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I have a few friends that are bi .. and they agree with you jabele. Well at least one did, she told me to just kind of experiment maybe with someone else who's bi-curious. Meh, I guess I'll figure it out as I go. Thanks guys

Thanks guys. I'm almost 17 .. less than a month. I'm probably just bi-curious or something. And you're right, I shouldn't be attracted to girls just because I'm not too happy with men right now. Blah .. it's just confusing right now.

I'm starting to think I'm bi. I'm very attracted to men, but recently I've been very disappointed in most of my male friends / ex-boyfriend. Anyway, so the odd thing is that even before I thought I was bi, most of my fantasies were about girls. Honestly the only way I've ever orgasmed is when I was thinking about girls. So I'm just really confused right now. On top of that, I've sort of developed a crush on a friend of mine who is also bi.

Well, my ex used to really focus on the clitoris more than the vagina itself. I dunno, try a little of both. This might be a little graphic but try just starting out slow, and see how she reacts. It was hard for me because my boyfriend was really experienced and I wasn't, so I really had no idea what I thought would feel good and what wouldn't. So try different things as long as you're both comfortable. Good luck

What's funny is that is exactly what happened when I got back together with my ex boyfriend.. but when I turned negative about and convinced myself that he was using me and it wasn't going to work was when it fell apart again. I don't know, there might just be something to this. It probably has a little to do with confidence too, eh?

Ok, well I read it right I think. Things that turn me on are unique eyes, when they tell me nice things, like "You're beautiful" or "I love you", hold me from behind and kiss my neck.. stuff like that. Haha I'm silly.

Yes you did. I mean.. we're different in a lot of ways, but I think deep down it's the same. I still want to have him in my life, though. I think that the only reason is because I think somehow he'll change his mind and take me back but do I really want that? Do I want to get my heart ripped out again? I just don't know anymore. He just seems so perfect, it isn't fair.

I appreciate hearing your story. I'm glad that everything turned out well for you, and I wish you the best. Thanks Matt!

I'm 5'.. yeah it sucks to be short but at least people think you're cute all the time, lol. I've realized that lately I've been going for shorter guys.. I mean not as short as me, but does anyone else feel like that?

So.. my ex and I have been separated since the 13th of June except for a week when we got back together. I miss him so much.. and although everyone tells me I shouldn't be in contact with him talking to him the other day [i had a record of 10 days of not speaking to him!] it took away so much of my depression. He was my first love, and pretty much my first everything and I can think about the times with him and smile, but it also makes me sad that I'll never be with anyone like him ever again. I just feel like I'm never going to love anyone like this again even though that's not true. I wish we could be together, but we're not the same and I know it's not going to work out. I've turned myself into a different person, ironically more like the type of girl he usually went for. I used to be really innocent and hated drinking, smoking, etc.. but now I'm just trying to find ways to escape all the pain I'm feeling and have been experimenting and before we got back together he pretty much told me he was disappointed. I want to be friends with him but I know I have to give it time. Why do things like this happen to people who have done nothing to deserve it? I'm going into my senior year and I doubt I'm going to have a date to homecoming, prom, etc.. and if I do it's pointless because I wanted to be there with someone I love. I know no one can really give me advice for this but I needed to let it out.

Thank you so much. It's been a week since I talked to him .. and I read this book called, "It's Called A Breakup Because It's Broken" and it was talking about no contact too. It has this rule where you should wait two months.. and by the end of that usually you don't even want to talk to them. I really appreciate the advice.

We broke up first on the 13th of June.. then got back together and he broke up with me 6 days later -- the day before our four month anniversary. I think he doesn't think he's good enough for me because right now he can't spend really any money and he's trying to get his life straightened out, but both times we broke up it's because "he doesn't want either of us to get hurt more along the line in a year and a half because he's moving out of state and knows it won't work out." I love him so much and it's been a week since I've talked to him and I don't think he's ever going to call me. This hurts more than anything I've ever been through and I've changed a lot -- I've tried alcohol and even smoking to make the pain go away -- he said he's "disappointed in me" for it and he "thought I was stronger than that." What do I do?