hey... i'll tell everyone something that i never actually shared with anyone before.. and im telling u this becoz i know how exactly itry feels... bss the opposite thing happened with me.. its not my dad whos cheating, its my mum!! my dad is just the perfect, father, husbend everything!! lol i hear them having sex too but i always hear her talking on the phone with someone else... the first time i heard her talking was abt 2 or 3 years back.. ya i know, some off u will go like.. OMG 2 OR 3 YEARS!!.. but ya this is how it is... the first time i heard, i just couldnt believe it... my parens r like the best 2 couples that i've ever seen.. she was actually flirting with the other guy on the phone, i picked up the other phone and i heard them talking abt things that i dont even wanna try to remember it... i felt soo bad, i cried and cried aloooot, i wanted to tell my dad but i just couldnt break his heart... he loves her sooo much... and i kept all this inside my heart...until this day she talks to the same guy and i just cant do anything abt it.. i dont wanna ruin my dads life hurts me a lot.. but i cant do anything abt it...THATS WHY I SAID I KNOW HOW itry FEELS!... dont ruin their life, dont tell ur mum is she loves him so much, trust me that will break her heart!! lol i smoke too.. becoz of that.. im only 16 and i smoke a lot!!... thats the first time that i ever actually told my story to anyone..