Hey mate I am in a very similar boat as you. I moved from the country to the city. My friends mainly consist of ex girlfriends friends which isnt a hell of a lot. I have gone to pubs n stuff and started yarns with random blokes about all sorts of things. i usually just pick up what theyre doing maybe checking o0ut a pool game or some chicks and comment about that to them and then start chtting from there. Never actually gotten to the point where I can hang out witht hem regualrly. i also am part of a 4wd group cos I love 4wdriving and hang out with them from time to time. I still havent made any real friends where I can just go to hang out with them whenever sort of a thing. I work but all my workmates have their own lives so yeh. I have been here 7 yrs now and still havent made any real decent friends yet but I still manage o find some people to hang out with from time to time.