Dev007 Posted June 5, 2007 Share Posted June 5, 2007 How long have you dated someone before having sex with them? I went 9 months in my most recent relationship. Before that I didn't have sex but if I wanted to it could have been 2 or 3 weeks. Just wondering what average might be. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
88cookie Posted June 5, 2007 Share Posted June 5, 2007 way to many variables.. i did everything but sex the first weekend i saw the girl. i kind of was at her university and stayed the night.. very long story. we didnt date, but came really good friends online and talked about it. i was a virgin, well still am, but i never did anything sexual before then.. so basically it depends on the person and how well the relationship has progressed Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zackinlaw Posted June 5, 2007 Share Posted June 5, 2007 Average in today's day and age ... probably a month. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leonhart Posted June 5, 2007 Share Posted June 5, 2007 My new rule: Three dates. If it doesn't happen by then, move on and adios. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
renaissancewoman101 Posted June 5, 2007 Share Posted June 5, 2007 When I dated my ex, I waited about a month before having sex with him, although by the third date he wanted to do it, but I said "no". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LBP Posted June 5, 2007 Share Posted June 5, 2007 When the time is right... This generally happens soon enough. I can take or leave sex, though as the inevitable conversation comes up I do tell my girl that once it happens there tends to be this elephant that suddenly disappears from the room, making both parties more comfortable. Constant sexual tension is no fun! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EvaGina Posted June 5, 2007 Share Posted June 5, 2007 asap I dno, I dont ever LOOK for relationships, just fun and sex and friendship... so I normally have sex before thinking about commitment... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
renaissancewoman101 Posted June 5, 2007 Share Posted June 5, 2007 dang, I would love to have sex right now. It's been such a LONG time. Although I don't think I would know how to go about finding that right now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TANKGRL Posted June 5, 2007 Share Posted June 5, 2007 I was with my boyfriend for 2 months before we had sex. It also really depends on the relationship on how early it happens. Trust is a big factor. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grapefruit Posted June 5, 2007 Share Posted June 5, 2007 Well....ok we fooled around before we actually became boyfriend and girlfriend. ^^ we never actually "started" dating if that makes sense, but we didnt have sex until about a week and a half after we started fooling around. We'd been friends for awhile so I guess it just kinda clicked together ^^ *huggles and snuggles* Aurora Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
capricorn85 Posted June 5, 2007 Share Posted June 5, 2007 I would say about a month 1 1/2- 2 mnths, but it's all depending on the vibe between you two. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DropToZero Posted June 5, 2007 Share Posted June 5, 2007 MATH and SEX don't go together well....basically meaning, everyone has their own time period, go with what you feel is right. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sweetheart607 Posted June 5, 2007 Share Posted June 5, 2007 I've never been in a situation where i've been consciously dating - its never come up. So i can have sex without commitment when i want to. I'd known my now boyfriend a day i just went for it expected and at the time wanted it to be no strings attached. Glad tho now that there are many strings to our 10month relationship Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tezza Posted June 5, 2007 Share Posted June 5, 2007 About 2-3 months... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Parsley Posted June 5, 2007 Share Posted June 5, 2007 We'd only started calling ourselves boyfriend and girlfriend the day before lol. But we were as good as for about a month and a half before that. We don't live near each other, no way I'd hold out when I see no problem with it! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swtbtrflydreams Posted June 5, 2007 Share Posted June 5, 2007 I knew my now boyfriend for months (he was in relationship with my friend before we were more than friends but when we started "talking" we had sex like a week later, but I have met guys and had sex that day or day after. I had a wild couple months. lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
midnightrambler Posted June 5, 2007 Share Posted June 5, 2007 I knew my now boyfriend for months (he was in relationship with my friend before we were more than friends but when we started "talking" we had sex like a week later, but I have met guys and had sex that day or day after. I had a wild couple months. lol sounds goood Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swtbtrflydreams Posted June 5, 2007 Share Posted June 5, 2007 Yeah I was very conservative about sex until last year (May 06) but when I left hubby I went wild! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bx93ep Posted June 5, 2007 Share Posted June 5, 2007 I had sex with my first boyfriend the night we met. I thought it was going to be a one-night-stand, but we ended up being together for 3 1/2 years. My current one was after a week (3rd date) and we've been together for 7 months. Like Eva I prefer to have sex before commitment. It's not for everybody, but it works for me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
midnightrambler Posted June 5, 2007 Share Posted June 5, 2007 i have never dated/or called a woman after a one night stand Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swtbtrflydreams Posted June 5, 2007 Share Posted June 5, 2007 ^^^^ Cracks Me Up Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bx93ep Posted June 5, 2007 Share Posted June 5, 2007 i have never dated/or called a woman after a one night stand That's why it was a one night stand! ](*,) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrirving Posted June 5, 2007 Share Posted June 5, 2007 Wilhelm --- I like yur 3 dates rule .... lol ... with the most recent girl it was the third date. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CharLit Posted June 6, 2007 Share Posted June 6, 2007 1st man i had sex with, 3 months, were together for 5 years 2nd man, waited 5 days (but only because I was on my period been together 4 years and counting I hope there won't ever be a 3rd, but theoretically speaking i don't have any rules, the right moment is when it feels right Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MissTee Posted June 7, 2007 Share Posted June 7, 2007 my partner and I had been on a few dates before it happened. It had probably been about 3 or 4 weeks but we had seen eachother alot in that time Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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