Calblee
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oh kid, hope the situation turns out for the better. you should ask them to pay you a settlement to drop these charges. a university degree goes down the drain for a moment of stupidity.
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well said. agree with your insightful comments fully.
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Getting back together really does happen!
Calblee replied to wishingonastar's topic in Getting Back Together
gallop, didnt expect to find you here! haha -
kid, this is really a remarkable turn of events. i just hope you get the best outcome one way or the other. you shouldnt be this messed up if you have tons of hot ladies at your call. it shows that you are desirable so why not drop this ex and move on with your life. plus you are young so time is on your side. dont settle for someone not worthy of you
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ask him to write in to ENA. the service staff are very helpful.
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gallop, don't suggest such things because the kid can really make it come true. why? because he is the big bear with fragging claws and she is just a little honey bunny that needs some love. go kid.
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kid, sounds like you are already becoming her loss. =) DONT EVER TAKE HER BACK.
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hi kid, you are doing that now because you have realised your true value and worth. also you have seen that it is so possible to have better people in your life than her. good job. still rooting for you
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Post here instead of contacting your ex!
Calblee replied to Nynnja's topic in Healing After Break Up or Divorce
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hey kid and gallop, make up, not break up.
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i am going to jump back into the water but i want to increase my self worth in confidence, appearance, value. also i want to get my head on staight for a while more. it will come. i want to put myself up there at the top of the dating pool.
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kid, am so jealous after reading all your new posts of late. lol
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your dream girl will come. but you must enjoy yourself first! =) trent is great but work towards mike , i say. and great on the facebook thingy. i am getting there too and it feels like such a victory in healing, doesnt it.
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this is the best damn remarkable story and lift i need to hear so far. you go kid. so are you trent or mike now? haha
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Getting back together really does happen!
Calblee replied to wishingonastar's topic in Getting Back Together
my colleague J and his wife to be in 3 months C were together for 7 years. they were engaged and 5 months before their wedding, they broke up because of her. J went into depression and continued his begging and pleading for 4 months before he accepted that he was dead in her heart. she was really cold to him with one worded answer. J got a rebound, a pretty one whom i thought was so much better than C and they were happily involved for 3 months. during this time, C didn't date and via mutual friends, they started communicating via texts and short meet up. J was himself, no bitterness and was being caring and concern for C in a non-romantic way. at the end, they realised that they still loved each other and against all friend's advise, J broke up with the rebound to get back with C. they are better than before and i will be a best man at his wedding in 4 months time. -
kenny - you are doing well. i have been following your updates since the day i joined ENA. You sound like a really nice and sweet chap and i hope you find someone else better. also, where i come from, i had my first breakup while i was in army conscription. it took me a long time to get over it (1 year) because in the army, there was nothing else better to look at and i constantly think about her in the down time. however, i did spend all my book out of camp time to find new hobby. i took french language classes and started gymming daily. also took to new sports. in the end, i moved on while i started to find happiness and excitement in my own life again. you can do it bro!
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massive success in the making i see.
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we will be here when it happens.
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Kid, 1) You deserve better for sure. 2) You must choose to forgive her FOR YOURSELF. You don't have to tell her but you must come to the realization that it is FOR YOURSELF. To be a bigger and better person. To complete healing process so that you can trust and love the next person that comes along. It will take time but you will be better for it. 3) Your ex did it when both of you are NOT TOGETHER anyway. My ex did it during the relationship and led me on for a year. There is a huge difference between the two examples. Hope you see it. 4) This ugly update will only accelerate your healing process. 5) As per MAKEITCOUNT, embrace the anger and resentment, it is temporary and will get you out of the rut Take care buddy! You deserve better and you MUST come back stronger and bigger.
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Hi Kid Sorry to hear that. Honestly, i do know the feelings associated with getting the "truth". You are just angry now. It is normal, go out there and feel sorry for yourself or take your anger out on something/sports/etc. Resent her for the next few days but make sure you tell yourself that you choose to forgive her. I know you will be back to continue this journal because it is your HEALING journal. Take care buddy and be strong.
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haha yeah. i am so money indeed!
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SWINGERS IS THE ABSOLUTE MUST WATCH FOR ALL GUYS GOING THROUGH A TOUGH BREAK UP. hey kid, i dare say this is the first time in 46 days that i actually laughed wholeheartedly. thank you for your recommendation. we are so like mike! stay like mike! like a * * * * ing bear with claws! haha
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i am going to watch swingers as you advise now
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Hi Kid55, That is really awesome. It must have been really difficult but not only did you pull it off, you are feeling all the better for it. A leap in your healing process. Well done.
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accross the street and you still managed to NOT to see her in 6 weeks. that is a lot of effort!