katykitten

I wish i could talk 2 her but I cant. My best friend thinks it would destroy her and Im kinda inclined 2 agree. Im not 100% sure I could trust him but I am 99%. He and i talk about everything. (well, except this situation) he and she cant b honest wit each other. she will not have an argument and he cant talk 2 her about stuff he should be able 2. I really wish this wasnt happenin, but it is. I Love both my friends and I hate myself for letting this happen but I just dont know how to deal with it.

I know its a long time since I posted my problem but things have just got a lot weirder. The couple involved are still together but a few days ago he and I fooled around again. There wasnt kissing just some finger-sucking and over clothes touching, however this time we were both 100% sober. I feel terrible for my friend but the truth is they just arent working out anymore. They cant be honest with each other. My heart is breaking because hes all over me one minute then gooy-eyed over his girlfriend the next. Its worse than that tho. My best friend and his best friend both think we'd make a better couple than him and her and that his feelings run more deeply for me than a simple friendship. He just pretends nothings happening. Im so confused.

Of course its not too late! Your twelve not thirty. I was 14 when I first kissed a guy and that was only for a dare. I then kissed another guy naturally when I was 15. but the first kiss that matter wasnt til just befor I was 16. One of my best friends is 17 and hasnt kissed anyone but I dont think there is anything weird about that.

Hey, It's natural and generally it's only embarrasing if its happening in public. (But hopefully these things are kept private) Most of the time girls will not be freaked out as long as they are mature, and quite often they do like it.

Im sorry to say this but at this point in time the age gap is too big. I cant be sure but this girl probably sees you as a cute guy who is great to talk to but not boyfriend material. It may suck but the truth is this relationship wont work but who knows, maybe if your still friends in a few years it might.

It sounds like this guy is a bit of a sleaze. Or possibly he is flattered by your attention so thinks its ok for him to flirt with you.

I think you know that girl number 2 is the best bet. Ok, you think girl 1 is better looking so I can understand the confusion but if you think she's a bit simple you'll get bored after a while. Girl 2 will keep you interested.

I've noticed tht all the replies so far have been from guys so I thought I'd give you a female opinion. Girls do like guys they cant have a lot of the time. (Just look at my post) and the guy who wears his heart on his sleeve can be cast aside. BUT, more often they go for the guys they can have. Guys just rarely make their feelings known so sometimes they miss out on the girl.

Ok, first things first you can never MAKE someone fall for you. (I know, I've tried.) Your best chance in winning your girl is to be yourself and to be honest. Let her know that your interested. Arrange to do something just the two of you but dont make it too intense. A coffee, a walk or a trip to the cinema would do. Tell her that you like her but make it clear that you are happy to just be her friend. If she is interested she'll be incredibly happy if not she should be cool and you shouldnt be embarrassed.

From your first post it sounded really like this girl REALLY liked you and Im pretty sure that she held eye contact when you were alone not because she couldnt see you but because she wanted to. Dont be too worried about the text as there are plenty of reasons that she might not have replied. She could have run out of battery or credit or she mite not have received the text. If you decide to send another try to sound laid back and if there is anyway to do so on your network get a report that the text was sent. I dont think that you are in love with this girl but it does sound like a retty intense crush. If possible talk to a female friend about the situation. You sounded pretty insecure from the way you said not many people like you and Id just like to reassure you that you sound like a great guy. Good luck with your girl.

Although you may find yourself stuck in the friend zone with some of your girl mates, it completely depends on the girl. I for one have a tendency to fall for guys after they become my friend because I care a lot about them. however some girls do see there guy friends as just that: friends. they prefer to keep potential love interests at a distance.

Please dont give up on love. ur only 17 after all. I know a man who didnt get married until he was in his 70s but he still found his soulmate. Im sure you dont want to wait THAT long but the likelihood is u wont have to. I've never had a boyfriend but I wont give up on the idea of having one. Everyone deserves someone and Im sure you'll find them if u wait patiently.

Ok, I could really do with some good advice as I have a problem that is driving me mad. I have been in love with this guy, who is a really close friend, for almost a year and a half. He doesnt feel the same way which i know because he has been going out with one of my closest girl mates for almost ten months. In itself this situation was heartbreaking as I had to cope with him turning to me for help in their relationship. However it got far worse a month ago when we ended up drunkenly kissing at a mutual friends party. Only one other person knows and it is not his girlfriend. oddly, nothing has changed between us and we are still really good friends. Despite this Im going insane. I feel so guilty for cheating on my friend but Im also pretty devastated. whenwe kissed i kind of thought this meant he liked me. otherwise why would he jeopordise his relationship? He may sound like a jerk but he's not. he's so sweet and he really loves my friend. he just made a mistake. One thats really hurting me.