sweetbutjealous

use your tongue on her and be sure to give her plenty of time... don't rush her. don't give up

If I'm looking to feel good that night, then I would prefer oral sex. I love to have sex with my boyfriend, but prefer oral when I can get it. It feels awesome!!!!!!

First of all, she could very well be doing those things and saying those things to get your attention. I have often don't those things just to see my boyfriend get worked up... because then we know that you care. I think that it is awesome that you don't care to look at other girls and it's very rare to find a guy that can be so in love with a girl and let the world know it. However, I would not keep bugging her about other guys and other feelings she has... it could make you look scared. we don't really like that so much. My advice would be to trust her, especially if she has given you no major reason not to. I personally, don't checkout other guys. I have the only one that I'll ever need, and i think that he feels the same way about me... but, sometimes I worry that he thinks other girls on t.v. or in magazines are so much better than I am. But, I am learning to hide these feelings because they like to know that you have faith in them that they love you enough not to want somebody else like that. I would stop with the wondering about other guys thing and see if she changes. I'll bet ya she will

Thanks for your input on this, it's greatly appreciated. I know that this is my problem, not his... but, I'm looking for a way to change. I get jealous when he watches Newlyweds on MTV, because of Jessica Simpson, or the Bacholer on ABC because of the 25 girls, or The Simple Life with the Hilton Girls... it's everywhere around me and I hate sitting beside him when he's watching it because we both know that they are a lot sexier than I am, and I'm having a hard time dealing with how to view his seeing them on T.V. or in magazines. And I've actually lost 20 pounds since November. I'm on the South Beach Diet (cutting out a lot of carbs)... so I do feel a ton better. I love him with all my heart, I just don't know how to feel about him seeing gourgeous women. I think that this might have something to do with the fact that my family thinks that it's okay to see strippers and be attracted to other people. I was told that "It doesn't matter where they get their appetite, as long as they come home to eat." And this isn't what I want. I want him to always get his appetite from me, not just come home to me. I probably sound stupid, I'm sorry... I'm just trying to figure some things out. Thanks for taking time to Reply to me.

I am currently dealing with a few issues in my relationship of 3 years that I know probably have nothing to do with him, but more of a problem that I have. The guy I am with is completely loyal to me and has proven to be one of the sweetest guys a girl could ever want... I was his first kiss... first dance, first everything...and he was 21!!! I love him with all my heart and couldn't imagine being with anyone else. We are both overweight (but, we are working on it). I am really bothered by my size. I am a size 18 and hate it. I just want to have the perfect body for him, but know that no matter what I do I could never look like the girls in the magazines or on t.v.. Somehow, I became obsessed with watching everything that he does. I'm jealous and it's not because of anything that he's done. He doesn't act like my other friend's boyfriends and watch porn or make rude comments, but I'm worried that he secretly likes to look at models or singers(Britney Spears... Victoria Secret...ect.)He is now 24 and I am 21 and we are both about done with school and looking to get married soon. But, we've been fighting a lot lately because I can't help but think about what he's thinking when he sees these hot girls on t.v. or in a magazine. To take a step towards fixing my problem... I bought him a subscription to Maxim magazine, but it came a few days ago and I went crazy thinking about him looking at those girls. I can't bring myself to give it to him. Is it okay for a one-woman man to look at Maxim? I have a hard time trying to figure out why it's okay for guys to naturally have to look at other girls. But, he doesn't go looking for it. I will actually rent a movie and he'll watch it with me no matter what it is, but as soon as somebody that intimidates me is on the screen I get really upset. He's really into cars and the nude magazines are always next to the car magazines in stores. I know that he doesn't pick them up and look at them, but is a glance in that area wrong? There are car magazines that he would like to buy for the articles, but there will be a girl on the hood of the car on the cover of the magazine and a centerfold poster so he won't buy it, because he's afraid I'll get upset. and I would. Even if he did look at them, is that wrong? Cause I can stand to think about it. I think it is but I need to know if it really is. He assures me that I'm the only one that he would ever think about, but I'm worried that he'll someday dream about having a better body next to him rather than my not so perfect body. what do i do? I know that this is an issue I have with myself and the world around me but how do i fix this. I don't want him to see anybody prettier than me? I want to change, but am pretty hostile toward girls that walk around in skimpy clothes. I would really appreciate any help with this.