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when ur with him, tell him how much he means to you and how much you care, and dont let him break eye contact because that means hes hiding something or hes hiding from your feelings and not listening. I have the same problem, im madly in love with ex that i was with 4 2 years and he broke up with me because he didnt feel as though he loved me enough and now were friends and iv asked him if he would think about trying again in the future and he replied with it might well happen in a few years time. but i understand how you feel you want him now and forever but i understand now that nothing can last forever especially when your at this age. I hope everything works out for you, i really do. at least someone will be happy. Im happy that im friends with my ex because who knows it could lead on to a better relationship in a few years time and it will hold us stronger together. If he wants to be friends now dont ever think that it wont happen again,because people change in the future and he just might well regret what he has done. Yes hes immature at 16 but werent we all? didnt we all do stupid things at that age, i know i did. i broke up with someone who i cared for and who cared for me when i just turned 16 because one of his mates told me that he was making passes at other women and it turned out to be a lie and i lost him forever because hes now engaged and he still dont forgive me or humiliating him. But i thanked him for letting me find the man of my dreams and now hes gone so nobody wins in this big game called life. Hope your ok and hope everything will be ok. Let us know how you get on Nat xxx

so your saying that i should act as if i dont need him any more even though i really do need him? And that mite work? Ill try it!!!, he does have borderline feelings for me...he just dont feel what he used to, hes not infatuated with me!!! ill stop all the un nessessary contact!!

he borke up with me becuase he thought that he didnt have the same feelings for me!!!... I dont know how he feels!!! but whenever i see him at martial arts class hes distant with feelings and hides by taking the mickey ouuter me!!! Its starting to get me down i think that when we start talking again i might write him that letter!!...is that a wise choice?

me and my ex broke up months ago.... I can kinder tell that hes no longer interested in me.. But even though i know that im still in love with him!!! Does anyone know how to get the man of your dreams back?

sounds like you two have a close friendship and a meaningfull one at that!!! Its nice to have a close friend, they are very hard to come by!! maybe she mite want something more!!! Or just maybe she mite just be being kind!! I agree with Kantoor we need more info!!! INPUT!! INPUT!!!

thanks for your reply!! Im gonna try the no contact rule but im scared that we will never talk to eachother again!!! I mean we both want to be friends but im scared that he will 4get about me or summit!!! especially if he gets a new girlfriend!!! i probably never see him again..... i just hope everything works out between us, and as long as hes happpy im happy!! (i luv him that much!!)

Im In the same position! my ex broke up with me and im madly in love with him!!...i cant bare the thought of never seeing him again etc.... But i do understand that everybody needs a certain amount of time to clear the air!!! And My ex and me have had 2 months apart and iv broken the no contact rule loads or times...but thats because i miss him and i see him every sat at my martial arts class!!....And guess what because we see eachother sometimes it takes longer!!! we both want to be good close friends to each other even though i will still love him deep down!! But if anyone broke his heart i will hunt her down and boy will she be sorry!!!

Hi i had a horrible break up with my ex boyfriend...he told me that he didnt feel what he used to feel for me and that it would be best that we broke up...but still be friends!! I agreed even though i am still madly in love with him...he means everything to me and i dont think i will ever be able to stop loving him or stop caring for him!! We werw together for 2 years!! which is a long time...my longest relationship!!! Im hoping that we can try to work out things and get back together in the future!!!....is it possible for relationships to re kindle like that? At the moment he doesnt want to talk to me or meet with me for a while (2 months) but he wont tell me why!! could he too be heartbroken? Please someone help me because i have become lost!! Thankyou for reading this!!!