i want to thank all of you for your advice. i guess the consensus is to let guy know, but how do i do it in a nice way? i've already mentioned that i feel uncomfortable kissing him b/c we have different styles. but he insists on trying again and every time, it gets worse and worse. but i am hesitant to give up.
in response to Gilgamesh:
But i do have a question, are you saying he kisses you by, engulfing your whole mouth with his then sucking? like a plunger? or is this what you are looking for?
he kisses me like a plunger, opens his whole mouth and engulfs mine. then throws in a fast tonsel hockey or something nad then a peck (like grandma) and he kisses my face too with pecks - i'm really not sure. can't follow it- nor do i care to. this type of kissing isn't my idea of nice by any means. i prefer a little tongue kissing. where you kiss on the bottom lip first and then a little tongue and then move to the other side, etc... a combination that i have really enjoyed. i'm not saying this guy is a bad kisser, because everyone has their own style, and i give everyone the benefit of the doubt- but i just can't imagine anyone would liek this style.
now the ? is, how do i tell this guy nicely that his kisses make me sick to my stomach? yes, they are that bad for me. if it were only the tonsle hockey thing ( to each is own), then i wouldn't be that sick.