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How long have you dated someone before having sex with them?


I went 9 months in my most recent relationship. Before that I didn't have sex but if I wanted to it could have been 2 or 3 weeks.


Just wondering what average might be.

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way to many variables.. i did everything but sex the first weekend i saw the girl. i kind of was at her university and stayed the night.. very long story. we didnt date, but came really good friends online and talked about it. i was a virgin, well still am, but i never did anything sexual before then.. so basically it depends on the person and how well the relationship has progressed

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When the time is right... This generally happens soon enough. I can take or leave sex, though as the inevitable conversation comes up I do tell my girl that once it happens there tends to be this elephant that suddenly disappears from the room, making both parties more comfortable. Constant sexual tension is no fun!

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Well....ok we fooled around before we actually became boyfriend and girlfriend. ^^ we never actually "started" dating if that makes sense, but we didnt have sex until about a week and a half after we started fooling around. We'd been friends for awhile so I guess it just kinda clicked together ^^


*huggles and snuggles*


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I've never been in a situation where i've been consciously dating - its never come up. So i can have sex without commitment when i want to. I'd known my now boyfriend a day i just went for it expected and at the time wanted it to be no strings attached. Glad tho now that there are many strings to our 10month relationship

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I had sex with my first boyfriend the night we met. I thought it was going to be a one-night-stand, but we ended up being together for 3 1/2 years.


My current one was after a week (3rd date) and we've been together for 7 months.


Like Eva I prefer to have sex before commitment. It's not for everybody, but it works for me.

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1st man i had sex with, 3 months, were together for 5 years

2nd man, waited 5 days (but only because I was on my period been together 4 years and counting


I hope there won't ever be a 3rd, but theoretically speaking i don't have any rules, the right moment is when it feels right

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