So I’m kind of conflicted of what I should do in this situation. My current partner and I have been seeing each other for a year now. We started off as casual last April and then became exclusive in mid June. We hit a grey area because he never asked me to be his girlfriend, but when I asked him how he felt and if he was thinking we were already in a relationship he said yes. This was in December. I only asked because I didn’t want to assume anything. Anyway, currently I can confidently say I love him. Again, I was left in the dark about his feelings since he hadn’t said anything about this topic. I ended up asking him once again how he felt and if he loved me. He said to me “love is a strong word” and that he “enjoys spending time with me” and “likes me a lot” I was just kind of sitting there like it’s been a year of us being in each others lives and you don’t know if you have those feelings for me yet? Doesn’t that…kinda sound off? he could just be taking alittle longer to develop feelings as I didn’t develop them right away, but my point is if I love him and he doesn’t feel the same, am I wasting my time here? It’s been a year..I just don’t know if I should give him alittle more time or if I should just cut my losses. My first thought was if he hasn’t developed feelings by now he won’t. Am I wrong in thinking that way?
