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  1. supradynbunny
    my ex dumped me after 6 1/2 years and still contacts me once in a while. You're so right. It does slow down the process of getting over him. I used to constantly watch my phone, but now, I keep myself busy with work and surround myself with friends and leave my phone in my bag. If he rings, he rings. I'm at that stage now, where I can speak to him on the phone and I won't get upset or anything.
  2. supradynbunny
    hehe... that's loyalty for ya.
  3. supradynbunny
    Hmm, just remembered My Chemical Romance - 'I'm Not Okay'
  4. supradynbunny
    any particular song by The Bronx, or just all their songs?
  5. supradynbunny
    You know, it's been 3 weeks since my ex broke up with me after 6 1/2years. I've been so depressed but yesterday my friend made me listen to this one song which made me smile and has made me feel stronger. No more crying. 'You Oughta Know' by Alanis Morisette Hey any more angry, make-you-stronger songs you guys can think of? Any genre. All welcome. 'Behind These Hazel Eyes' by Kelly Clarkson
  6. supradynbunny
    At the end of the day it's my ex's lost. I guess I was just too nice to him. I dunno... whatever...[i'm a girl with a big heart].
  7. supradynbunny
    yes exactly. if he doesn't love you anymore there's NOTHING you can do. I've learned that you can't change someone, nor can you force them to love you. If they're sticking "to their guns" then NC is the best way. Painful as it may seem, but there's nothing else to do. We just have to move on with our lives. What's the point in staying in a dead relationship. It's not nice if you're the only one that loves, and you don't get any back.
  8. supradynbunny
    I guess it can happen to people who just "fall out of love". It's painful when that person tells you, because it's like dropping a bombshell into a peaceful atmosphere. It's just so sudden. A shockwave of pain. And it becomes all so confusing and puzzling. And you wonder how long this person has been thinking about how to break up with you. People don't just "fall out of love" overnight. Something changed them over a period of time. My ex broke up with me after 6 1/2years. I still loved him, and I had no idea that he wasn't "in" love with me for a while, and I found out why those feelings disappeared. He'd given his heart to someone else, whom he'd befriended from work. They're just friends at the moment, but the other girl doesn't know how he feels yet. It crushes me everytime I mention her name out of jealousy, he would close his eyes, look down at his feet and smile.
  9. supradynbunny
    That's the thing, I want to be back together with him, but he doesn't. So if he's wanting to move on, then I have to. We've broken up before in the past, and each time is difficult. More so, because we've been together for so long. If he were to turn around to me and say he wanted me back, I would probably be foolish in taking him back, because he's done it to me twice before- just dumped me, and he would probably do it again at a later point, when he's tired of me or bored of me. I've come to realise that he doesn't know what he wants, and after all these years, he really isn't ready for a mature relationship.
  10. supradynbunny
    I know what it's like to be emotionally attached to someone. And letting go of that attachment and accepting it. I myself am trying to let go. I'm afraid of finding someone again whom I really care and love as much as I did with my ex. "Love is blind" but you need to see the clearer picture here. You have to be optimistic. He's not the only man in the world.
  11. supradynbunny
    A second chance? But do you seriously think you deserve to be treated like that? All the things you explained in your post. Do you want him to treat you like that?- Of course not. No one deserves to be treated like that, no matter how funny or sweet he is. It all may be a facade. He knows he's got you wrapped round his finger. And you know that you are on another league. You're better than him. And you can do so much better. Why go for second best? You have to be strong and be true to yourself.
  12. supradynbunny
    When someone says they're gonna change. They'll change for a little while, until everything starts to feel normal, and settled, and then they'll go back to the way they were. They NEVER change, no matter how much you want them to.
  13. supradynbunny
    Also, what does "NC" mean? Everyone seems to be mentioning that in the forums.... sorry I'm quite new to this.
  14. supradynbunny
    Well, my friend once said, "Once there's a crack in a relationship, it will never be sealed".
  15. supradynbunny
    You're definitely not alone. I just broke up with my boyfriend of 6 years. Well, he broke it up with me. He just stopped loving me. Crying, is all part of the process. It's only been a week since we broke up, and the first few days I cried constantly until I got tired of crying. Even now, I still want to cry, but I keep thinking to myself that it's not worth it, for the way I've been treated. For the last week, I have been constantly surrounding myself with my friends, and people whom I've not spoken to before at uni, but building new friendships and keeping my mind occupied with work and studies. Although, when I go home, I see some of his stuff still lying around which I haven't had the time to put away. And the feelings do come rushing back. It's hard. People say, "Be strong", but really, it's easier said than done. It DOES take time. But the best thing you could do now, is let everything out, surround yourself with friends and keep yourself occupied. I thought I never had any friends when I was with my boyfriend. I realised now that I've neglected that part of my life, and I know that there is more to life...
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