chilla

This girl is definitely not a virgin. She has 3 kids with 3 different men by the time she was 22, shes 26 now. My husband is a very well endowed man and I know some women may have a hard time taking a man that large because I did for the first month we were intimate. Ty's for your replies

I personally would not stay with a man if he didn't perform oral sex. I enjoy it too much to give it up.

Last night my boyfriend and I were in bed,( he had an affair with a girl he worked with for 6 months.) I asked him " I thought you didn;t like women who wore alot of makeup" (he always tells me how disgusting it is) he said I don't, I said "well the pic I seen of her she had it caked on" he said to me well sometimes she wore it and sometimes she didn't. I freaked out. To me he should be putting an effort in to tell me things I want to hear, like (yeah she wore alot of makeup, thinking about it now it was pretty gross, I didn't know what I was doing, I was screwed up )Don't ya think so or am I wrong? I also know that they had oral sex by this way. I said "you slept with her" he said no I didn't, we started to but just lasted a minuite. I said " what you liked her so much you got off that quick" he said no we tried and it wouldn't fit, she was too tight. Like what the hell is that, don't you think he should have said we didn't do it because I couldn't get into it I felt too bad. What are your opinions? Am I wrong for thinking this way? I am a 30 year old woman and my hubby is 32. Am I being imiture?

Thank you princess, your words are very reassuring, he hasnt showed signs of cheating again and he is making it his life mission to make it up to me. I am the one who brings it up cause I cant get over the pain. Your right I need to try harder ty

I found out 6-7 months ago that my boyfriend cheated with a girl he worked with(affair for 6 months) He ended up leaving me not to be with her but to leave town(Ithink its cause he knew I was getting close to finding out) He did some real terrible things to me during the affair, didnt care how badly I was hurting and I think purposely hurt me, . We ended up getting back together when I went to the city where he took off to and he wanted to try and make it work. I ended up pregnant and when I was 5 months pregnant I learned that he had kissed and had oral sex with this girl while we were together(I didnt know that before) I know way too many details of what went on between them. Being pregnant and in love with him I decided to stay with him but should I be with him at all? We fight over it on a regular basis, he says he will wait it out til I feel better cause he doesnt want to loose me but things arent getting better. I'm really hurt and destroyed over this. Should I stay or should I go is the question?

The thing is we are still together, I cry alot but keep a positive attitude around both my kids. I love him very much and thats why I'm hurting so bad after this. It's just I don't know how to teach myself to move past it and strenghthen our relationship, and impure thoughts cloud my head, like when he touches me a certain way I think to myself "did he touch her like that" does he think of her or is she just a bad memory to him now after it causing so much trouble in all our lives. He knows how bad he hurt me and says he would die before ever hurting me again, he is really good to me again, but I feel like I'm pushing him away all the time cause I can't stop thinking about it. Will it ever go away??????????????When??????????

I'm going through this right now and it is much more hurtful when feelings are involve. It is heart wrenching and the thoughts in my head of my hubby performing oral sex on her kills me more than the thought of intercourse.

I dont know how you do it. My hubby cheated once and I'm falling apart why would you stay for it to happen again a 3rd time If he ever did it again I would be gone he wouldnt have a 3rd chance. Good luck with that and remember there are other women out there. Learn to be happy again.

My boyfriend left me after 3 years. I had a susspision that he was cheating but he said he wasnt. He left on real bad terms and we ended up back together. I became pregnat and when I was 5 months pregnant I found out that he had been having an affair with a girl he worked with for 6 months. My daughter is 4 months old now and I can't seem to get over it. He did alot of terrible things to me during the time he was cheating. He told me then it was cause he was having an identity crisis. Stupid me I believed him and went after him when he left. He says he loves me to death and he has been trying to do anything he can to help me but it's not working. My life is falling apart, I can't shake the feelings of hurt that he put me through, or the visuals of them together. Please someone help. What do I do?