southpole854

I told my story before here.. My ex broke up with me after over a year and a half and we were bes friends an still says we are but has had a new b.f for 2 months... I highly dislike the kid and he smokes marijuana all of the time.. I still have great feelings for my ex and she still says she loves me... Well I want to get over her but at our school, we are in the first 2 period together and by abc order, sit right next to each other.. Also, she has a picture of her and her b.f kissing on the front of her folder and doesn't even bother to hide it from me which I don't think is right since she knows how I feel about her.. So I said something about her boyfriend and now he said something rude to me and she is very upset with me.. I just want to get over her an not have any problems with her anymore.. Any ideas on doing this in the current situation with us seeing each other for about 2 hours each day.

Yea and after he did my ex apologized because she said it was him or kissed her which was true... But my ex told me today she still has feelings for me and all and misses me... I have tried dating other girls.. It was fun for a few weeks but it just wasn't the same... Not talking to her helped me alot..And also my locker is right next to hers! So her new boyfriend of course is their right nex to me with his arm around her... But even if I do get my seat changed she'll still be in my class.. This is going to be very hard.

I posted before about breaking up with my girlfriend of over a year and a half.. That was about 4 months ago and finally last month i thought i was over her.. Didnt think about her ever.. School just started and we have periods 1 and 2 together and my luck our assigned seats are right next to each other and we are lab partners....She looked so pretty today and then in the hall her new boyfriend kissed her right in front of me after he told me he'd respect me and not do that.. So now I am started to think about her again.. Any ideas on getting over her while seeing her 5 days a week?

Well I have gotten out of a relationship of over 2 years a few months ago so I decided to try an date new girls.. I am very rusty... My friends girlfriend said she has a friend who may like me.. The girl is gorgeous.. I went out 2 times with my friend, his girl, and the girl they are trying to set me up with... I barely talked to her at all.. I usually don't have a problem talking to people but I just couldnt think of anything to say. Any tips and maybe helping us to get more comfortable around each other because I am really interested in her.

I posted a thread a while ago about my ex of over a year and a half.. Well she drinks ALOT with her new b.f and her friends and they tell me about some of the stuff that my ex told her and her new boyfriend did.. I am going crazy here because I am getting pictures of my ex and her new b.f having sex and other things like that and since I am not even close to being over her this hurts me alot.. I just can't see her doing that with anyone else besides me.. When we did it, it was meaningful and we started in each others eyes an stuff like that.. Now she does all of this stuff when she is drunk and it is making me nuts...Any idea on clearing my head?

I am just wandering since I know she loves me and is not over me an still considers us best friends cause we were in the relationship, if I should just try and stop talking to her.. Not answer when she calls and ignore her IMs.. I mean cause I keep getting back hope when we see each other and kiss but then I think.. EW she has a b.f...Should I back off and remove all contact (which sounds very hard) or just keep going how it is.. I have already told her how I feel and how much I love her..

I also forgot to mention to things.. In her room she still has a framed picture of me on her bureau and still wears this ring that I gave her a few months ago all of the time..

I posted about 3 weeks ago about my breakup with my girlfriend and best friend of over a year and a half.. Well I still see her about once a week because she wants to talk.. So I go over and she always ends up telling me how much she loves and misses me an usually starts kissing me.. The thing is she has another b.f... Now why if she loves and misses me so much and is even kissing me is she still with him?

Yea its hard cause she talks to another boy.. This kid makes me sick cause he is just WAY to nice for a boy to everyone... She said he treats her like a princess... That seriously kills me and I know to get over her it takes not seeing her and time but I can't not call her an try to hangout... She isnt usually home or she already has plans usually.. If I could now i'd seriously do anything for her an treat her like a queen but it doesn't look like Im going to get the chance with this new kid...

I posted another topic about how I had a relationship with my girlfriend for well over a year..For some reason when we were together I was sometimes bored and kinda wanted some time to my self.. She was always the obsessive one.I sometimes even wished wed breakup.We actually did before but only for a week or so and I felt the same as I do now (Upset and missing her) Then I went back to my old way of being bored with her . Now that we have been brokeup and she is talking to a different boy I miss her more than ever.. I am the obsessive one.. Why wasn't I like this when we went out?

I know I gotta let go of her but tha thing is I really dont want too.. Ive had alot of other girlfriends who were ok an all but really didn't get me tha way she did...The times of us going to the shore, layin on the beach, spending quiet time at night, talking on the phone for hours, and just everything.. I don't want to experience that with anyone else... I'd rather have 1 Best friend then 10 ok friends an thats what she was.. Somehow I gotta make my self want to get over her but I dunno if thats going to happen

Yea I was kinda lately thinking that she will be with me only until someone she thinks is better comes along..

My girlfriend and I got together back in December of 2001... We seemed so perfect for each other... She always said.. When were 18 your proposing to me and I was like hell yea... Well yea we even considered each other best friends and our familys loved each other... Well in April she said she needs alittle space... That was very hard for me but I thought it was temporary... She started hanging out with this kid and it upset me and I asked her and she said she doesn't like him that way.. Well about 2 weeks ago she asked me over and told me that she has feelings for him an that we cant be together now.. She started crying a whole lot and I did to a bit... Well I am having so much trouble dealing with this.. I cant sleep or eat... We used to be together all tha time and I dont no any different now.. I am not interested in other girls or anything..I just want my girl and best friend back... She even said he has asked her to "go out with him" numerous times but she cant say yes because she loves me to death... I saw them the other night together at tha movies and I wanted to die there.. I can't go on this way...She actually still said she wants to end up with me but what is going on now I can't take..