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Amazing! Truly touching...I really do wish you the best, and I'm sure that in the end it will all be alright, you deserve it! As for the other posts people have given previously that you mentioned in your story, I'm glad they didn't put you down enough to make you feel bad about yourself! You are a very very very strong person!!! =D Keep up...and congratualtions to you and your boyfriend!

Okay I gotta admit it...I was silly...and probably did not explain myself very well...=S I have accepted it and have really realized I do really like her a LOT...seriously and I can't do anything about it because she's so mature and so great and older...twelve years to be exact...but still when we talk it's like there's nothing wrong with my feelings...when I come back to reality...she sees me as her lil sister and I just see her as the perfect partner for me! =$

Ok so I feel like a hypocrite! Seriously…I am a girl…almost 18…and have always liked guys. Now I found myself almost "in love" with a woman or however this feeling may be called…and even though there's nothing I can do to "prove" if this feeling is more than friendship it does feel like I like her more than I ever liked any guy in my life…PROBLEM: I used to be homophobic…I mean I can still say that I don't like women, I don't feel attracted to them…and even though there is this exception to the rule (that's how I've been calling it) I don't consider myself bi or lesbian at all…seriously…but I can't explain what it is then….it's very confusing! Has anyone ever felt the same way or kind of knows what this may be?! =o

Just one more comment: You don't choose who you fall in love with...and you never know what life will bring oyu tomorrow...so stop thinking ahead really, and live your life...if your are happier with your ex...even as a "lover" and not a girlfriend...then let it be and live it to the most...just make sure whichever decision you make is the one that makes you happiest! ;-)

You know what?! As silly as this sounds I think what you really should do is list the things you love in a guy...what is really important to you, then you make another list with the reasons why you like your boyfriend and why you like your ex so much. And obviously do not cheat...After that I believe you will be able to see a clear difference in both of them. Also, don't forget...why is it that you and your ex break up...and don't forget that even though you like him so much you have to understand that you are not putting yourself in a good position at all with either guys...and that your ex may not respect you so much as he knows you have a boyfriend but he still gets to be with you as he wishes. I mean...not saying that it's wrong that you still like your ex more than your boyfriend...but also...don't forget if your ex is cheating on his girlfriend, he can easily do the same to you later on, if you guys end up becoming serious again!

Wow...that all sounds very horrible really...i'm trully sorry...but no...my "situation" is no close to that...anyway I still appreciate all the comments...because i'm sure it could get to something like that if I didnt watch out on what I was doing!!! Thanks a lot everyone! =D

Yea of course...i agree...no not making any moves...of course not...and there is no extra help just for me...it's tutoring...she doest just do it to me...don't worry...she isnt doing anything wrong...the only wrong thing really...is the way i feel...

Tigris....by the way....you said you were in this sitiation...at least a similar one with your lecturer...how did that end up!??!

Sorry for taking so long to reply!!! Thank you guys for the comments...so yea...I'm not really sure she feels the same way....she does say she really likes me and has never felt this way for a student...but again she's an amazing person and clearly cares a lot about me, how i'm feeling, if i'm alright or not you know...but this can also be just a "sister love" which is kind of wht i get from her... Secondly...outside school...is...she tutors me every thursday...i go over to her house...and we always spend like at least 3 hrs at that...of course mainly doing work...but we're both really realex and joking around liek two good friends...i dknt know...and the other day we went for a walk around here where we live...we talked a lot...it was so great...we actually managed to forget we were student and teacher...but its that thing we can't do that often because imagine if someone from school sees us...you knw... I guess this answers the questions you guys asked...thanks for the help...please keep on talking to me! =)

Ok, so everyone must've heard this before, but it has never happened to me and I need some help soon!! Please I fell in love with my teacher! But seriously in love, and I don't know what to do about it! I mean we get along soooooo well we've seen each other out of school and apparently we both like each other (even though I love her much more I think)...and this just gets more complicated by the minute! She's 29, I'm 17, she's my teacher, and a woman! I mean I'd never thought this could happen to me...I've always dated guys (i'm a girl) before but now I feel like I've never liked someone this much! And I don't know what to do!! I mean if anyone found out she'd be fired and I'd be in veeeeeeeeery bad situation as well. Please help me out, and opinion, suggestion, comment, anything!! Thanks.