PJlove359

I said I love you too early also. So I can relate. I always say everything happens for a reason. And I believe it's true. Maybe she said it too early, but she wouldn't have said it if she wasn't slightly feeling it. You get me? I think that there is something there between you two. I can feel you when you say how beautiful the relationship is. I believe you mean it. Let her know that. Just keep it going and stay true to you feelings. She wouldn't have said "I love you" if she didn't mean it, at least a little. You can grow from there.

I guess I should say she was discharged from the military for being gay. she told them that so she could be with me. I guess that's why I picked the topic. I would feel aweful breaking it off with her. I am still in and she is out now. we are separated because of the military. When we are together everything is fine, but apart I feel as though I want to see other people.

It's hard my first time posting. Didn't say everything they way I wanted, but yet still kinda got my point accross. I want to enjoy my life while I can, but what if It's with her, but what if it's not. I don't know since it's my first relationship. I feel as though I should break it off, but what if I don't find a better one and then I can't get her back?

Well, i feel stupid. I cheated with only one night stands. Stupid and immature. I totally understand you when you say stop cheating. I have. Just hard to forgive myself for that. I have lost total trust in myself and my girl has lost all trust. I am at a loss of words.

Good luck with your situation.

If you can honestly say you will never cheat on him again, then tell him. That way he knows that you are 100% faithful, from now on. If he doesn't agree then leave the relationship. That is about all I can say. Good Luck.

Long distance is hard. I agree. Being lonely is what goes with distance. If he is worth the wait, then do it.

Like everyone says, It's my first time posting. I'm going to try to make things short and sweet. I am in the military, I met my girl in the first few months I was in. I didn't know I was gay until I started to get involved with her. We have been together for almost three years. I Love her with all my heart, but I have cheated on her to many times. I have told her about most of them, but yet she stills stays with me. I haven't cheated in a long time, and I guess what I'm trying to say is that I don't want to loose her, but I feel as though I should date other people and see whats out there since she is my first girlfriend. We are both 21 and young. I am very afraid that if I do break it off then what if I don't find someone as good as her? She is so loving. What advice can you give???

I should say at first I am a little weary of the fact that the guy wants to wait three weeks because of his cast. Is it really because of the cast or someone or something else? Just my first thought. If you aren't the type to wait for another guy, well maybe this might be something special. You did take the time to write a post about him, am I right? Why don't you change your normal pace for once. Wait and then see. You can change your mind if you see fit. Like the reply above me says, " It's not a lifetime commitment." If you feel like he may be something special, then do the right thing. Wait.