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Lost1

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  1. ok.. so we talked but i think she's afraid of bringing up the relationship topic. how do i make it more comfortable for her to talk to me about our relationship and where we are now? thanks
  2. alrite she initiated contact with me yesterday on aim she we talked.. i kept it short and light.. didnt bring up the relationship thing broke it off with her rather quick. told her i had to go meet some friends and then when i came home today my friend tells me that my ex said love was stupid.. and that she didnt give a damn anymore well really.. i kinda want her back i know she misses me.. she told my friend so, but seriously i don't know if i want her back.. with the heartbreak i've been goin through and all.. but i'm willing to give it another try.. sooo.. besically keep nc for now or turn around and ask her to give it another try thxz for all ur help..
  3. thanks, to everyone this site has really helped me out with my problem and in 17 we've been going out for 10 months this will be out second week of no contact no contact is really hard but i think i'm doing ok thanks everyone
  4. help! me and my girlfriend went out for 10 months before she broke up with me because she "didnt feel the same about me" anymore. Anyway, I heard from some friends that she thinks i've moved on, when in fact i've only done no contact to make her miss me. I'm afraid that this might discourage her from coming back to me. How do i give the feeling that I havn't moved on yet without telling her? i.e. what could my AIM messenger profile name be, what might i put on my site..
  5. i've been in a 10-month relationship already (which is long term considering my age..) rite now im lookin for a gf... doesnt matter how long or anything i'll deal with that once i get one.. but i just need to have fun with a gf right now.. im feelin in the mood for one and i need something to keep me busy for the summer im not looking for anything in particular... and thanks for your help everyone do you know any tips/tricks/suggestions that would draw a girl to me..?
  6. haha.. thanks man.. really helpful and i know im doin it for all the wrong reasons.. but hey.. im young and dumb.. not lookin for long term stuff... ( mind you.. if the opportunity comes around im not gonna run away from it) but still.. i mean i just wanna have fun right now.. and any girls opinions on this?? if you met a guy.. what could he do to charm you and get you to go out with him in a short amount of time...
  7. i need a 'how to' guide on how to get a girl to go out with you in 30 days and keep the relationship going long-term and thats meeting her for the first time, asking her out, actually going out, charming her, then becoming bf/gf within 30 days dont be mad at me... i just need a summer fling.. and if it goes well i dont have a problem with it being more than just a fling its in summer school im 15 years old i've had 2 other relationships before (4 months and 10 months) hmm.. i think thats it.. help please..
  8. she's 16... chekk ur pm for a more in-depth look dragon and thanks for ur help.. really
  9. now she's saying that she thought she loved me, but she actually doesnt... and that's after i called her... now im lost ... and i love her so much and i kno i shudnt have initiated contact.. but i couldnt help it i think i just made things worse.
  10. i tried no contact it was a week ago today since we broke up and i initiated no contact right after... =( and she blames me for not askin her earlier to get back with her
  11. well.. i cracked under the pressure.. i called her last nite she was very cold.. with 1 word answers.. while i just went on and on tryin to hold the conversation... i told her i missed her.. and that i want her back.. but then she's like.. sorry.. u had ur chance.. its too late.. i have to move on advice plz?
  12. any advice for me? please? alone on a saturday nite =(
  13. couldnt agree more.. anywayz. the exact words were.. "its too late..." and stuff... like wth... she cant really expect me to chase after her like a dog.. and when i dont be mad at me? sheeesh... i love her but... wow
  14. it was a week ago today that we broke up because she thought she didnt love me anymore or didnt feel the same way about me... i initiated no contact right after we broke up yesterday she called and we talked for a while.. after talking she said she just wants me gone and i waited too late to contact her and get back with her.. funny thing is.. she broke up with me anyway.. so now after this no contact thing i think im worse than before.. she said she had hope that we could get back together, but after i didnt contact her to get back together, she gave up and said it was 'false hope'. Now i want her back so much more, and i dont kno what to do. we've been goin out for 10 months before the break up.
  15. i'm about to go on accutaine. my doctor warned me not to wear contacts but i have to.. do u think it would be ok if i wore them but just with a lot of eye drops and stuff...
  16. can a girl get an orgasm from just humping the guy? with all the clothes on?
  17. but i dont want it to get easier, i want HER back. and it just feels like i've lost the most important person in my life forever. i mean we had such good times that i've forgotten what i was like without her, and just it seems like she's gone forever.
  18. Day 3 2 days ago she broke up with me after we went out for 10 months, im soooo sad. she said she didnt think that she loved me anymore, or felt the same way about me as she once did. I'm about to die. She was my first everything, my first gf, my first kiss, my first love. We're both 15 and i'm dying without her. The day we broke up i showed no weakness. Didn't cry, beg, or plead. I just simply agreed, and said goodbye. Two days ago i came accross this site in desperate need of help and read all the posts. I started no contact with her 2 days ago and she still hasn't contacted me. We do not go to the same school so I don't kno how she's feeling or if she's found someone else. I came home from school today and immediately picked up the phone to call her, but hung up before i pressed the last number. I'm okay with the NC plan its just that i don't want her to forget me at all. I love her so much and i know she's sad. i'll keep you all updated, please comment and give me advice, i don't know what to do, i've never felt this kind of pain before. It just hurts a lot. I'll keep you all updated as the days go by
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