongue out a little though, lol. But yeah, loved it. Doesn't taste bad, and it's amazing to see her get off But my experience is limited to one girl and two occasions, Love it though. Oh, question for you girls: My gal gets a little nauseous when she does me, is this a normal thing for the first few times, or something? I told her she doesn't have to at all,but she's hinted she wants to... meh. Al.Domi. Link to comment
AusTrist Posted June 26, 2007 Share Posted June 26, 2007 I love it and always have loved it. I think it gets the girl off better too. Link to comment
goldenabsinthe Posted June 26, 2007 Share Posted June 26, 2007 Hmm... I love giving oral to my girlfriend, however she hates it. How does that work? Link to comment
astaro Posted June 27, 2007 Share Posted June 27, 2007 you should try different things, women are very different in what they like, sticking your tongue in, licking the actual clit (little hard nub under the hood), swirling your tongue around it, being intense, gentle, working with fingers simultainously. etc. etc. don't be repetitive, pay attention to how she moves, maybe she is self conscious and turning the lights off would make it easier for her, maybe she isn't feeling comfortable for some reason, talk it out with her. as for giving women head i love it, as long as i can see she is enjoying herself that is, women who lay there like a lump of wood bore me to no end, but other then that watching a women get off is one of the hottest things i have ever seen and felt. i think this is true for most men, we enjoy knowing that we can give a girl pleasure, gives us an ego boost as well as a general feeling of accomplishment Link to comment
alcide Posted June 27, 2007 Share Posted June 27, 2007 well as for me i like to give my man blowjobs because he loves it and after he gives me more love than ever. Well i don't know what a man really gets in this but as for me if a man doesn't suck me i would never be turned on. Maybe it's because of the habits i had. It makes me feel as if i'm being really love and appreciated, i just love that vibe. Its greattttt and i lovee it more than sex, sex it self. thank you Link to comment
Gath Posted June 28, 2007 Share Posted June 28, 2007 I thought it was fun, and women do taste good. It also tends to get a pretty significant reaction. . . which is a big part of the fun. Link to comment
Undefined Posted June 30, 2007 Share Posted June 30, 2007 I myself have a boyfriend who loves giving oral to me [ima lucky] but he doesnt do it too often so that's it special ... he says that "seeing me so helpless turns him on" ... so I'm guessing they do ? XX Link to comment
wandy27 Posted June 30, 2007 Share Posted June 30, 2007 lol i once had a boyfriend who would only give me oral and that was it no sex no nothing just straight to my thing give me oral and then leave ........ Link to comment
cooldudeny Posted July 1, 2007 Share Posted July 1, 2007 oh boy! i love going down on a gal and i can camp out there i dont know why but i love it when i down there and she is moaning and pressing my head more and more into her i love it Link to comment
tharhino Posted July 5, 2007 Share Posted July 5, 2007 I can all the time I love it! But I wanted to a couple days ago and she didn't smell or taste good down there... Why is that again? Sorry to ask that. Link to comment
GNR4ever Posted July 5, 2007 Share Posted July 5, 2007 Most likely a time-of-the-month thing.... The majority of women have scents that vary slightly depending on where in their cycle they are. or, maybe she just needed a shower I'm bisexual, and definitely enjoy giving oral to girls... In fact though I love my boyfriend to death I do sort of miss it. As long as she's clean down there I love the taste. I prefer some hair but like it if the 'undercarriage' lol part is shaved, gives you more options of where to go with your tongue. Link to comment
leggomyeggo Posted July 5, 2007 Share Posted July 5, 2007 I'm a guy, I've never done it but I want try it SO BAD! I need a girlfriend first...I'm working on that. Why do I want to do it though? I don't know, I really think I would enjoy it for some reason. I'm curiouus about the taste and smell and think I would enjoy giving a women pleasure. I think if I did try it I would love it though. Sad story...! Make sure shes clean because it will be the worst experience of your life. Good luck!!! Link to comment
Ironwig Posted July 6, 2007 Share Posted July 6, 2007 honestly, i love it. Some woman smell great, fruity, some dont smell that well. We will do the smelly taste before we go and dive into it. Unless the guy is just a freeeeeak and loves it then he will do the smell test. I personally love getting the girl so worked up that she will pull my hair, head et and prety much beg me to put it in. thats when i know i have her and i can please her. I also get turned on by it and get ready for the sex. Usually i preffer doing it first and if the girl gives head then i would take it then. not only will she be soooo excited and horny, she may even give a better blowjob because of the extacy mood \\\ Link to comment
theartofruin Posted July 6, 2007 Share Posted July 6, 2007 I love going down a girl. Such a turn on. I never get bored. Just stop when my tongue hurts Link to comment
adam3 Posted July 6, 2007 Share Posted July 6, 2007 I just recently went down on my girlfriend for the first time. I had never tried it before. I love it. The taste, smell, and texture of her is amazing. But I could never go down on a girl who isn't shaved or at least trimmed....... Its got to be CLEAN too. Take showers everyday girls and your partner will appreciate it. Link to comment
unsureself Posted July 6, 2007 Share Posted July 6, 2007 I'm old fashioned, and I believe it's criminal for a man to leave a bed without the woman having more pleasure than the man. For me, turning her on turns me on, ipso facto, going down on her turns me on, and we both love every minute of it. Link to comment
beloved Posted July 6, 2007 Share Posted July 6, 2007 ...I'm sure some women like the guy to be well groomed if not shaven and also clean. So again, IMO, I think it works both ways. My man loves going down on me and i love going down on him...its a mutual appreciation society! I am completely waxed (not just for that reason - for me sex overall is better and i'm more confident) but i definitely would not want my man to shave down there! Clean - yes, shaven - no thanks! Link to comment
SexySadie7 Posted July 8, 2007 Share Posted July 8, 2007 Unsureself: I like the way you think dude! "I'm old fashioned, and I believe it's criminal for a man to leave a bed without the woman having more pleasure than the man. For me, turning her on turns me on, ipso facto, going down on her turns me on, and we both love every minute of it." where do you live btw? LOL.. no.. just kidding I meet so many men nowadays that are so selfish when it comes to this thing. It's all about THEM! They sure want you to go give them head, but they wouldn't even suggest going down on you! How selfish some guys are. BTW, who DOESN'T take a shower every day nowadays? Link to comment
Day_Walker Posted July 9, 2007 Share Posted July 9, 2007 As you have read from some of the posts here, there are typically two kind of people givers and takers. Primarily people tend to fit into one category or the other, some people out there just love giving and others love to receive. It just has to do with the persons personality and outlook in life. Link to comment
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