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I like it!!

So much emotion! I hope things turn out for you =]

I love it! Its such a great poem!

Staring into my eyes deeply, looking into my soul, Holding my hand, touching my heart, Kissing my lips, making my world freeze in time. Smiling, making me feel, we are the only ones in a place of chaos. Time around me, continues, As we depart, you whisper, the love you share, This love is pure and sweet, Smiling, you chased my fears. Doesnt it seem, when the sun sleeps, the moon shines, everything is at end. Is your love like the sun and moon? Will it end? Smiling, you make this love feel alive. Time is my friend, he will tell, Tell me when its real or make believe. Smiling, touching my soul, telling me, this love will last beyond my friend, lasting forever.

I think you should stop making all the effort. Its sounds like she isnt really into the relationship. Do what agent said and pull back and see how she reacts. When she starts flirting dont flirt back, be in control and let her put in all the effort. If she doesnt then move on because your wasting your time on someone who wont be 100% into the relationship. Good luck!

Dont shave your chest or stomach! Guys shaving or waxing other parts of their body other than their face can be a turn off... I remember my ex waxing his body parts when we broke up, he was so manly looking then all of a sudden he turned into a chihuahua!

2 months isnt long you know. Ive been with my boyfriend for 8 months and we havent had sex, Im not comfortable enough nor am I ready to give myself away. If my boyfriend talked about sex with me 2 months into the relationship I would be 'weirded' out too. Shes obviously not ready, dont push it. She'l open up to you when she feels right.

He hasnt asked me if I like it rough, Ive told him I like things to be gentle and slow however If I pull away from him and he wants to kiss me he grabs me and forces me.

Thanks shiva and Icnoland, I appricate your help. I know what he does isnt right and Im being taken advantaged of in different ways. I guess it is better sooner than later.

Yeh, I dont want to be the victim of sexual abuse, who knows, he might turn around one day and try something! He doesnt make me feel special anymore (with actions) he makes me feel cheap more than special.

This is so hard to write... My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months and have known eachother for 2 years. I noticed something today that really clicked inside me. We went out to eat and while we were eating we saw afew people we talk to, they said hi and started talking to us, I said hi back and was friendly. Once they left my boyfriend said that I was so fake and that he knows I dont like them (Which isnt his business anyway). I also noticed that he switches the story, for example if he says he hates something or is agianst something and I say that I dont mind them, he'l indirectly change what he said to what I said. Ive also noticed, the past few times we have been going out I always end up paying for everything, he doesnt even make the effort, he just points out the cash register and says 'you go'. Theres something else, he says that he loves me and will wait to have sex with me, however when things get sexy he will start trying to touch me. If I pull away he will grab my head (with some force) and make me kiss him. The touching business has happened a few times but the kissing thing has happened many MANY times. I dont know, Im really undecided on what to do, has anyone else been through this? Does anyone have any suggestions?