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Thanks for the input everyone. Most with whom I have spoken too over the last few days agrees that I need to divorce her. It will be very difficult seeing as I love her so much. She has not eaten in over 3 days and cries constantly. Did I mention she was admitted to the Psyc ward on Sunday night aftger she tried to OD on her pills? She cannot understand why I am "leaving her" after everything she has done for me. That makes me feel somewhat guilty but I know there is no excuse for making the same horrific mistake three times. Since I have had the house to myself I have been extremely lonely and look to work to occupy my mind. I feel that I have been able to make a clear headed decision in her absense seeing as she has not been here to distract my emotions. However, each time I talk to her on the phone, there is that part of me that wants to make it work but I know that cannot happen no matter what changes in the relationship. Those tactics have obviously failed in the past no matter the modification. Alas, I picked up the Divorce package at the courthouse today and plan to complete it tonight before she is released from the hospital tomorrow. I could not possible ask her to help me go through it, as it would be much too difficult for her to handle. Perhaps in another life we will be together again; we were not meant to be together in this one. Thank you all.

Wife of over 5 years has now cheated on me 3 times that I know of. My heart says stay but my head says go. She is davistated at the fact that I told her that a divorce is going to happen and wants me to reconsider. She blames her unhapiness from her unresolved childhood issues, the depression, the meds she is on, the city she lives in, the family she is away from, etc, etc, etc. I love her so much it hurts but cannot make a decision. I am a super nice guy and know I can succeed but I cannot imagine living without her. HELP!