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  1. Hey guys.. I've never been on the pill because of reasons of side effects especially weight gain cos it's already easy enough for me to gain weight without it. I'm pretty paranoid and gave myself lots of pregnancy scares. I can't keep up with being mentally worn out worrying if i'm pregnant so I thought the best thing to do was get on the pill. What's the best pill to take girls? (Side effects, I just dont want the weight gain, i think i have harsh low self esteem or something but honestly i just wanted to know if you knew of one that didn't have effects of weight gain or do they all?)
  2. Hey there... That's a tough situation cos I know you really love her but looking in, the truth is that she's not putting in what 2 ppl need to do to make something work. A relationsihp works two ways right? You're giving a lot and you can't quite say she totally is. I also know you might think she's 'the one' for you no matter how she acts now you love her too much to see that she may not be...The thing is, you never really know if someone is the right presonf or you..And somtimes it takes 1 gf, or a couple to realize what a relationship means to you and all that sort of thing...But the important thing is that the two of you feel the same way...You are 18 and though it may seem hard to move on, it might be the best thing to do at the moment. You've done a lot of the chasing, sometimes when you give yourself a breather and get your mind off her by keeping yourself occupied, she'll realize in time what she lost! Don't give up hope either...some couples sometimes get back together too you know? I definitely agree with you that she should try changing her habits cos its undersetable why you felt she may not have been completely trustworthy...But in the mean time, go out with your friends, keep occupied, kay?
  3. Hey I am really sorry to hear how hard this situation is for you. I know it's a lot harder to accept advice from those outside of the situation but looking in from the outside I honestly have to say that this relationship isn't stable. Like, if you imagine if you were married to him...Could you handle that you rhusband is on or trying ot get over a drug addiction, could he father and be responsible for your children, will he be there for you regardless. From the past, he hasn't shown many indications that he could fulfil any of these things. And when you're married it's a seroius thing...it is committment..I know you love him..i truly understand that also when u love someone you can be blinded from the bad things that may stand in the way by brushing it off because you just love him so much...So the best thing to do right now is not do anything you're not ready to do and honestly talk to him and lay it out. What you need in a relationship and what it takes to be together b/c it's not good for anyone especially yourself in this case to be left hanging if he may not be there 24/7 ..calling you when he wants like it needs to be stable..hold strong and dont do anything you might regret..you want the best for yourself okay?
  4. i took a test! im not pregnant! got my period 2 day!
  5. Would you all be scared too? Have any of you girls experienced a white fluid on your panties or while having sex too? I'm so scared to get a preg test shit
  6. Would you all be scared too? Have any of you girls experienced a white fluid on your panties or while having sex too?
  7. what are the symptoms of being pregnant? i should be getting my period today or tomrrow..3 weeks ago after sex, realized white slimey stuff on panties...many ppl said it was vaginal ejaculation..it didn't feel exactly like a man's cum but similar..i'm beyond scared i want to die..someone help me please?
  8. Hey I posted a message about 3 weeks ago about 'Vaginal Secretion' because about 3 weeks ago i found some whitish slimy stuff on my panties after having sex. I was assured that I probably 'came' and that it was completely normal for a woman. What I'm worried about right now and would very very much appreciate any advice or anything is that I have a period regularly every 28 days which means I should be having my period TOMORROW. Sometimes I even come a day early sometimes a day late. The question that's worrying me is that do you think that whitish slimey stuff could have been my bf's cum? I am so so scared...Please answer me quickly if you can..please..Has anyone else had this?
  9. Please advise if a woman can secret vaginal fluid due to sexual excitment (not orgasm) and would it be visible on her panties and what colour would it be once it dries up. Where can I read about it? This may sound like a silly topic but I am taking it seriously. Later, after having sex, I saw some off whitish fluid on my panties and I dont know what it is, should i be worrying?
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