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  1. Ross_K
    Next is your homework. This is required reading. Read it over and over again until it stops being painful and you finally undersand. The truth hurts, but it sets you free. the man with no spine That's an interesting link, the thing is, how do you grow a spine though and how do I know if I need one as far as women are concerned? I'd also like to add, that if you do attract a woman when you haven't got a spine I think there's a good chance she'll be the dominant controlling kind.
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    Honestly Ross, I thought maybe you were different and just shy or whatever. Now I really see the real you. A regular guy, just looking to get some. Sorta disappointing to be honest! Well, what do you expect? I'm not asexual, I haven't been physical with a woman before like everyone else has, and I'm 30 years old, do you realise how sexually frustrated I feel? Don't I have the right to have the same natural human experience that everyone else has? If you are seriously only looking for that, try adult friend finder or something! I don't have a credit card.
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    Try and steer the conversation in a direction where he'd have to mention whether he's got a girlfriend or not. I know that's vague, but I'm sure some people on here could give some examples.
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    I said it on the page before this one. I'm going to get laid.
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    I'm talking about finding people that're in my area or near my area on tribe and craigslist. I'm going to look into lavalife more tomorrow.
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    I've made up my mind now, I want to look for some flings first. I just need to try and find the right sites though, I can't really seem to get anywhere with tribe and craigslist, unless I'm using them wrong.
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    I usually always run out of things to say in general conversation. Objective (Most of the advice given is from documentation and experience) # Something that actually exists. # Something worked toward or striven for; a goal. Subjective (Ross is still here) # 1. Proceeding from or taking place in a person's mind rather than the external world: a subjective decision. 2. Particular to a given person; personal: subjective experience. # Moodily introspective. # Existing only in the mind; illusory. But wouldn't looking at things subjectivly be better? Since your real life experiences go towards how you predict things are, and how things will work out. Experience enables you to make better decisions. Also listening to your gut feeling is usually the best thing to do as well, instead of looking at things logically. My gut instinct has turned out to be right way way more times than logic. And I'm worried about the fact that looking at things objectivley and going with that means going against your gut instinct, what you feel in your heart.
  8. Ross_K
    Thanks ta re saw, you're a diamond. And hey, I'm smiling on my avatar.
  9. Ross_K
    How the hell can you know what I felt? As for mimmiking my friend, that wasn't the reason for why I done it, I really wanted her to say yes, I really wanted her to fancy me.
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    I'll try it out. And this would really help me look at things more objectivley, be better at generating creative solutions and think of more things to say in a conversation? I suppose I can sort of see how it would work. Where did you hear about this?
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    I'll look into getting the book. the one aim of overcoming SA is to increase ur confidence in all areas of ur life, whereas focusing just on getting a girlfriend is stupid because that alone will not make u happy It would, definatley.
  12. Ross_K
    What I felt was real love Ken, I would have put myself before her.
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    So what would I need to change my viewpoint on in order to be able to look at things objectively, being able to generate creative solutions or even on the smallest level, conversation? I'd really like to be good at these.
  14. Ross_K
    I have had plenty of jobs before, and as for moving out, if there was an okay place for me right now in an area that I thought was okay, I'd move there right now.
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    I'm on medication and I will be seeing a psychologist. I'm also slowly trying to desensitize myself to certain things, just taking small steps, and push that little bit more each time.
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    But what would that achieve though?
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    Mmm, I think you were also making excuses like "I can't just move out, I have SA", "I can't just get a job, I've never had one before" I've never said those things before. So how do I work on myself, how do I feel confident/attractive?
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    I've already experienced love from an online relationship. And it doesn't matter too much about the sex being a let down, it's not just about the sexual pleasure.
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    What does that have to do with my quote though? I don't know whether I would lie to my girl about it or not. And anyway, I think it's worth it, what if I wait and that girl never comes and I'm 40 and still a virgin, or 50 and still a virgin? I feel like my life's wasting away, I've already spent the whole of my 20's without ever having a sexual experience. That just feels like a shame, a waste.
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    I have actually said that myself before, but everyone was saying it's just an excuse and to get out there now.
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    I know you wont like this, and I'm sure you know what I'm about to say, and obviously no one is going to understand, but I have social anxiety, I cannot travel to a club at night and just sit there on my own in the corner. Yeah. But I think this with all the book reading makes me come accross as a lot more sophistacted than I am. It depends on the things, but yeah it's true. But then wouldn't I be trying to be someone else?
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    I'm not really a book reading person though. I'm all for making my profile the best it can be to attract the most women, but I don't want to be false, I'd be less likely to attract the right type of women, and once most of the women meet me they'll discover I'm not really the same as I put myself accross.
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    Lol, which picture? What about my profile? McGuyver (Is it Ken?) thanks for the profile, I guess I could use it and tweak it to suit me. My profile was quite short, I find it hard thinking of stuff to say. The thing is though I don't really want to make myself come accross as not myself, if you know what I mean, it makes me sound a lot more outgoing than I am (I don't even go to clubs)
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    I guess you're right, I think I do give up too easily and think I'm defeated and that's it.
  25. Ross_K
    Ross Getting laid isn't your real problem, is it? Yes.
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