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So me and my girlfriend broke up after a year of going out like a month and a half ago. She seems fine without me and I miss her a little but I don't think we will go back out because she seems fine now. Any ways a couple weeks ago she told me she really cared about me and if I didn't hang out with this other girl we would be going back out but now she doesn't seemed like she wants me that much anymore. Well she told me to tell the other girl that I still have feelings for my "ex" and we shouldn't hang out right now and I didn't want to lead her on. Well I guess she "hates me" now because of this I think. My friend says that she probably doesn't, but I was wondering if their is a way of her to make her not hate me anymore? If I told her that my ex wanted me to do this would that make it worse or no, I'm not sure how she would take that? Anyone have any ideas of what I should do or ideas from her to stop "hating me"? I miss my ex still but I don't know if we have a future together anymore. Also it's not like I want to go out with girl right now but she is pretty cool and I want to be friends again.
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Yes I have told her how I feel. I have taken time away from her and she calls me almost everyday now so she must miss me. She wants to hang out more and wants to get back together. She is being like this because at first when we broke up I kinda liked this other girl but it was sort of a rebound and I don't have that much of feeling for her anymore.
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No I still really like her and want to get back together. I don't know how I should treat this though.
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We agreed about it
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OK so me and my girlfriend of a year broke up like three weeks ago and like a couple of days ago we hung out and everything was great and we still really connected. This other she thought liked me but I told her I didn't like her. But she was looking through my phone and saw that she called me and I told her why. We hung out but it was with other people so it wasn't anything really. She was really mad and she almost cried. She tells me how much she likes me still and that. She told me that we would probably be going back out if she didn't find that out because she realized that she really missed me after we hung out. I don't know if this is a big deal because to her it seems like it is. We weren't going out at the time either. She says she is mad about the situation and it will take time and that. What should I do is this a big deal or no?
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Seven years (acoustic) by Saosin Can't think of any right now!?
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I know I miss her so much though. I think I may wait two weeks until spring break is over and see how things are going. I want to ask her if we will get back together but I don't want her to annoyed with me at all is that a good idea? I want to call her so bad just to talk but I don't know if I should or not?
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No it wasn't while we were going out she thought I liked someone else. It was after we broke up because me and think girl started talking just in a friendly way though, she was cute but I still had so much feelings for my ex. We went out for a year if that changes anything.
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Yeah she thought I liked the other girl so she was kinda weird and I told her I didn't adn now she seems like she wants to get back together later on. I don't really like the other girl anymore before I thought she was cute but I wasn't sure about a relationship or anything like that right after a break up.
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I have done that sometimes she says she doesn't know but yesterday she seemed like she really missed me. She talked to me like we were still going out and she told me that the build a bear i gave her for valentines day she still sleeps with and it means a lot to her and that she still loves me. She also said she want it to stay like this for a little longer to see if her feelings are right and correct. Does that mean she is starting to miss me or something?
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Yeah so me and my girlfriend agreed to break up like a week ago. Well as you may have seen the other thread I sort of thought about this other girl, but now I am over her and miss my ex. We were talking yesterday and she said she wanted it to stay like this for a while to see if her feelings are right and she feels the same way. She told me yesterday that she still cared about me and that she still loves me and I just said ok and she told me she was serious. I thought about it and I realize how much I miss her and everything about her all the little things. But what does this mean what she told me? Does that mean she is still interested in me and would probably want to get back together later on if she still misses me or what?
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Any Suggestions?
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Here's a question though I think I may start to go after this other girl. Should I give it time as respect for my ex still knowing it isn't easy for her to see with me someone else because she has told me that she is mad I talk to her already. Also if I do start going out with this other girl would it make it easier to become friends with her or what, or would I have to wait for her to move on to actually be friends again ?
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???? Suggestions ????
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Well I still like her and if things change I would go back out with her but I don't want to sit here and wait for her so I am thinking about just pursing this other girl but giving it a little time out of respect for my ex. Also I still would like to be friends with her and that because I like her as a person and that but how should I go about doing that just work my way into it or what?
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I told her that she says she is busy but than when she is not she will like be with her friends and I told her I wanted to hang out and be with her and I said it doesn't seem like you want that though. She said that she never said that but I told her actions speak louder than words. Anyways yeah I talked to her last night and she said she didn't really know what she wanted right now. I think I'm gunna go NC because that is what this other "girl"friend said that has been through this. She says she still have feelings for me and this is hard for her as well. I can't really tell what she wants or anything. I think I may be starting to see everything now because today I didn't feel as bad as I did yesterday. Also I don't know if I want to get back together to have the same problems then feel sad about it and have to get over it again so do you think I should just move on or what?
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Yeah I feel really bad about it all. Also my ex is now getting mad at me for talking to this other girl though. We talked before when we were going out as well but she is getting really mad about it. I don't know what to do right now she says she wants her space but then now I don't talk to her and just let her be and she's mad that we went out for a year and we don't even talk anymore. What should I tell her or what should I do about that? I still have feelings for her to and she says she still cares about me and that but she is really busy now and wants some space and be with her friends. What does this mean? Is there any chance that means we could get back together later on or should I just start to get over it?
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Yeah that's what I told her that it's gunna take time for us to become good friends and that again. But for the other girl I will think about my ex sometimes and wanta be with her sometimes, other times I want to be with this other girl. I'm not sure what I should do? Should I just wait until I am over my ex or what?
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Suggestions Replys Neone??
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Me and my girlfriend broke up like a couple days ago on our 1 year annivarsiary. It seemed like we could of had a good realtionship but it just never worked out. Now I feel really weird still. I don't think we will get back together and I want to move on. Now I am starting to like this other girl even though I have feelings for my ex still. We want to be good friends still but it's hard we don't really talk now. I just want to move on and become good friends with her so I can see if I really like this other girl and see if a relationship would be good for us. I have been told that me and this other girl would make a good a couple and I have heard that she likes me aswell, so what do I do to move on and everything?
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So should I just talk to her and be friends for now and wait a while to become closer as in girlfriend, boyfriend?
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I see what your saying here. I would get kind of jelous if she went out with someone else right now. I think she is kinda jelous and won't admit as well. I still have feeling for her but then when I remember everything that I didn't like in the relationship I wanta move on.
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Yeah, I want a realtionship with her. Me and my ex never had a great realtionship I think we could of had. I want a good working relationship with her. There is still a weird feeling in me about all of this. I don't know if i miss my ex or what it is really. I have no idea what i should do or if i should wait and see if this break up is temporary and she will miss me and we can work it out or if its offical.
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So we and my girlfriend today was our one year annivarsy. We have been having some problems and we both agreed that it would be best for both of us that we just break up. Also their is this girl that I have started talking to for the past couple weeks or so. I kinda like her and that and my ex-girlfriend told me that she asks her one friend about me a lot. I was wondering if I should wait and see what happens between me and my ex that just broke up today, or should I just go after this other girl. I don't know if she likes me for sure but the way she acts seems like she kind of does. Should I wait a while see how this break up goes and wait on this other girl or what? I was talking to my ex about it and she I asked why she brought it up if she was jelous or what and she said no. Is she just saying that or what should I do?
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He could just be shy and afraid to open up. I was like that at first. It depends on how long you have been going out and where your are in your relationships.