I know what you're going through -- we're going on 2 years in a LDR, I'm on the West Coast and he's in Japan (he's Japanese). When we first met (online), he was in Japan, but going to Canada for 6 months to study English. We met online in February, and met in person in Toronto in April. A few weeks later, I went back to Canada for another looong weekend because we couldn't stand to be away from each other. Our love is very, very strong, but still, it's a totally frustrating experience sometimes.
I do my best to stay busy, which is what everyone suggests I do. He's busy, too -- he works 10-12 hours 6-7 days a week and he takes care of his 82-year-old mother, too. He's so busy, and with the time difference and all (17 hours!), we're down to talking on the phone once a day, for 15-20 minutes before he goes to work. (When he first went back to Japan last October, we talked 6 or 7 times a day!) It's really a good thing to talk to him every day, because it allows us to talk about what we did the night before, what we're up to that day ... all the little t hings. Sometimes we're just tired and we don't even talk, we just "sleep together" and I listen to him breathe. (I want to cry just now, thinking about it.)
Mainly, I think it's important to remember that a strong love can withstand anything. We don't even know when we'll see each other in person again (maybe in the spring, which will make it about a year since we kissed!) I know everyone says it's important to have plans for the future, but at this point we just don't. All we know is we love each other strong, and there's no one else either of us wants. It's just a matter of time, and him finishing up things he has to do there (his job contract, etc) so we can be together. So, I go with that and I study my Japanese and I'm getting my degree so I can get a visa and teach English in a year or so, and I don't push it -- he knows I want to be his wife. And he knows I'll go to Japan to live if he doesn't come here like he wants to. I guess I just don't believe in pushing the big issues on the phone when he's so far away... so I'm trying to be patient (hah! not easy!)
Right now I want to cry. In fact, I have been crying a lot tonight. Mostly I'm lonely. I'm really lonely for him. All I can say is hang in there, and love him, never stop. Talk to your sweetie on the phone, send him cards and emails (I send my guy a good night email every night and tell him how much I love him.) Send "care packages" frequently (I sent him a box just a couple of weeks ago, I put in a warm fleece vest, a bunch of warm socks, some good smelling soap... cozy things like that, because it's already started snowing there.) And just remember how good it feels to touch his hand and look in his eyes, and how good it's gonna feel when he's back and you can touch him again!