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You are right that sometimes it isn't right and I don't agree neither when people do such actions when they don't even date.But when two people are really in love and know each other for a long time and thus trust each other,they have a strange bond between them that (without realizing it most of the times) it leads them to sexual intercourse.When I was your age I had the same opinion (maybe not the one with marriage but with sex when feelings are not involved) but now I've realised that things can change easyly when we get involved in certain situations we initially disliked.However,there is no rush.If you feel like not having sex DON'T do it until you are ready so that you don't regret it.

Try to call her and tell her to go out for a walk or something so that you can talk.If you think that this would not be good just try to talk to her on the phone to tell her how you feel.Pride sometimes destroys the best relationships.If she tells you she doesn't want to have anything to do with you anymore just respect her opinion.What I'm trying to tell you is that,by trying to talk to her you can take the chance that maybe she feels the same way but is too proud to tell it.You have nothing to lose and if you don't make it at least you will know that you've tried and have nothing to regret for in the future.Good luck!

Since he flirts with many girls,most probably he is not such a serious guy.I've been hurt many-many times by guys like him in the past.As you grow up and become more mature you will find out yourself that people like him who start relationships and end them in just a week aren't really interested in serious bonding with people.I understand that you love him but try to find another guy that is more mature and that will really love you.

Some people find it really romantic to go to the cinema because there you can be close to a person and even hold hands.For the first date cinema really helps because first of all the lights are off and shy people find it better.Then,you can have a romantic walk or even a nice dinner.

Maybe she's afraid to set herself free to love because she might be hurt from her previous relationship.Just give her some time and if she is really interested in you she will be yours as long as she's cured from the pain of her previous relationship!

More or less I've had the same problem with you.I loved my boyfriend but I used to dream of my ex.The thing is,when we are blindly in love with a person,when we breathe and live for him/her they become more than a part of us.When something doesn't work out and we have to decide that life HAS to go on without them,we attempt to make new relationships,meet more people,try to fall in love again.The question is...is it really right?Even though we go on and fall deeply in love with new people,there's always a feeling in our subconscious that....something's missing.None will ever forget their first true love no matter what.The only thing we can do,however is go on and try to be as fine as possible. Even if you love your new girlfriend the figure of your ex exists in your subconscious and that's the reason you dream of her.If you know that there is no way that you can be together again,and if you really love your new girlfriend I suggest that you stay with her (the new one) so that none gets hurt.Hopefully time will help you forget both consciously and subconsciously.Unfortunately sometimes we have to take life as it is....

I am 18 years old and I have a relationship with my boyfriend for one and a half year.Some months ago,we decided to start having sex.I have to say that he is my first sexual partner.Before we started having sex,I had orgasms when he was touching my clitorus.Now that we have sex,however although I like it and I am aroused I could never have an orgasm.That is,I can't have vaginal orgasm but I can have clitoral orgasms.Is there anything we can do during sexual intercourse so that I can reach orgasm?