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Level of sharing, especially with strangers may be cultural as well as personal depending on how outgoing you are or what the norms are culturally with regard to talking about yourself. As far as these particular questions this (dating app?) friend whatever was asking they're very general and people usually answer them in vague useless ways anyway. Such as what are you looking for in....? What are people going to say? "I'm looking for an axe murder" or "someone with a smile and a sense of humor"? So in a way the questions seem kind of useless.

This is a great idea to prevent burnout as well as simply focusing on one thing or another. Perhaps join some groups and clubs get involved in sports and fitness, take some classes and courses, broaden your social horizons. This way you can round things out and not get "addicted" to any particular thing.

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Please stop stalking her and getting drunk it's self-destructive and self defeating.

Sorry this is happening. Hopefully you are ok and not suffering from postpartum depression or stress from new motherhood. You seem quite emotional and doim-scrolling is making this far worse. As you mentioned while you're doim-scrolling and obsessing over this you're neglecting your own life and newborn. Please stop doing this to yourself and turn disengage from sensationalist news and social media. Perhaps check in with your doctor about postpartum depression?

Now that most of your stuff is sorted out, it's time to delete and block on everything if you're getting hate mail. Dragging out the breakup and rancor isn't doing you any good. Stop taking the bait.

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Sorry this is happening. How long have you been dating? How old is she? How is your relationship otherwise? If you can't be supportive of her sports and achievements maybe you could reflect on the machismo and ego to understand your own insecurities. This is clearly a "you" issues not her issue so you've got some work to do. Are you good at any sports or hobbies? That could be a place to start. M

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Hopefully you are coming to terms with the fact that she left for someone else. Stalling replies doesn't really seem to do much except pretend that you are distancing yourself. However as long as you entertain her so-called confusion in general, you'll be on the sidelines pondering why the women in your life cheat, choose someone else and why you're fine with that and being a part-timer in your relationships.

Was this on a dating app? If so they seem like standard screening questions. Are you interested in dating or meeting in person? Otherwise why bother?

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Some people like this interview style banter. There are people who are actually flattered and think it's a sign of interest to be nosy. They seem like survey questions since you're not even interested in dating him. Perhaps he's collecting general data for his own experience when he meets some who wants to date him? But why bother answering personal questions when you're not even interested?

She's not a psychotic witch as I mentioned. It's just that you two don't get along and the biggest issue is camping at her place as "an escape", when you really should go home and brood or withdraw if you're in a bad or pensive mood. No one is suggesting you choose between your mental health and a GF, but you need to consider how compatible you are as far as personalities as well as start taking action and responsibility for your role as far as tuning out and creating competition and discord. You can switch out GFs as much as you like, but until you fix your home situation and moods after therapy the problem will follow you around.

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Please check with your local zoning board. Depending on your area and how restricted it is some things may be in violation of certain zoning ordinances. You probably can't do much about rude nasty neighbors but you can research laws in your jurisdiction. Alternatively you could consult an attorney as far as harassment. Please install a video home security system since things are escalating to verbal violence. If this neighbor becomes increasingly aggressive, just call the police to settle disputes about disturbing the peace.

That's ok. You can see a physician for an evaluation of your physical and mental health, get some tests done and ask for a referral to a licensed qualified therapist. Your parents don't go have to know anything because everything you discuss with any healthcare provider is strictly private and confidential. Just the tell them you're going for a checkup for the ASD and your doc is better for recommending a therapist than your parents would be. Please hold off on trying to date or look for a GF until you have your obsessions and anxiety under control. It's not fair or even feasible to indulge this right now.

Sorry this is happening. Please take care of yourself and the other stressors and voids In your life including your and your mother's physical and mental health. While it's understandable you're disappointed and unhappy you can't keep blaming a neighbor for living where he lives and causing all your unhappiness . Please stop staring out the window and monitoring him. He's not trying to get a glimpse of you. He served as a distraction and band-aid for all your other losses and problems but now you're angry that's no longer there. And that's not helping you feel better.

Sorry this is happening. Unfortunately he seems happy with the nebulous coasting along status quo. He keeps sidestepping the issue because it's convenient and you haven't walked away from this indifference. Please reflect if waiting around for someone who doesn't care is worth your while. Perhaps it's time to set yourself free to find someone who wants what you want and is enthusiastic about it?

It seems like you could ease a lot of things up for yourself by improving your home situation and making that a better place to retreat to. This would be a great topic for your therapist. Your GF seems immature and threatened, but camping at her place in a bad withdrawn mood after therapy isn't making this any smoother. Perhaps she's not a psychotic witch who wants to sever you from healthcare, but there is definitely control and relationship issues. Maybe she hates your moods and shutting her off more than she hates your therapist. That's something you can do something about. The best thing you can do is date nights. Go home after therapy and reflect. But when you're taking up space at her place interact, eat together and talk.

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That's ok. He can disagree that he doesn't need to look good to feel good. Many people are comfortable in their own skin. However your thread is specifically about his appearance and presentation so trying to clarify how bad it really was is on topic. At least he extended an olive branch for an attempted reset/restart. Even though you're not attracted or interested it was a polite move on his part. Especially after you walked off the date because of how he presented himself.