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i wanna marry him...but my parents hate him!!!!!!!
redangel replied to redangel's topic in Emotions and Feelings
yes they know him....and he's my brothers friend. the problem is i dont know how to tell my parents they wont understand! -
i wanna marry him...but my parents hate him!!!!!!!
redangel replied to redangel's topic in Emotions and Feelings
1) im 18 ryt now but when i finish my studies i'll be 21 2) he's 23 3)when i go there we see each other everday...i spent all my summer holiday with him and i'll see him again for christmas 4)becoz i love him and he's the pefect guy for me..no im not ready now becoz i have lots of things to finish and we're only thinking of getting engaged next yr -
hi everyone.... i'm having a problem that i cant stop thinking abt and its abt my future.... im in love with a guy that my parents really hate...and we're thinking of getting engaged next yr...my mom really hate the guy just because he's not that rich and he didnt finish his studies...actually he's a policeman!...4 other guys also talked to my parents abt me, 2 of them r doctors, one is a computer engineer and the other one is a dentist... my parents told me to choice between them and to forget abt the policeman and never think of him becoz he wont make u happy...i never told them that there is a relationship between me and this guy.. but they found out becoz of the way i talk abt him and how i start crying when they say anything bad abt him!!...we're sooo inlove...he told me that i'm going to talk to ur parents next yr and if they said no...i'll take u and go somewhere else alone...but i said no i cant live away from my parents!...i dont know what to do or how to tell my parents that we will be engaged next yr and how they r goin to understand all this..my mum really hate... i didnt finish my studies yet, but when i finish i'll be a computer engineer...thats why my parents dont want me to be with him...im going to be a computer engineer and im from a rich family, and he didnt finish his studies and a police man!!!...BUT I LOVE HIM and i know that he's the only one that will make me always happy...i see him only during holidays becoz i dont live in my country...but we're always in touch and he keeps telling me i'll wait for u even if it takes 10 yrs, i dont care and all he cares abt is being withme for ever...im scared of telling my parents abt him..becoz they really hate the guy..they told me that he's doin all this just becoz of my money but thats not true becoz he said we can live alone away from everyone!! help me plzz how should i tell my parents and convince them that he's the person that i want to spend my entire life with!!
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hi everyone...i just wanted to tell u that i talked to my dad abt how i feel and why is he doin this and that what he's doin is hurting my feeling and makin me think of stupid ideas...and what he did is, he came up to me and he gave me A HUG!!! and he said, i never knew that what im telling u is hurting u and he actually said SRY!!!...i just couldnt believe my eyes.. i also told him that why does he treat me as i dont belong to the family, when i said this, i could actually see tears in his eyes, i didnt know what to say after what he did, he said" i never meant to treat u in a bad way, but becoz ur the oldest i wanted u to also help me taking care of ur bro and sis and to understand that they r small and ur the oldest, but i never knew that what im doin this will bother u and he also said, i always say that u should stop what ur doin and shout at u becoz ur a grown up but ur bro and sis r not, u will undersatnd what im saying but they will not!!!... i felt so happy, i also wanted to ask him abt him telling me not to go to school, but i couldnt!!!.. i just couldnt after what happened i never fought with them again!!!.,..im happy and its all becoz of u ppl...thank u soo much...i love u all!
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hey: im glad that u feel better after reading what i said... i'll try doin what u told me to do with my dad... and i'll tell u what will happen
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hi everyone....i told u before that im going to tell u all my news!! and this news is going to be the best one ever...after reading what everyone said abt my story and thinking abt it...i couldnt sleep even the past 2 days....i thought abt what u told me...and now I STOPPED THINKING ABT HURTING MY SELF I STOPPED THINKING ABT SUICIDE!!!!!....i am sooo happy!!!!...i also told my bf whats happening to me and he said a lot of things that also had a big part in changing my life....maybe ur not going to understand this....but u people changed a lot of things that i wanted to do in my life!!!...maybe in future my parents will change..who knows... before i finish i have one last question, abt my father, he keeps telling me that if i did anything wrong he will stop sending me to school, i wanna talk to him abt it but can u plz tell me what to say??!....thanks again!! i love u alll lots of kisses Christine[/b]
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sure....i'll come here when ever i need help...and im sure u will help me coz thats the only thing that u all r doin so far i'll tell u my news and everything new abt me and my parents!
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hi Scout... i dont really want to talk to someone that knows my parents abt this...becoz they would hate them...ya i know that i hate them sometimes...but i dont want ppl to hate them too!!...and yes my life is hard....but u people r really makin me feel much better!!...i just wish that i could have a brother like steve and u scout in my life!
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i also paint...painting is the best way to express ur feeling!! i really feel better when i paint...but talking to u people and telling u abt my problem made me feel much better then before!...i just wish to stop thinking abt it...and ur right tomorrow didnt come...i'll wait for tomorrow maybe its going to be better... u people made me smile again....its only my boy that makes me smile...and now its also u...thank you
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thank for what ur saying...it made me feel much better...but i know that when i wake up tomorrow i'll start thinking of it again...i just cant stop thinking abt it... why do u live with people that u think they r not even ur parents...maybe when i die, my next life will be much better...i will live with people that love me and r ready to do everything i want!!...this is what i call life...what im living right now is hell!
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thx for tryin to help me....but i have no one to share my problems with... even my friends would call me crazy if i told them abt whats goin on and how im thinking....what should i stay alive if i dont even have a faamily that loves me...the only person that might stop me from what im thinking to do is my bf...he's the only reason that im might stop me from doin what i wanna do!!! i look at my sis and my bro the r havin the best life that anyone would ever have!!!! they get everything they want, but i dont!!! sometimes i ask my self why am i here...but i have no one to answer me!
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OK THATS IT.....i wanna do it, im scared of the pain!!!....plz ppl can u give me a way to kill myself but plz i dont want it to hurt me!!...
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im typing this and i cant stop crying....im all alone at home and im one step of doin something to my self "suicide"...im fed up!!!! i just hate my life!!!!!.....or wait!!! i dont even have one!!!! i hate everyone specially my parents!!! they're driving me crazy...i bet most of u girls go to ur mothers when u need something...but if i told her anything abt my love life....she would start screaming at me and she will go on and hit me!!!!IM 15 YEARS OLD AND THEY HIT ME!!!!!!!! my mum...cares abt my brother and she would do anything for him anything he wants...she would say yes to everything singel f*cken thing he want!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.....but when i ask her something she directly say no without even thinking abt it!!!! my dad...he's a jerk!!!! i always ALWAYS fight with him....i dont evn know what the fight is abt...and whenever i do something that he dont like...the first thing that he says is NO MORE SCHOOL FOR YOU!!!! i mean what the ....have u ever heard of this before a dad doin this!!!! today i wanted to go out with my friends after school but yesterday night i got into a fight with him becoz he told me to do something to my brother but i said no!!!!! so he said ur not goin to school tom and ur not goin out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!WHAT KIND OF FATHERS DOES THAT!!!!...I EVEN STARTED THINKING THAT MAYBE IM NOT THEIR DAUGHTER!!!!! THEY ALWAYS TREAT MY BRO AND SIS BETTER THEN ME!!!!! I MEAN NOTHIN TO THEM!!!!! I PRAY EVERYDAY THAT GOD TAKE ME AWAY...BUT NO ANSWER!!!!! IM SICK OF EVERYTHING!!! I HAVE ONLY 2 FRIENDS TO GO AND TALK TOO....AND NOW MY PARENTS R CALLING THEM B!TCHES AND THEY DONT WANT ME TO HANG WITH THEM!!!!! I DONT EVEN WANNA TALK TO THEM ABT IT!!!!!!! MY LIFE IS SCREWED UP...A YEAR BACK I LOST SOMEONE I LOVE BECOZ OF THEM!!! THEY FOUND OUT AND THEY TOLD ME NOT TO SEE HIM AGAIN!!! AND MY DAD ***EN HIT ME!!! I NEVER GO TO BED WITHOUT CRYING....I HAVE TO CRY EVERYDAY!!! AND NOW IM SCARED THAT THEY WILL FIND OUT ABT MY BF AND THEY WOULD DO THE SAME THING AGAIN!!!! I CANNOT LOSE HIM!!!!! HELP ME PLZZZ!!!
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She's with him, but we should be together
redangel replied to EnolWolf's topic in Relationship Advice
hi...i think ur wasting time..this is not love...if she really loves u then why is she with the other guy...what u should do is stop calling her and dont talk to her atleast she dumps the other boy...and if she didnt, dont talk to her or even see her...this will work trust me..im a girl and i know hows girls feel..she's doin all that just to piss u off!!! and make u jealous.. bbye